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Hey my darlings !!, I have decided to start this thread because I find that it is important to all of us to know what are the "turn on" and "turn offs" for you guys and also for us SPs. I would like to open this conversation to more than just physical preferences for example , location, outfits , types of services, ackward experiences, communication experience when booking, what kind of adds, pictures etc... I also invite my dear colleagues to share in this thread as I think it is equally important for both parties to share opinion on this matter. I am going to start sharing about myself first... Turn on's (or likes) : - Gentlemen: What woman doesn't like a distinguished man who is polite, respectful...and has class? - Touching, sharing, kissing, massaging: Some women like to be pleased too. A nice massage, a few caress, a sweet kiss on the neck are things that if well done, would turn on most women. :) Personnally, I like kisses on the neck. - Good communication: Getting to know you a little bit before we start make things easier. Don't be shy, tell us about what you like/dislike before the session. The experience will be more enjoyable for everyone. - Cleanliness: That's why we'll offer you to take a shower. If you know what I mean..;). - Punctuality: Usually, we have a schedule and many appointments during the day. It's expected to give a notice if your running late. ;) Besides that, personally, I love pleasing and being pleased. There's a lot of things that turn me on during sex. If you want to know how to pleased me personally, PM me. It'd be a pleasure. ;) Turn off's (or dislikes) : - Negotiation on rates: I understand why people try to negotiate on rates but this is a luxury and if you can't afford it, then don't do it. The rates that we put are based on the cost of doing business (room fees, ads, amenities, traveling fees, companionship, etc.) and also on the quality of woman you get as your companion. When you start negotiating when you come to your appointment, it isn't motivating to give you the best service. Does it turns you off when things are getting hot and exciting with a girl and she decides to bring up the options list or ask for money upfront for the options?It kills the mood eh?! I hope you understand my point of view. - Not having a good hygiene: It's not cool. Bad hygiene is NEVER a turn on. I had to mention it because it had happened to me often. Get some deo guys !!! If your a client/sp, or bf/gf, husband/wife, or whatever, have some common sense and take a shower and smell good. Also, try to maintain a good hygiene down there. The experience with any girl will be much better. :) - Overstaying an appointment : Don't get me wrong, I like to take my time and I don't like to rush. It happens to me that someone booked me for 1hour and he gets off really fast. Since he booked me for an 1hr and paid the full price, I will give him companionship during the rest of the time so he gets what he paid for. In the same view, I had several experiences where people didn't respect their appointments.I can understand 5-10 mins extras. But when it starts becoming 20-30 mins most of us providers, would appreciated a man with the decency to leave on time or to at least tip. The thing is, we might have other appointments coming or phone calls to answer, emails to answer or other things to do. As much fun as it can be, don't forget that we are working too. :) - Not showing up: Things happens and if someone cannot make it to an appointment, I think it would be respectful to inform the other person. It's like in any business. And this business is no different. Cancelling without notice and not showing up to an appointment is very frustrating... It's a waist of time and money. It's ok if somethings comes up, just let us know. Maybe, there is someone who wish to take your place...? ;) - Rudeness and vulgarity: As you guys like a well traveled, well educated woman, we too like gentlemen. Please be a gentlemen. If not, it kills the mood. Most ladies have no tolerance for rude or rough behavior, disrespect, etc. If you're rude, expect to be turned down. Among other obvious things that could turn off most people: blocked numbers, overcalling/overtexting, threats, not being discrete, etc. What about you guys ? (or girls) What turn you on/off ? PS: I believe in the notion of constructive criticism so guys I don't want this to turn into a bitching session!! ..;)