I'm a bit confused by the reference system. I can well appreciate that, for safety reasons, ladies may want a reference prior to seeing me. However, if I have not seen many SPs how do I obtain said reference?
Is it the sort of thing where I need to actively search for SPs who do not ask for references in order to accumulate enough experience to see others? That seems a bit risky to me.
I realize this is kind of a stupid question but I would still appreciate anybody who can indulge me with a helpful answer. Thanks.