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Hi guys, it is my first time of posting in Lyla. Nice to meet all of you! Today in the afternoon, I contacted 2 escorts (both are unverified) on LeoList via text messaging (I use an anonymous iOS TextNow app). I contacted the first girl regarding an outcall service and eventually we settled the deal (during the whole process, I used a fake name that’s completely different from my real one). Therefore I provided my full home address to her for coming to my place. However, she never came. It is a no show up. I shrugged and did not think too much about it. I then continued my search of escorts on LeoList and found another woman. So I contacted her through anonymous text messaging and again settled the deal (I still used fake name this time). I again provided my full home address to this second escort in hoping that she would show up for the outcall service. But the same thing happened: just like the first girl, the second one also did not show up. Just minutes ago, I even opened my door and checked if there were anyone outside. None, no cars and no one. There are even no trails to indicate if someone even came to my door or garage. I live in a dense residential area in which that my house is surrounded by many other houses (the distance between each house is really short). Therefore I have neighbours on both of my left and right sides and in front of my house. I previously ordered several outcall services and they all went smoothly (girls came to my residential place on time after having my address and they offered me the service which I happily payed for). So I do not really understand what happened today for the 2 escorts I contacted. So from these 2 communications, all they got is my full home address and my number on anonymous TextNow app. They did not have my money. They did not ask me for bank information or deposits. They even did not ask for my home address at first place, I voluntarily gave them my home address after settling a deal. They are just like completely vanished with my home address and anonymous TextNow phone number. After feeling strange about this situation, I searched online and found some cases of outcall robbing (happened in the person’s home) and personal information theft (the person was threatened and blackmailed by the escort who possessed his clear selfie). So based on my case, they have my full home address, they may be able to use this address to get my personal information through various methods. Or with my home address, they can attempt to rob, assault my family members or invade my home. After thinking about all these possibilities, now I am really scared. What’s their purpose of not showing up for outcalls when having my home address? Did you encounter anything similar to these? What potential dangers I will face under the circumstance that they have my full home address? Do you have any advices for what I should do next? One thing for sure, I will never use escort’s service from now on because such exposing of privacy is scary. Thank you so much for reading!