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Guys read the freaking Ad. Everything should be there. Prices, times, restrictions location and dates. Read it and if you have a question about something for sure ask. When your finally face to face and you have questions or want to go over some of the rules do it. You’ll have a better experience believe me couple of things I learned. Negotiating rates is a non starter. Especially for a first time meet. Same as booking for a 30 minute or less session and over staying your welcome or trying to get more off the menu than you bargained for. If it happens it happens but don’t go into the experience thinking you’re going to get more mileage when you only put enough gas in the tank to get you part way. Actions like these ruin it for the rest of us. I do not want to see a provider that is frustrated with the last ten dudes who wasted that persons time by asking asinine questions booking now shows or endlessly texting with no intention of booking. Be courteous clean and respectful. Try being a gentleman. It goes a long way

Hi friends, Wondering if you could please help me out with advertising -- what are your advertising sites in Winnipeg? I know Tryst and now Lyla; anything local? Thank you so much in advance for your help! Stay safe loves! Love, Candace

Ever since I moved to Rd a steady clientele has been a struggle to develop. Is this just a personal issue or are other ladies having this issue in my area / more rural cities … thanks 😊

Hello gentlemen, I am available this week, between June 22-26. I am an elite and exclusive companion for gentlemen who enjoy the excitement of a devoted woman, but also privacy and discretion. INDEPENDENT NO BLOCKED CALLS OR TEXT APPS 6*1*3*8*7*5*4*8*8*4 Screening required Love, Candy 🍬 🍑🍑🍑🍑🍑🍑🍑

Soo… Does anyone post their ads on Leo List to find clients? I used to use the site years ago and it was really good my ads would all always be really bumping and consistently getting calls and texts all night long! I mean sometimes it would be so busy I could barley keep up with it, but it was nice to be able to sort through the better client vs low ballers and million questions guys; just stuff like that! However now it’s gotten really slow on the site I hardly get any texts and calls and when I do it’s a ton of low balling, playing, and just general nonsense. I’m just curious had this happened to anyone else and if so how do I fix it? I’ve changed my ads and accounts countless times and it’s the same thing just really slow not like it was before. I’d love it if I could get it to go back to the super bumping way it used to be, and I’m just wondering how to make that happen and if this has happened to anyone else? Is it something with the site or just what’s going on, there can’t be that drastic of a change so rapidly!! Helppp please!

Personally I avoid any ad that states: - one night only - last night in town - first time in town - party friendly - it’s me or it’s free - 1000% real - e-transfer/deposit required ...... Admittedly I could be missing out on some first tier providers, however risk vs reward factor is too high on these ones. would love to hear what others think...?

