Lady Mary 125 Report post Posted July 22, 2015 Other than the typical safety items what should I have with me when I meet a client to make the experience more enjoyable for them? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Helena D'Orville 33237 Report post Posted July 22, 2015 Oil and/or cream for a good massage. Toys, in the case there is an interest to play with them. Flameless LED candles to set a nice ambiance if you visit his place. I am very sensitive to lighting, and hate bright lights. It sets a very nice warm mood to place flameless LED candles in the room ;-) 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest S****r Report post Posted July 22, 2015 Don't forget a music source. I use playlists on my iPhone. I have an awesome small Bluetooth portable speaker that I bring in case they don't have iPhone speaker access Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Exotic Touch Danielle 31728 Report post Posted July 24, 2015 A positive friendly attitude! Baby wipes/fresh linen to freshen up before and after 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
StefanieBell 240 Report post Posted August 15, 2015 Oh I love the idea of the LED candles....especially for when giving a massage, would probably relax me just as much as him Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nicolette Vaughn 294340 Report post Posted August 16, 2015 I do mostly massage now so definitely the massage oil. I actually use coconut oil because it lasts longer, is easy to wash in the shower and doesn't leave a scent. Other than that, it is good to have an endless supply of sheets, hand towels, face cloths and bath towels. I also buy a big bottle of mouth wash and also the little shot glasses so no one is drinking out of the bottle. Posted via Mobile Device Additional Comments: Yea the led candles are great to have as well. I had someone almost accidentally knock over a lit candle from the nightstand one time and that really scared me so no more of that! Lol Posted via Mobile Device Additional Comments: For my music playlist, I just turn the ringer off on the phone and go on YouTube a find down sort of jazzy playlist that is nice and relaxing. Ask me about any Diana Krall song and I can sing it! I've played it sooooo many times. Posted via Mobile Device Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
roamingguy 300292 Report post Posted August 16, 2015 A must have...a client LOL :-) OK all joking aside, if seeing clients at your place, better to have body wash over a bar of soap (unless individual bars of soap). One lady I saw years ago had bar soap, a used bar of soap for her shower. Who knows who used it before...gross So just a suggestion, body wash, or individual bars of soap RG 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TorontoMelanieJolliet 4458 Report post Posted August 17, 2015 disposable dixie cups for mouthwash are great too and no clean up afterwards ;) And because it's summer, unscented anti-perspirant (spray type of course) Also I wish everyone found bar soap disgusting like you do, roamingguy, as I find a few will still use my bar soap that i use for my body, instead of the many bottles of body wash i have supplied specifically for use by many different persons (I even have signs posted lol) And I even wash the bottles daily. I'm kinda uptight that way 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nicolette Vaughn 294340 Report post Posted August 17, 2015 I always have a aerosol can of arrid deodorant for clients that I buy at WalMart for under $3 and doesn't have a scent to it. Actually that's what I use for myself. Posted via Mobile Device 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
50 Shades Raven 31380 Report post Posted August 17, 2015 On an outcall I take my own individual sizes of everything I might need. If showers are a part of the encounter, I want to know what I am using (I have very sensitive skin). I also carry great massage oils. The LED candles are a wonderful idea, it makes a great experience in shower/bath time, as the lighting is just perfect then. (and no risks of fire, lol) For incalls, I supply individually wrapped one time use unscented soaps, one time use toothbrushes (great for longer encounters that happen, I buy in bulk so the cost is insignificant), mouthwash in liquor glasses (they are the perfect size for this), 'trial' size toothpaste (they just throw it out when they are done), and several men's body washes (this way they can smell like they just came from the gym) and unscented spray deodorant. I always have lots of fresh linens on hand. I change the towels out from every encounter, and lots of sheets. I change the sheets after every encounter also. Music is a great to have on a playlist or two, and can be played anywhere. For incall, there is always something soothing playing. If it is a regular, then I usually can tell what they will want, so it makes it easier, but having a very clean, fresh place is a great start. 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Emma Alexandra 123368 Report post Posted August 17, 2015 Lots of sheets and towels. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
shortandsweetxo 1348 Report post Posted August 18, 2015 For incalls, I supply individually wrapped one time use unscented soaps, one time use toothbrushes (great for longer encounters that happen, I buy in bulk so the cost is insignificant) Where do you buy yours?! I would love to buy in bulk but I've never found a place to do so! 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ice4fun 78407 Report post Posted August 18, 2015 I guess i understand on some level the choice to provide individual bars of soap or liquid body wash for the shower after but I have to admit it does make me smile to think that I will be willing to be intimate with a particular lady working in the industry but squeamish about sharing a bar of soap. Just saying it does make me smile. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
