Dear mrdynamite and Nnelly: Rest assured that I would never pressure a lady to do anything ever under any circumstance. I was just asking a question and now I know the answer to that question. My "maneuver something" simply meant "work something out" but was badly worded and unfortunate. I would have never reached out to the lady until someone could verify there was more to this ad. As soon as I knew there was not more i let the topic drop.
thank you for replying and agree with your perspectives on the topic rest assured