Toronto human trafficking arrests shine spotlight on popular classifieds site. Sex worker advocates fear another crackdown By PETER EDWARDSStaff Reporter Wed., Feb. 6, 2019 Story here (L**L**t.com mentions) After a series of human trafficking arrests involving the same online classifieds site, a Toronto sex worker says she worries a crackdown on internet sex ads could make her more vulnerable. Toronto police have charged eight GTA residents with dozens of charges in four separate cases this year involving the website L**L**t.com. In one, police say a 17-year-old schoolgirl was taken to a series of GTA motels by a man with a gun and forced to sell her body to strangers. The latest bust was announced last week, after police say a man physically assaulted a 28-year-old woman several times, including one attack that left her with broken ribs. In all four cases, alleged pimps forced women to place sex ads on L**L**t.com and took all of their earnings. In one, an alleged pimp even threatened a sex worker’s pet, police said. None of that violence surprises Dave Perry, a Toronto private investigator who was the detective in charge of the Toronto police’s old Juvenile Task Force for eight years in the 1980s and 1990s “I can tell you stories that will fill your head,” Perry said. But the Toronto sex worker, whom the Star is not naming because she fears for her safety, said she worries a sweeping crackdown against human trafficking on the internet could push independent adult sex workers underground. The 30-year-old sex worker, whose real name is known by the Star, is a member of B*****f*y, an Asian and migrant sex workers support network. She said she has been a sex worker in Toronto for two years. She said sex workers use the internet to vet their potential clients and even ask for references. “They can screen,” she said. “They can increase their safety.” Toronto police declined to comment on L**L**t.com. The Star attempted to contact the website by email and at a toll-free phone number listed on the site’s contacts page, but received no response. L**L**t.com’s terms of use ask users to immediately report suspected human trafficking to police and say the site will cooperate with law enforcement “to the fullest extent possible.” There’s a major difference between sex trafficking, in which girls and women are coerced into prostitution, and the sex trade where adult women make independent decisions, said Karen Campbell of the Toronto-based Canadian Women’s Foundation. The 2018 shutdown of the site B**kp**e.com, once a popular host for sex workers’ ads, was distressing for many, Campbell said in an interview. “It pushed a lot of people back onto the streets,” she said. Cracking down on online sex ads also won’t help undocumented women who are reluctant to go to police, she said. “If they were to go to police, they would end up detained and deported,” she said Perry said the average Toronto sex worker when he was on the job entered the sex trade at age 14. There seemed no end to men wanting to prey upon them, Perry said. “We had a mandate to rescue these kids, get them help and go after the pimps,” Perry said. “Every time we arrested a pimp, there were two or three to take his place.” Perry said fewer sex workers could be seen on the streets after pagers became popular a few decades ago, a change he said made it tough for police to monitor their safety. “A lot of the girls that used to work the streets were suddenly carrying pagers,” Perry said. “At least when they were on the street we knew them.” When sex work was more visible on downtown streets, it was easier for social workers to try to help women and for police to keep an eye on their customers, Perry said. “They may be in a more vulnerable position now because they have no interaction with police,” Perry said. “Prostitutes don’t generally walk into a police station and report intimidation.” Some Toronto sex workers were local residents while others came from abroad, smuggled into the city on the hopes of getting a job, Perry said. There was some organized crime involvement, often connected with bikers and strip clubs, he said. Perry said he fears pimps now use websites to fly under the police radar and exploit women. Some websites are out of the country, presenting jurisdictional challenges for police. “We’re almost giving a license for pimps to be anonymous and control women,” Perry said. L**L**t.com, which bills itself as “Canada’s classified site,” automatically redirects to the address l**l**t.cc — using the internet country code of the Cocos Islands, a tiny Australian territory. The contact page refers to Unicorn House Ltd., a company based in Budapest, Hungary. To post an ad, users are charged a cost ranging from free to more than €2.50 ($3.75 Canadian) — the site bills in euros — depending on region and category. As of Wednesday, a personals ad for a female escort in the GTA costs the poster €2.65. That same ad in Hamilton costs €1.79; an ad for a male escort in Ottawa is free. The personals section contains dozens of recently posted ads for male and female escorts across the GTA. Many of the site’s other classifieds categories — including for vehicles, housing and jobs — appear little used. The site’s landing page boasts it has more than 150,000 registered users and millions of total ads. L**L**t.com appears to have become more popular since B**kp**e.com was shut down by the FBI last year; before B**kp**e.com, classifieds site C***gsl**t was one of the most popular sites for advertising sexual services. A study of sex ads on C***gsl**t released this year by researchers at Baylor University in Waco, Texas, supports the Toronto sex worker’s comments that the internet can make the sex trade safer. The study suggests that the old C***gsl**t “erotic services” ads made sex work safer by helping sex workers screen out the most dangerous clients. The internet allowed women to do background checks of clients, even seeking references, the Baylor team found. It also “may have caused outdoor street-based prostitution to transition to the safer, indoor channel,” researchers found. Scott Cunningham, one of the study’s authors, said in an interview he suspects L**L**t.com is absorbing a market once filled by B**kp**e.com. “The market is probably adjusting in Canada,” he said. Cunningham said he wasn’t surprised the Toronto woman said internet ads make her feel safer and freer of pimps. “Sex workers have been saying this for years,” he said.

