Sp's and out calls

[Johnny142 110]

I've been noticing a lot of escorts in New Brunswick are quite reluctant to meet and go out and do anything except for me to go to their hotel room. Really all I want is someone to go out and eat with and go to the casino with. Is there a reason why escorts might not be up for this? I always let them know I will pay their regular rate for time spent but they don't want to do this!

[Exotic Touch Danielle 31728]

I can only speak for myself but it's a safety and discretion issue for me....I prefer our time spent is One on One in the privacy of our room not saying I am Not open to dinner and casino if I have met you then I would consider

But I always require hotel room and full name to call and confirm before coming I wouldn't just meet you at the casino....how can I know it's legit and not a waste of time?

Just my opinion

[Winnipegcub 21293]

Haven't looked at the NB scene but a couple thoughts.

- I think the first point has been made well related to safety and discretion. Remember these ladies have other private lives too so being seen out in public with someone could cause a problem.

- I've actually seen many ladies who do offer this. Sometimes even at a lesser rate called 'social time'. So keep looking and if you've someone who doesn't advertise it then you should continue to respectfully ask.

- A touring lady may be an option as they may not have as much concern for running into someone local they know. Again they may not advertise it - but you can politely ask and expect to compensate them.

 

Social time can really be fun and one final option might be to combine it with a date. Ie meet for 1 hour socially for drink/snacks then 1 hour back at the room. I've done this and was a great time.

 

Best of luck.

 

Cub

[fortunateone 156618]

Maybe the issue could be resolved by making that kind of date arrangement, but you meet at her incall location. Maybe the problem isn't doing this kind of session, but that you are trying to get her to meet, discuss, & be paid out in public. (which has always been & still is more illegal)

 

Just make the arrangements, meet at her location, & you both go out together to dinner, casino, whatever after the payment has been dealt with.

[EmilyRushton 253372]

I've been noticing a lot of escorts in New Brunswick are quite reluctant to meet and go out and do anything except for me to go to their hotel room. Really all I want is someone to go out and eat with and go to the casino with. Is there a reason why escorts might not be up for this? I always let them know I will pay their regular rate for time spent but they don't want to do this!

 

One thing I have learnt over time is this, ALOT of ladies are not comfortable in a social situation with a client. NB is a SMALL place and one never knows who they may run into in public. How do you explain to someone you know who you run into in a restaurant that you're out with a friend when he looks like your dad (this is only an example).

 

I, for example will not spend time with anyone in public that I have not previously spent time with. I need to feel comfortable with who I will be in public with as well as that we are a "good fit socially". Understand many gentleman do not get the no PDA's in public and once that happens a lady is less likely to want to go out in public with someone.

 

Social situations are built on trust and compatibility. Find a lady you enjoy, visit with her on her terms and then ask her if dinner, casino and a date is possible.

 

[Talia Ciarra 3360]

Are you aware that you have to pay for their time even if it's just dinner outing? Maybe that's the reason why. I don't think any lady wants to hang out and not have their time compensated .

[roamingguy 300292]

Maybe start out in baby steps...get to know the lady, let her get to know you. Trust doesn't happen overnight. It may require booking a conventional date or two in the privacy of your hotel room to get to know a lady, and she gets to know you. Plus it allows the trust required to go out socially to be established. Nothing prevents you on those first couple dates relaxing, having conversation over drinks, maybe order room service. Once the lady gets comfortable with you and trusts you she may be inclined to go on a social date with you. Of course discretion is important. In a smaller city, the lady (or you) might not want to run into anyone who knows you/her. I know for myself there are a couple cities I would stay locked up in good and tight in my hotel room. Only because I wouldn't want to run into people I know and have to answer questions

One other thing, if you meet a companion who would like to go out to dinner with you, discuss with her ahead of time restaurants she might like to go to. Nothing worse than showing up at a steakhouse and your date is a vegetarian

 

Good Luck

 

RG

[nntsci 11076]

The ladies have their own social life. Perhaps they are worried about that.

I know one of the girls I've seen is married... I found out accidently through her gmail account, which led to her gplus account which led to her youtube account etc. (if you want to maintain privacy, don't use a gmail if it is linked to any other accounts). Cute couple... anyway, it would seem that she sees clients (e.g., me) when her husband is travelling. So hummm perhaps thats one reason they do not wish to be seen with you in public; they might not want to harm their social life.

 

On the other hand, I have seen ads by ladies that include suggested activities including dates to the opera or dinner etc. as one of their options. I suppose it depends on the size of the city. In a big city like Toronto, there is a lot of anonymity... New Brunswick... not so much.