shortandsweetxo 1348 Report post Posted August 18, 2015 I guess i understand on some level the choice to provide individual bars of soap or liquid body wash for the shower after but I have to admit it does make me smile to think that I will be willing to be intimate with a particular lady working in the industry but squeamish about sharing a bar of soap. Just saying it does make me smile. I get that too but at the same time I find the idea of washing my face with a bar of soap that was on some guys testicles or butt crack a little repellent. That makes the germaphobe in me want to run screaming from my shower. If a guy uses my bar of soap or, even worse, my razor... I chuck them. 4 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ice4fun 78407 Report post Posted August 18, 2015 I get that too but at the same time I find the idea of washing my face with a bar of soap that was on some guys testicles or butt crack a little repellent. That makes the germaphobe in me want to run screaming from my shower. If a guy uses my bar of soap or, even worse, my razor... I chuck them. No... by all means I get that I was more thinking from the client's side... I would expect that the lady would have her own personal products... I appreciate it when a lady goes to the trouble and expense to have products there for me to use after the session... like I said I just chuckle a bit. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
roamingguy 300292 Report post Posted August 19, 2015 I get that too but at the same time I find the idea of washing my face with a bar of soap that was on some guys testicles or butt crack a little repellent. That makes the germaphobe in me want to run screaming from my shower. If a guy uses my bar of soap or, even worse, my razor... I chuck them. In the one time it happened to me, this shower was for her clients. Justifiably repulsive having only a well used bar of soap used by god knows how many clients before. There were no feminine type soaps, perfumes etc to be seen in the bathroom...this was clearly intended for clients only Just gross and disgusting and one of a few reasons I never re-booked with her RG Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
shortandsweetxo 1348 Report post Posted August 19, 2015 In the one time it happened to me, this shower was for her clients. Justifiably repulsive having only a well used bar of soap used by god knows how many clients before.There were no feminine type soaps, perfumes etc to be seen in the bathroom...this was clearly intended for clients only Just gross and disgusting and one of a few reasons I never re-booked with her RG I can't blame you there... I couldn't ever use the same bar of soap as a bunch of other people. *shudder* 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
AmiAndrews 290 Report post Posted August 21, 2015 For incalls, I provide unscented body wash. I don't know many men who actually like the smell of men's body washes - they're very strongly scented. Sometimes I'll provide little individual bars of soaps. I leave breath mints in the bathroom as well. I have a variety of scented oils, coconut oil and baby oil on hand for massages. I always have baby wipes. I also leave a chilled bottle of water beside the bed for my date. I use fresh linens for every date, and keep a good supply of clean white towels and face towels on hand. As for music, I have an entire playlist on my iPad and connect it to my speaker system. When I travel, it's easy to carry the iPad with me, and is loud enough to hear throughout a hotel room without sounding distorted. I really like the idea of flameless candles - where do I get those? I've never seen them. Then again, I've never looked for them either. As for the bar-of-soap concern, I take my personal things out of the shower before my date arrives, so there is no chance he will use them. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Hector17 9215 Report post Posted August 21, 2015 I can't blame you there... I couldn't ever use the same bar of soap as a bunch of other people. *shudder* Ahhh...guess I'm brave then because I just use the bar of soap that's there. I'm Ok with rinsing it off in the shower water before use... Agreed though, those liquid soap bottles are probably best for avoiding anyone feeling creepy Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
bewlayb 7480 Report post Posted August 21, 2015 I really like the idea of flameless candles - where do I get those? I've never seen them. Then again, I've never looked for them either. They're available just about everywhere and are especially prolific towards Christmas. The better (newer ones) have a more realistic flicker to the flame. Check out Michaels, Walmart and home decorating departments in other stores. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
backrubman 64800 Report post Posted August 21, 2015 Ahhh...guess I'm brave then because I just use the bar of soap that's there. ... "Bartender, put that in a dirty glass!" Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
VedaSloan 119179 Report post Posted August 22, 2015 For an in call: --sheets/linens/towels specifically for clients --various body washes, soap and mouthwash with little cups --toys --iPod and speaker --mood lighting (I have white christmas lights around the headboard). For an out call (I limit to whatever will fit in an oversized clutch) --toys --spare pair of underpants (once a guy wanted to buy the pair I was wearing) --breathmints/gum Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Phaedrus 209521 Report post Posted August 22, 2015 I have to say, I get the feeling that the most important things for anyone in this industry are boundless patience and a high tolerance for jackassery... 7 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Brad 49548 Report post Posted August 22, 2015 Given how often towels was listed, I begin to wonder how many people here are fans of Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
shortandsweetxo 1348 Report post Posted August 23, 2015 Given how often towels was listed, I begin to wonder how many people here are fans of Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy... Always have your towel. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
