Prince Clay

Furthermore, you talk as though I don't have SW as friends and associates. I do. I understand the threats and risks they live with. It doesn't change my position.

Yes it's a luxury. It's quite expensive for an hour , let alone two. I just have to meet the SW first before I pay them anything. You can pile on all you like but the fact remains: I am at risk also, not just of being scammed, but by being let down by an otherwise earnest SW, even though it could be avoided by a 5 to 10 minute meeting a day or two beforehand. I didn't bring up therapy, you lot did. It was a dig at me lol. "Maybe you should go get therapy" ...well the same goes to you. I support therapy for everyone. It should be covered by healthcare.

http://www.femdomtb.com/videos/19545/mixed-wrestling-zone-orsi-vs-clay-the-rematch/ This is back when I had short hair, so I guess maybe over 15 years ago. Crazy! A highlight of my life, as Orsi was a lot of fun to wrestle. If I google "Clay vs mixed wrestling" on google I get all kinds of results. It's as embarrassing as it is flattering. I'm in much better shape these days I like to believe. Squats really help, and moreso with the gender dysphoria than growing out my hair ever did.

People always tell me that. "maybe this isn't the place for you". And many also try to diagnose me. Well, I suspect that is gaslighting.

Yes that's very relatable. I relate with the ladies. Also, I'm cautious and jaded, and I know my worth. So, unless you're a well known session wrestler ..I request a meeting first.

Don't misinterpret me. I have savings. I am just particular about who I pay. Good bye.

I'd prefer a meeting in person, most of the time my phone isn't even activated lol. Especially being into specific kinks, that require some force and domination, I like to meet who I'll be paying, over coffee or tea. I don't take this sort of thing lightly, it's an investment. I don't come across money easily so I like to be particular about who I pay for this. I've had bad experiences in the past and really I can't take any chances either. I don't feel like I'm in a powerful, privileged position here, it's just for my own emotional and financial safety.

I guess I'm just old fashioned. I have to hear your voice, get a vibe. To speak in person, eye to eye, so we understand each other. It's really not so unusual. Have a great day.

I've had encounters that were a waste of money, with people who were not so passionate. I've also worked with fellow fetishists to have marvelous encounters and events in Toronto, Greece, London and even Hell(Michigan!) xD I've played the role of a SW myself, as a session wrestler anyway, briefly. It prefer quality over quantity, so my success rate isn't what's important. The times this *has* worked, it has worked remarkably well.

It's nothing personal. I just have to meet someone in person before I can hire them. The way they speak, their scent, their body-language. It's just nice to know what I'm paying for, for that fleeting hour.

It's common enough to be the norm, but I know at least two sex workers who take matters into their own hands and have no backup. It does seem risky, but they are independant, socially capable women who make sure they know who they're seeing well ahead of the event. I've always wondered about the "no black gents" thing. It's given me mixed feelings, especially when I see it on a black woman's ad. I never see "no white gents", but I'm not sought after, either. It seems to me that most escorts are looking for "the perfect client" ...and sadly in their imagination that perfect client is rarely black. So people say it's due to having black "handlers" or "agents" but still looks like petty racism from my view of it.

She's on the "domme and fetish" listings on leolist and I've seen her advertise for years using the same photos. I've been steeped in the kink community in Toronto and I will warn you all that dommes are very much their own creature and even when you're paying $300-$400 an hour as a client it's still rarely about you, if ever. That said, I never met the lady. She seems legit, but ...entitled to a fault(relatable xD)

lol well if you're not willing to send a non-sexual pic of yourself proving that you're real, then you'll likely never get hired by me bc I require a meeting in person in a public space before any money is exchanged. Works every time. Anyway it'd be nice to book a lady in Truro, as I grew up there and the nostalgia might really add to the experience. It's a cozy town.

Very sad. I did see her ad and sent a message. She seemed willing, at least, to explore my kinks, but she said she had to travel soon, so I passed on the opportunity. I need about a week to mentally prepare for a "date", otherwise I'd have hired her.

Hello! I live in Halifax. I'm male but I still id as trans, bc I'd rather be a woman. Anyway, that's besides the point, but I find it helps to mention this in order to avoid issues about it in the future. I don't care what pronouns you use for me lol So I'm looking for a woman to beat me up, or even just to squeeze me and bully me, whatever. There are hundreds of scenarios I can imagine but I won't bore you with that. You can be creative. Be a Russian spy or an MMA fighter, just leave me bruised and battered and sufficiently dominated. If you don't like the idea yourself but know some tough lady who'd like to wrestle or use a person as a punching bag, please do let them know I'm looking for this as a service! Thanks in advance.

I request to meet first, always, for a coffee or tea in a public place. If the escort or domme refuses this, I assume they are a scam looking for an easy deposit. I have also been scammed in person by a horrible, monsterous woman in Toronto, but at least she was a real human who I actually got to meet lol I'm trans, but also gender critical, and a kinkster too. I get denied service for all kinds of morally questionable reasons, but I get that it's all about preferance and comfort(the feeling is mutual). I understand that sex work is hard work, and also a form of exploitation(most work is), but I have never been so denied, decieved and betrayed as I have been among sex workers. It's extremely disappointing.