I am seeking some information from any guys on this site who are either married or attached. I am a married guy who is also a "hobbyist" and being a "hobbyist" requires proper amounts of cash, as we all know. My situation as a married guy is starting to conflict financially with my hobby and therefore I am wondering how other married/attached men are able to finance there hobby without there partner finding large amounts of money missing from the bank account? Without a "financial plan" I fear that I may have to reduce or God forbid stop participating in my favourite of all "hobbies!" Also, I suppose I should not limit my question to just the guys, possibly some of the ladies have a suggestion for me as well?? Any and all suggestions are appreciated.