Guest Report post Posted July 9, 2015 Hi! I am really curious why some providers advertise "no black males". Why is that? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
roamingguy 300292 Report post Posted July 9, 2015 Been a number of heated threads on this topic already and no matter what anyone answers it never is the correct answer it seems JMO but no need to bring back a heated discussion on the subject, here are a few threads on the subject http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=181140&highlight=blacks http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=151618 http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=143689 RG 6 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Andee 220524 Report post Posted July 9, 2015 Yes on of the main reasons is because they have a "agent" I know quiet a few of them personally and that is one of the main reasons and then there's also the ones that for some reason are racist or maybe had a bad experienceI do not agree with putting no black man or any race on there that's why I made sure that I put that I love black brown Asian white men on my ad to show that to me jus because you have a different skin colour or look different it doesn't make a difference to me I love all men I do not like discriminating anyone it's not the persons fault the were born like that everybody can be good people or they can be mean everyone's different what they look like does not make them who they are I happen to really like people of other cultures and parts of the world them mine I love learning about them and there birthplaces and what not color means nothing to me and there's a few girls that do not have no black men but I have noticed there's a lot more that have it on there then the ones that don't say it It's not necessarily a racist thing. If a lady's agent or SO is black, he/she may not want other black men to visit, which is why they explicitly put it in the ad. This also applies to other races where the lady may not feel comfortable seeing men from her community. I used to know an Asian lady who was not comfortable seeing Asian men. I am not sure if it appears tacky to actually put it in the ad, but at least they're being honest. The type of service we are offering is that of intimacy and whatever reason we choose not to see certain people, is really no one's business. For example, I am no longer entertaining clients under 30 because as a rule I have found it to be more trouble than it's worth. I still have a few younger ones that I let see me because they are the exception to the rule. But that was only because their initial contact was more than a "Hey" or "Yo escort lady, I wanna git with u" type of text. 8 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Andee 220524 Report post Posted July 9, 2015 I wasn't jus saying it was because they were radict and I'm not trying to argue I was giving my opinion every sp has the right to make the rule that they are the most comfortable with I'm not trying to argue either. I was adding to the discussion. You said one of the reasons may be that they're racist. I was saying that perhaps it is, but often is just because they don't want to see men who are the same race as their agent or SOs. This I know for fact, because I have met ladies who told me so. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Barney 2550 Report post Posted July 10, 2015 its very common now in Montreal and Toronto Halifax is just catching up with are about 20 years behind down here. I don't think it is meant to be against anyone just more of a personal preference. Is it ever nice to go home and just walk into a Massage parlour or go to a strip club , nothing here, maybe someday this city will catch up it is a beautiful place though. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
monc69 140 Report post Posted July 10, 2015 Maybe some ladies can not take the size. Congrats to Barbie for not being a racist. 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Samurai 7678 Report post Posted July 10, 2015 I'm not touching this one with a n.i.n.e inch pole!!!! No punn intended..wink, wink! 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Hfxguy 591 Report post Posted August 4, 2015 the penis size.Them fellas are known to hang low!!!! lmao Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Exotic Touch Danielle 31713 Report post Posted August 4, 2015 Sorry to say but the color of your skin does not determine the size of your package! 8 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Hfxguy 591 Report post Posted August 4, 2015 Ok OK...The only difference in the human race is skin color.we are all the same.The stereotypes are funny and will always crack me up!!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Exotic Touch Danielle 31713 Report post Posted August 5, 2015 Yes they are extremely funny I will admit that Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nicolette Vaughn 294340 Report post Posted August 5, 2015 It was told to me by other ladies that black "agents" do NOT want other black men around their girls. Why? Because they may have the ability to take "their girls" away. It's some sort of code. We can all decide to pretty this up in so many words but that is a fact. As for being racist, some of these women have no choice who they want to see and if they did, I'm sure they wouldn't put that out there in an ad. When I used to be in Toronto, I'd see many Asians saying "No Asian men" particularly in spa settings when they'd advertise. Why? They probably knew the same people in the same Asian community and didn't want them to know of their secret job in a massage parlor. Secondly, this is a job like no other. We as escorts have the right who we want to see and who we don't wish to see. Our bodies, our choice. If a man doesn't treat a woman properly, then game over. If that person happens to be of a certain ethnicity and it keeps happening over and over again with negotiating or poor behaviour or time wasters, ask why is this happening? Perhaps its's a cultural influence and how they were raised to treat women in their country. Getting back to the "No Black men" issue and seeing so many ads stating this, no doubt they have a black agent or manager running the show. 