Hi everyone. I am new to this community and this forum. The reason I joined this forum is that i have for years been searching for a good experience with an SP. I have tried meeting with 2 different ladies in the past few years and things have not gone well. Everything seems rushed, pressured to get right to it, asking repeatedly " what do you want me to do, what do you like, what do you want me to do now, etc." I am quite a shy guy, and small talk to a very attractive girl makes me a bit nervous and awkward on a good day, and that is only amplified during an encounter such as this. I have also had the ladies say after the fact " you can't touch me there, I don't do that, I don't do that position, etc." I'm not looking for any fetishes, or anything out of the ordinary, just an experience that doesn't feel so cold and just a financial transaction. I understand that essentially that is what this is, but I'm paying good money for a good service and I think a good SP should be able to make it feel more natural and at ease. I have tried to talk to SP's in advance to ask if we could discuss expectations in advance to eliminate that awkwardness, as once things progress my shyness goes away. But none seem to be willing to clear things up and make restrictions or expectations known in advance, ad's can be very vague on this. I understand that somethings need to be vague for a reason, and I am not asking to get into vulgar descriptions either. But the only response I can ever seem to get is "ok babe", "yes love", "sure dear", or the most popular, "yes i'm available" when I asked a couple easy questions. Maybe I'm totally out of line, I know SP's must deal with alot of BS during the run of a day, but how else can both parties have clear expectations. Thanks
