I met someone who had a thing for me for years and I had little knowledge of it as she would only see me when I showed up for my bi weekly schedule at her place of work. One day she made a move knowing I was in a toxic relationship, and handed me her number. Asks to go for coffee with me, and I said yes. She shows up completely different dolled out and we go get coffee’s and agree to go walk her dog. In that moment she confesses she typically charges for this… I’m like wow wow wow I had a thing for you but I ain’t paying for this LOL… she replied not at all I like you and have for a long time… so now I’m processing but hey there’s no handbook to life so I replied “Ok just clarifying” with smug look and smile on my face…
fast forward we see each other for a while and in that time I learned about a whole different eye opening fetish… “first time for everything right lol”… odd but hey don’t knock it until you try it and to be fair everyone is different and we all have a thing where we desire to be seen and feel safe/ not alone… she had a thing for having a family… kids… so what got her there like lickity split was talking and role playing about the son or daughter we had and how they were doing in school… their name, what the teacher was saying about their report card … etc…etc you get the idea. I share this not to make fun but to say we all have our own thing and that’s ok. Different for sure! So I thought id share…
