Kinky123

I've been having a few few SPs already and can help here: -As a customer, how do you stay professional ? Are there times you think some SPs are great people and you want to know better personally? You just need to be courteous and of good company at all time, as with anyone else. Everytime you ask a personal question about a SP, remember that its security is depending on its anonymity. They are exposing themselves to stalkers and scammers too and you could be viewed as one of those anytime, its in their interest to not divulge such information after all. Personally I don't expect the truth everytime I ask a question too, but its good to at least build trust, it is still an opportunity to do so and its always kind to show interest and that you're not full of yourself, whatever the SP decides to do with it after entirely belongs to this person. Mind that these SPs, with a lot of experience, exactly know what to say to some customers anyway, its not just a game, its an investment for them. Never engage with SPs if you aren't emotionally stable or aware, if you look for a serious relationship, or able to accept that this will just be roleplay at most. If you are looking for personnal relationship, stay out of SPs directories.

I'm sorry for you man, and thanks for reporting this kind of behavior. As a mugged victim in the past (in Montreal area) it can be a terrifying experience, I've had 4 people jumping on me while I was half-naked in the apartment, as I started with the girl, and they made it looked like I was a thief caught in the act of stealing in their place while the SP disappeared on me in another room, and barely got out of the place with my boots on, during winter. - Outcall for me now and camera on front/back porch to confirm hour of arrival and departure to authorities, just in case. - The rest, screenshot from text exchanges from phone. - Ask about drug habits of the SP, generally by implicitly offering them "something" out of good will upon their arrival, then with the answer, you're in your rights to refuse service with someone under the influence or that uses. - Generally, monitor your bathroom activities, as its where the SP is most likely to consume upon arrival, I know this might be a long shot to leave no intimacy to someone, but honestly if you hear sniffing sounds or a lighter clicking from other side of doors, which you will hear, you can clearly tell what's going on in there without spying with a camera. If SP as lied to you about its drug uses, its most likely to lie/deceive you again, stop making business with that person immediately. Now, if you still decide to make the incall move and what was my downfall, I'll share some tips: - Always make sure the person is alone at home or not living with roommates/friends/close members, the SP can lie about nature of their relationships and open doors to mugging scenarios. -Beware of phone call/txt exchange WHILE in the act. This is the biggest red flag and where I got caught in my scenario because its where you're the most likely to be caught off-guard. Plus its downright disrespectful for the customer, tell SP you're not at all comfortable with him/her using the phone and you don't pay for someone else's time, its very reasonable. - Beware of SP that offers prices at a very low rate, compared to others, especially extras or fetishes and stuff of the sort, which often as a sort of market price. When its very very low, you generally have another red flag. - This might be a bit extreme (but clever!), carry a fake wallet with no IDs and just the right amount of cash, fake ID or other carton cards, toss it to the guy and just tell them you're on your way out, that's all they want after all. - If you can, confirm plate number of the transport that SP has been used to link the SP to the robbers. Usually, these guys don't want to get involved with the authorities and will avoid to pursue you or relatives, they just do that to intimidate to make sure you don't press charges. Authorities will rarely act on those cases as its nearly impossible to prove your claims... Its up for us as consumers to be smarter than the ones preying on us.

Thanks for the etiquette. Altough as a scam victim I was actually inerested in sharing some SP being scamming customers and not being who they actually are, is there a section for this? Thanks!