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From time to time clients will ask me if I like my job. They typically follow this question with the comment "You must get all sorts in here!". And indeed we do! I'm very open minded, and I think exploring one's sexuality is an important and enriching part of life's journey, however there are some clients whose requests go beyond the norm. One such request has brought on an ethical dilemma for me and I hope CERB members can offer some insight. There is a client who would like me to pretend that I am a very young girl. Now I am 20 and can dress to look high school age, but there is no doubt that I am at least 16, even in pigtails. I do not personally feel too uncomfortable with his request because I am just role playing, but someone mentioned that accepting this man as a client may be a decision with ethical implications. Will indulging his fantasies potentially fuel his imagination and increase his desire for the real thing (a criminal act)? Is my involvement beneficial as I act as a substitute and divert him committing a serious offense? Or do my actions only encourage his fancy, thereby normalizing the behavior, potentially causing the desires to escalate to the point where he feels compelled to act out his imagination with a real life subject? Moreover, is this even an issue I should be concerned with? He has not spoken of doing this with any real girls, and I do not know his profession so cannot comment on the risk he poses to children around him. Is it possible that this is just a fantasy and nothing more? Thank you in advance for your replies! I am new to the industry, but surely I'm not the first to ask this question. Any help is greatly appreciated :)