Andee of Burlington

Just so you guys know. Providers aren’t the only scammers in this business. There are lots of would be clients who like to fantasy book and don’t show up, those who negotiate unsafe services or lower rates. I can tell you that as an experienced provider and Booker for other ladies, those who are available for say at 10 hour window might have to navigate 40 or 50 inquiries to actually only book 1 to 3 calls. The amount of time wasters and no-shows has gone up dramatically in the last couple of years. I would not want to be a young provider getting into this business now.

Reputable providers who are verifiable require deposits because without them, they could end up sitting in a hotel room, like the lady who only got a few bookings. But due to the number of clients who don’t want to pay deposits or a travelling ladies rates because after all hotels are expensive, that is why ladies who I know who used to travel to Kingston, don’t anymore because it’s just not financially feasible.

There are no moderators, so it’s a free-for-all where these girls advertise. Because even if they wanted to advertise in the advertising section, unless you were already granted access there in the past., no new girls can advertise. In fact, I lost my original profile and they reinstated me with another one but without my former privileges so I can’t even advertise there and I was a CERB member starting in 2010.

I don’t think you should be posting this on an open forum. You are setting yourself up to be targeted as someone who cannot be discreet so clients are going to question whether or not you will publish their information if you’re not happy with them. If this girl was truly raped, then it’s up to her and the club owner to call the police and deal with it. Although you think you’re being helpful, I can guarantee you there’s going to be blowback from this post and if you worked at the club, they know who you are. If I were you, I would remove this immediately.

With the cost of advertising on Leo list, I can assure you that they are playing the long con and will eventually be asking for money or as suggested by some members they will get you on video and then try to extort you. If somebody is just looking for friends with benefits they would just go on personal dating apps or post in personal ads, not escort ads.

I would never go to a hotel unless I had the clients legal name and room number. And before I would set out, I would call the hotel and ask for the room number to make sure that they are really there. The reason I would need their legal name is sometimes reception will ask for the name of the guest. In other words, I would never go to an out call to a hotel that was booked by a client from his mobile phone only. Call me old-school, but when I first started in this business when it was out call only, that was the norm for booking calls to hotels. If it was somebody’s residence, they would give us their name and phone number and we would actually look them up in the phonebook and then call them back to make sure that they answered because we didn’t have called display then to make sure they were legit. But now with cell phones and text app numbers it’s a lot more difficult to verify a real address. So as you might imagine, unless I receive a deposit, I am not going to somebody’s place of residence because of the number of fake bookings that often occur. When I am told that they won’t send a deposit because they’ve been scammed what I say to them as well you want me to trust you, but you’re not willing to trust me well, sorry I’m not going to make the trip without it and if I was going to scam you, I think I would ask for more than $50 because I’m not willing to waste my time leaving my place just to find out when I get there. It’s a fake booking. It happened to me twice and I wasn’t going to go for a third time. It’s unfortunate that there are so many scammers out there but it’s not just providers who are scamming clients. It’s also would be clients playing around with our livelihoods.

Montreal or Toronto.

Car dates are illegal and I am not trying to judge the OP, but men who are predators always look for providers who are not able to offer a safe place to work from. It is also not wise to post somebody’s information on a public forum, especially if you’re still working and could be sought out or set up by that person in the future.

The problem is some are photoshopping the verification sign onto fake pics and submitting them as real.

I know providers who used to tour Kingston but with the price of hotels and the number of no-shows and the reluctance of most clients to send deposits, it’s just not worth it anymore.

Be honest and don’t mislead about services or rates, don’t upsell and have a clean and safe location and just be real and unless client misbehaves, give them the full time they paid for.

Good luck finding an admin

No moderation here. I can’t even post an ad anymore.

Get tested and always get a covered bj next time.

not with standing religious or moral beliefs, I was always puzzled by the fact that consensual casual sex is accepted more than consensual monetized sex. in other words, it’s OK to be a slut rather than a whore. Such hypocrisy, if you ask me.

This forum is about online providers, so why would you be asking if anyone has met them?