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TorontoMelanieJolliet 4458 Report post Posted August 5, 2015 For example, I am no longer entertaining clients under 30 because as a rule I have found it to be more trouble than it's worth. I still have a few younger ones that I let see me because they are the exception to the rule. But that was only because their initial contact was more than a "Hey" or "Yo escort lady, I wanna git with u" type of text. LOL "yo escort lady..." that's soo funny :) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Exotic Touch Danielle 31713 Report post Posted August 5, 2015 Just putting this out there but pimps/agents or whatever else they are called come in all colors Not only black gents(I know many ladies who work and will.not see black men and Not because they have a pimp or do not want to be pimped).....I just feel there honestly isn't a right or wrong answer to this question as I said earlier Everyone has a preference wether it be a race issue or age or what ever else I would just Not call that lady and call someone who I am more compatible with Problem solved There will always be someone else who would be more than happy to spend time with you Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nicolette Vaughn 294340 Report post Posted August 5, 2015 Just putting this out there but pimps/agents or whatever else they are called come in all colors Yes this is true. However, I will stay away from this issue because most people don't want to face the reality of this. Not only black gents(I know many ladies who work and will.not see black men and Not because they have a pimp or do not want to be pimped).....I just feel there honestly isn't a right or wrong answer to this question as I said earlierEveryone has a preference wether it be a race issue or age or what ever else I would just Not call that lady and call someone who I am more compatible with While everyone has a preference, how many ladies are willing to come out and admit this in an ad? In the past, this would be considered business suicide. In all my time as an escort, I have NEVER seen this until recently or those willingly to publicly state that in prior years. If an independent escort were to state that in an advertisement, wouldn't she fear the backlash? I sure as hell would especially if I was working on my own in my own location. The amount of ads that state this on BP in the last year or so are very high. Are that many women who work independently wish to state this in their ad? I just don't think this is a high percentage based on preference but that's just my opinion. We can agree to disagree. There will always be someone else who would be more than happy to spend time with you Yes exactly. If I were in a black man's position and saw this, I would move on and find someone that wanted to spend time with me. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Barney 2550 Report post Posted August 5, 2015 Wakeup Call for all those people who think the ladies don't have a manger etc. , they all do have someone else running the show, for protection , setup , etc Its a business like any other there is always a top guy or lady running the show . Have a nice day everyone 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Exotic Touch Danielle 31713 Report post Posted August 5, 2015 No sorry darlin but not all sp have an Agent/Manager/pimp I have been in this business for a few years and not once have I ever needed to have someone running my business I know many women who work and have worked through out the years and never been pimped as some like to call it I personally will never understand why girls need it but hey to each their own And once again in my opinion Black gentlemen are Not all agents/managers/pimps....I have met several very nice respectful black gentlemen some whom I have been seeing for years and will continue seeing them because I enjoy their company 8 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Talia Ciarra 3360 Report post Posted August 5, 2015 All SP's have a manager? Where are you getting this info? Maybe some do but not all of them. 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest **cely***r***ne Report post Posted August 5, 2015 No. Not ALL of us. That is an offensive and uneducated statement. Wakeup Call for all those people who think the ladies don't have a manger etc. , they all do have someone else running the show, for protection , setup , etc Its a business like any other there is always a top guy or lady running the show . Have a nice day everyone Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Exotic Touch Danielle 31713 Report post Posted August 5, 2015 Nicolette I wasn't referring to you when I said That part about the sps not having an agent/manager/pimp Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nicolette Vaughn 294340 Report post Posted August 5, 2015 Nicolette I wasn't referring to you when I said That part about the sps not having an agent/manager/pimp Hehehe. No worries luv. I saw that before I had my caffeine fix for the day and then realized it wasn't directed at me. lol. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Parker 19761 Report post Posted August 5, 2015 Wakeup Call for all those people who think the ladies don't have a manger etc. , they all do have someone else running the show, for protection , setup , etc Its a business like any other there is always a top guy or lady running the show . Have a nice day everyone LOL! I do wish it sometimes though, it can be a lot of work doing all this stuff on my own.. To the original question; Personal preference? I personally don't care about skin colour, background, etc.. as long as the gent is clean & respectful.. but-- I'm not that into guys under 30. I've met lots of nice guys under 30, but usually I'm not very attracted to them. So this could be something similar no? Maybe?.. /shrug Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Exotic Touch Danielle 31713 Report post Posted August 5, 2015 It's a personal preference and we are all entitled to have one especially being in this business But it's wrong when one assumes that all black gentlemen are agents/pimps and that is the reason why some ladies put "No black men' I also do not like to see men under 25 because I don't connect with them I prefer older mature ( am I wrong for that?) NO I am not and no those ladies who do not see black gentlemen are not wrong either We all have our preferences and reasons for it Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Talia Ciarra 3360 Report post Posted August 5, 2015 Is this one of these threads that will be a hundred pages? Lol. Ladies and Gents have the right to choose who they want to see, and thats their personal choice. The End! 4 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
roamingguy 300292 Report post Posted August 5, 2015 Wakeup Call for all those people who think the ladies don't have a manger etc. , they all do have someone else running the show, for protection , setup , etc Its a business like any other there is always a top guy or lady running the show . Have a nice day everyone RG 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
