Truthfully,I haven't seen much of Ashley Vixen, the Italian Goddess, (Thin, personable, caring). But she was one of the best well- rounded dancers that I admittedly became something of a habitué, a true fan of not just her dancing but who she was with me. It may sound rather unique but I consider her a good friend of mine even though I haven't heard from her since she left the club.
Especially the fact that unlike almost every other dancer I've seen, met , or had the opportunity to talk to, she always remained very real in character. Even if she was going through her own struggles in life I I can assure you that she is one of the few human beings on this Earth that actually cares about every single individual no matter who they are or they come from what they done or what their problems are she would put her personal life aside and take the time to reach out to those few people in the underground world that everyone else would ignore our cast aside.
..... Just to give you an example :
(1) I can recall a night where she and I were going outside to smoke and the DJ had mentioned to her that she was going to be on stage in two songs and that meant she had to go out very quick. Well outside on the side of the building she encountered a man lying on the floor face up and another man running away from the area. To make a long complicated story short she quickly called 911 and stayed with a man who was overdosing until he woke up, and not downplaying the fact that she did have to give him some CPR before he even opened his eyes and was breathing. This was truly amazing because I was really scared in the situation and I tried to persuade her to just go back inside but she was determined to help this otherwise helpless person which is very admirable. Later on Ashley had mentioned to me that this man had returned to the club about a month later and talk to her about that night, and he was not only thankful but he openly admitted to her that her act of kindness is the sole reason that he would be going to rehab to change his life.
(2). Another quick fact/ story about Ashley: she was able to find the time to save not one not two but four separate other dancers who names shall not be named. One dancer she was able to aggressively remove her best client from coming back to see her because he was literally encouraging her fentanyl problem even causing her to go to the hospital more than once. Ironically enough that exact client ended up trying his dancers stash for the first time and he ended up overdosing and passing away. Another dancer was kicked out of the club and had nowhere to go literally so she was living on the streets Vanier. One day Ashley spotted her and remembered her face while she was being domestically abused on the street only to find out later that she was already 4 months pregnant. Again long story short one of the customers from the club was jealous of Ashley's kind actions towards what he called a street hooker, so much so that he decided to go find that girl on the street and punched her right in the stomach. Ashley spent almost her whole night with that girl talking to the cops and making sure that she would go somewhere she would be taking care of. The last two girls, 1 she actually adopted as a family member and the other she still remains good friends with today and even though this girl was actually her senior, I can think of countless times that Ashley told me about getting a phone call and running to her aid for her and her children let alone her safety.
.... This is just few stories of the many things that Ashley would do while also trying to make a living,create a clientele base, pay her bills ALONE, all while dealing with other dramatic people in the strip club environment.
So I just wanted to end by saying that this is why Ashley is over all the best dancer. Not only did she capture our attention, but she moved and touched my heart into understanding what it really means to be sympathetic rather than judgmental.