Sorry to say this, but you should’ve called the police after it happened. It’s pretty difficult for you to expect the police to believe you after the fact. If they investigate, what evidence do you have? I suppose you could call and give them the heads up if you know where she’s working out of, but even then, the reason why they get away with this is because customers are reluctant to call the police because buying sexual services is technically illegal and they fear that they will be arrested even though the other parties are clearly extorting them. this is a totally different world than I operate in which is unfortunate because once a client is exposed to it, they will think that all providers are scammers and not be able to distinguish between legitimate ones and fake ones. Just be wary of ads that seem too good to be true, the provider being available, 24/7, posting in multiple cities, phone numbers with area codes from different provinces, or even the United States, only being able to book by text instead of speaking to them on the phone, dubious pictures, sketchy locations, asking for money, upfront without any reputation, and finally trying to upsell you when you kept there or taking the money and not providing the service. Or having a handler show up to throw you out and or rob you. Unless you have text messages that can be traced to them which contain threats or evidence of coercion you’re pretty well up shit Creek without a paddle, unfortunately.

I treat my clients like I would any other person who I deal with. If they are courteous and clean and do not try to push my boundaries, then I give them my attention, and I treat them with respect and kindness but I’d never fake be nice just for the sake of being nice if I don’t feel like it, if. If a client mistakes that for more than it is, he will probably reveal that to me at which point I will kindly remind him of the fact that this is a business arrangement and most times they are cool with that. Just because I am nice to you doesn’t mean that I am in love with you or want to pursue a relationship . I’m treating you like I would any other person who is decent to me. So why should it be any different just because I’m a provider. Those that play up the be nice just to get something out of the person will find themselves burning out quite quickly. If I don’t care for a client, the first time I meet him I have the choice to never have to see him again. I can count on one hand over the years the number of clients that I had to set straight about our arrangement because in their head, they let their fantasy run away With what they perceived to be something that wasn’t true, but I didn’t let it go on long enough to do any damage. I think it takes intuition, maturity, honesty, and astuteness to recognize when one needs to address the elephant in the room. If the other person is unwilling or incapable of being on the same page as you then that’s when it’s your obligation to recuse yourself of the situation and not let it get out of hand. sometimes providers and clients do attract those who are infatuated with them and may pursue them, but I think that is in the minority compared to most provider/client relationships

I have been in escorts since 1991 and I’ve never been involved in a sting operation. I can tell you that the police are only interested in catching people who are involved in human trafficking, especially underage providers, and those working against their will or where there other activities going on that are illegal, such as John’s, cruising outdoor sex, workers, extortion, drug, dealing, etc. if you are seeing providers to work indoors and it’s consensual, and there are no other nefarious activities going on, then you don’t need to worry about sting operations. This is Canada, not the United States.

Sadly, I do not think that this site is being moderated which means you cannot get verified. Like I said, I’ve been trying over a year and I was a member since 2009. I could no longer post in the escort schedules and announcement forum for my city. When talking to other providers they are telling me that they do not get much business from this site anyway so all I can suggest is something that I don’t really want to encourage, but just do like everybody else and introduce yourself in the general area and hope somebody pays attention to who you are.

My account was also locked out a while ago when it requested to get back in they created me a new one and I lost all of my history and ability to post ads. No one has responded to me in over a year about this.

I was locked out of my original account which I set up over 10 years ago. When I emailed the administrator, they created me a new account with no reputation and the inability to post ads. Now I noticed that providers who cannot access the schedules and announcements under the city ads, are now posting their ads under general, because there is no moderation. so what I’m trying to say, is reports that I have done and request have gone unanswered in the past year which shows me there is nobody moderating this board and things have gotten out of control. It’s a shame because back in 2010 this board when it was called CER,B was rocking.

If your friend wants to be verified so she can advertise on Lyla, if you read the page that precedes each city’s escorts listing, it outlines how to get verified.

Emily Rushton travels there on occasion.

When I reminded a client of how old I was he said I get better with age.