Hey my darlings !!, I have decided to start this thread because I find that it is important to all of us to know what are the "turn on" and "turn offs" for you guys and also for us SPs. I would like to open this conversation to more than just physical preferences for example , location, outfits , types of services, ackward experiences, communication experience when booking, what kind of adds, pictures etc... I also invite my dear colleagues to share in this thread as I think it is equally important for both parties to share opinion on this matter. I am going to start sharing about myself first... Turn on's (or likes) : - Gentlemen: What woman doesn't like a distinguished man who is polite, respectful...and has class? - Touching, sharing, kissing, massaging: Some women like to be pleased too. A nice massage, a few caress, a sweet kiss on the neck are things that if well done, would turn on most women. :) Personnally, I like kisses on the neck. - Good communication: Getting to know you a little bit before we start make things easier. Don't be shy, tell us about what you like/dislike before the session. The experience will be more enjoyable for everyone. - Cleanliness: That's why we'll offer you to take a shower. If you know what I mean..;). - Punctuality: Usually, we have a schedule and many appointments during the day. It's expected to give a notice if your running late. ;) Besides that, personally, I love pleasing and being pleased. There's a lot of things that turn me on during sex. If you want to know how to pleased me personally, PM me. It'd be a pleasure. ;) Turn off's (or dislikes) : - Negotiation on rates: I understand why people try to negotiate on rates but this is a luxury and if you can't afford it, then don't do it. The rates that we put are based on the cost of doing business (room fees, ads, amenities, traveling fees, companionship, etc.) and also on the quality of woman you get as your companion. When you start negotiating when you come to your appointment, it isn't motivating to give you the best service. Does it turns you off when things are getting hot and exciting with a girl and she decides to bring up the options list or ask for money upfront for the options?It kills the mood eh?! I hope you understand my point of view. - Not having a good hygiene: It's not cool. Bad hygiene is NEVER a turn on. I had to mention it because it had happened to me often. Get some deo guys !!! If your a client/sp, or bf/gf, husband/wife, or whatever, have some common sense and take a shower and smell good. Also, try to maintain a good hygiene down there. The experience with any girl will be much better. :) - Overstaying an appointment : Don't get me wrong, I like to take my time and I don't like to rush. It happens to me that someone booked me for 1hour and he gets off really fast. Since he booked me for an 1hr and paid the full price, I will give him companionship during the rest of the time so he gets what he paid for. In the same view, I had several experiences where people didn't respect their appointments.I can understand 5-10 mins extras. But when it starts becoming 20-30 mins most of us providers, would appreciated a man with the decency to leave on time or to at least tip. The thing is, we might have other appointments coming or phone calls to answer, emails to answer or other things to do. As much fun as it can be, don't forget that we are working too. :) - Not showing up: Things happens and if someone cannot make it to an appointment, I think it would be respectful to inform the other person. It's like in any business. And this business is no different. Cancelling without notice and not showing up to an appointment is very frustrating... It's a waist of time and money. It's ok if somethings comes up, just let us know. Maybe, there is someone who wish to take your place...? ;) - Rudeness and vulgarity: As you guys like a well traveled, well educated woman, we too like gentlemen. Please be a gentlemen. If not, it kills the mood. Most ladies have no tolerance for rude or rough behavior, disrespect, etc. If you're rude, expect to be turned down. Among other obvious things that could turn off most people: blocked numbers, overcalling/overtexting, threats, not being discrete, etc. What about you guys ? (or girls) What turn you on/off ? PS: I believe in the notion of constructive criticism so guys I don't want this to turn into a bitching session!! ..;)

A question for everyone.... In the last 2 months, I have had my site stolen word for word and various ads and titles used on other sites. Turns out my site has been used again, but this time with some editing. Anyone have any ideas on how to deal with this? I am at wits end on dealing with this (I really do have much better things to do than flag ads and write emails asking for my text to be taken down) I am close to just getting my lawyer involved as I am not sure what else I can do. Even then Im not sure what good it would do. I am open to ideas on suggestions on dealing with this situation, as of late this has been happening again and again and for me it to is just way too often. We work hard to make ourselves individual and stand out, and to have someone steal one's hard work, is basically a slap in the face.