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Hi whoever is still left out there 😞 I'd been wanting to start thiis topic for a while.. Id like input from anyone SP or Hobbyist I've been around a long time now and no matter what I've tried, there has been a (hopefully) small amount of affectionate gents, that I have either completely missed out on a potentially incredible experience with ... or had to hear from one who finally took the chance, say that he'd avoided me for years because he was ....insert cause for apprehension... due to my also offering Domination, Kink, Fetish etc. This is NOT meant to shame anyone but only to help my understanding so I may better myself. I dont seek to preach, I seek advice. I've heard reasons including; - worried a gfe would bore me - worried I would be too assertive - worried Id suddenly engage in BDSM without request (let alone consent eeek) - assuming someone who has a Domme side to her couldn't be conventional, traditional, more submissive, affectionate, emotional, romantic, offer 0r4l, want to snuggle, have a warm, loving demea our...the list goes on. When i redid my site, I put Companionship and Fetish on different pages. I've tried to portray just how passionate and affectionate I am. Even as a Domme Im considered what they call 'A sensual Domme' I've tried diversity in my pix, depicting myself in ways anyone in Dom-space wouldnt be in. After all this, I feel what I have most to thank are YOU, the wonderful, generous Hobbyists who have taken the time to describe my sweet side. Finally in my latest ad here, I added this tidbit lol "Those into more conventional, sensual play, need not feel intimidated, or decide for me that I would prefer kink... I NEED loving too you know! And I receive by giving Kink is only kinky because its out of the norm. Kinksters like affection too and vanilla is one of my favorite flavors! Kink is by special request only and requires further contribution. My default is to be a sweetypie. My bitchy side is so bitch you gotta pay more for it! 😆 " So again my point here is to start an interesting dialogue I think we can all be stimulated by and all learn a lot about each other. Please feel free to offer your own experiences, ideas, questions, opinions, advice, whatever. Lets just talk 🙂 In the mean time here have some GFE boobies and some DOMME boobies hah OK and heres some definite not Domme butt ones cuz why not? ok... no butt but it makes the point that I can be..none assertive? Does it? I have other soft pix buti promised T&A lol Is the difference apparent? Or do I look mean in all of them anyway? Above alll, I am wishing all of you good energy, my hope that life is being good to you. Whether Im a Companion or the extra contribution for Kink is given, my aim is to create a bubble of bliss for us to share, alone, the outside world, blocked out for our time. The only way I can acheive this (and therefore receive it myself as I am an empath that literally feeds off the solace and happiness of others), is by you first telling me what it is you need to find that physical, spiritual and emotional release. Only YOU know what you like. I would never ever assume. Although I so appreciate those who worry so much I will be bored, know this, kinksters have gfe too. Its called kink because it isnt the norm. And nobody who multis the way I do could EVER be bored with affection. I dont speak for all Dommes but i know many,both personal and pro. Those that dont wish to offer GFE, dont. (IE My dear friend and lover MissJulieClaret) although I assure you, even we kinky lovers have had far more conventional play together than we've had kink. If you saw us in regular mode, you'd never guess either of us are such weirdos at times. Lol Ok Discuss! Sending you all my love! A special thank you to the gentleman who had the guts to open up to me and share this invaluable information with me. It cant have been easy. And of course, thank you for giving me a chance. I really hope I gave you the affection you needed. JessyCeleste Xoxoxo