Hi, I am a healthy, slim and fun/funny man in my late 40s looking for some sensual pleasure from a young (under 30 ideally) lady who is safe, discreet, independent and open to non-penetrative alternatives like lapdances, shared showers, mutual touch. I dont want someone who does any unsafe (w/o condom) practices since I really dont want to run any risk of passing on an STI (I am clean). Does anyone out there have recommendations. Many thanks, Dan