Worlds colliding

[purpasadu 140]

Just wondering if anyone has ever had their worlds collide? By that I mean booking an appointment with an SP only to find that it's someone you know from other circles (I know someone this happened to). Or alternatively, that you eventually get introduced or start working with someone who you know from your hobbying life? Although I know in such a situation, we'd both be discreet as neither one of us would want to point out that and how we know each other, I'm always terrified of this happening.

[Amanda-Lee 11094]

Funny thing as you mention it, although it's not that funny. I told a male friend of mine and he asked me about what I charge... at the end he asked me if he could book me... one thing that is awful is telling a male friend what I do then him wanting to book me? It's something I'm not interested nor want to have a friend book me. I'm the one that values friendship and having a friend (close or not) ask to book me, it's a bit out of line.

 

I explained I wouldn't do that. So I passed lyla.com on to him. He still wanted to book me regardless. It's just a no no for me.

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[Guest S****r]

Yep. It has happened twice. But both times it was perfectly fine. Both are written up in My Secret Diary, but here is one of them here.

 

My Two Worlds Collide!

It finally happened!

 

I suppose it was bound to happen sooner or later, no matter how careful one tries to be. This week, my two separate worlds actually collided!

 

Before I entered into the escorting arena, like most people, I still had a personal sex life. I didn't date for a long time after the breakup of my family, but eventually, I began to venture out. Dating had sure changed over the course of the years I had been married! A friend convinced me to sign up on a dating website, and after some time, I did. I found it easy to meet guys. In fact, it turned out to be a whooooole lot of fun! I wasn't interested in finding a soulmate, wasn't looking for a husband, wasn't trying to find someone to father my children. At that point in my life, my life was already very full. I found that I would see someone for a while, and eventually things would start to get serious. However, I was not interested in serious. I was content to just have someone to enjoy having fun with! Once anyone started to get serious at all, I would wish them well and walk away. I was flying solo and thoroughly enjoying it! Eventually I recognized the pattern, and discovered myself being unconsciously drawn to men who had circumstances in their lives which would prevent them from getting too involved with me. I found that this suited me the best.

 

At that time, I met with a guy from online with whom I had instant sizzling hot chemistry. Omg, the sex was soooo intense and exhilarating! We both couldn't get enough of each other. We had sex all over the city of Ottawa. We did it in the middle of a public park. We did it in the OC Transpo parking lot. We did it in the parking lot full of busy shoppers. We went by his work place and did it on his desk. We went in the board room and did it on the board room table. We had a blast leaving our mark all over town!

 

Eventually, life circumstances changed, and we ended up drifting apart. (something about a returning girlfriend) We never had an official end, but we certainly parted ways amicably. I believe he and his girlfriend ended up moving back in together, and I moved on to other sexual pastures. Any random thoughts of him or us that would cross my mind were always very erotic.

 

But then.....last week, out of the blue.....I get an inquiry about a session, in response to my ad, from the an email address of the very same guy. My heart leapt when I saw his name appear. Holy fuck! He had no idea that it was me that he was contacting. My ads don't show my face, and he had known me by a different name. I, on the other hand, recognized his name instantaneously. I didn't know what to do--whether to answer him or ..... not. If I did, I wondered if I should let on as to who I am. Would I then dare to meet him? After all, he knew my name, he knew where I lived, he knew a lot of personal information about me. This had the potential to blow up in my face.

 

Nonetheless, I could not resist the temptation to respond. I hesitantly (and excitedly) stuck just my big toe into the water. Zoom! Before I knew it, he messaged me again, this time attaching a picture of himself! Well, if I had had any doubt beforehand, there was now no doubt at all as to who was messaging me! Jeez! What to do....what to do....what to do....

 

Our text exchanges continued over the next several days. Throughout the exchanges, I playfully tried dropping a few hints, but my friend didn't pick up on them. Finally, we arranged to meet, and I told him that when he arrived I would have a big surprise for him. He said he liked surprises. So.....upon his arrival, I opened the door and said, "Surprise!!!"

 

His reaction was perfect, as I had suspected it would be. (or I wouldn't have done it.) He said something like, "Oh my God! Best surprise ever!!!" Although he was a bit stunned, he smoothly overcame it and we greedily devoured each other for the next little while.

 

I texted him after to thank him for being such a good sport, and he agreed that it was great fun. I also contacted him to let him know that I was posting this story online. So.....all turned out well in this case! I was pretty sure it would, or I wouldn't have chanced it.

 

Don't let this scare you. I really did know it was going to work out okay.

[Helena D'Orville 33237]

It has never happened to me... so far. But I have reviewed in my mind a few scenarios regarding how to react/respond if this were to happen. One thing is sure, as I am proud of what I do, of course, I would not feel embarrassed at all. And as everybody in this kind of situation would want to protect their privacy, it would certainly lead to a very mature and friendly conversation, and an agreement regarding which attitude to keep if, for example, I had to work with this person.

 

Although the idea that this situation can potentially happen is a bit stressful, I have decided not to fear it. And it surely can make for very special encounters and memorable stories like Summer's. Totally worth it! ;-)

[loopie 15358]

I had a really odd experience one time. I went into a fastfood place to grab a burger for lunch one day. I got my food and went over to the area where the tables were. The place was empty except for an escort who I had seen. I had seen her twice over the course of the year, so we weren't regulars or anything. I gave her a polite smile but didn't say anything, and she smiled back.

 

I went and sat by myself and started eating and she came over and asked if she could join me. We started talking and I brought up some stuff I remembered from our time together. Nothing dirty, just stuff she'd told me about a trip she'd recently taken. At this point in the conversation she got this weird expression on her face and asked "Do I know you?"

 

It turned out she didn't recognize me from our time together. She just thought I was a nice-looking man who smiled at her and she figured she'd get to know me. I told her that I did know her, but by her professional name. She asked me if I'd seen her and how often. It was clear she didn't remember me at all. I could tell she felt really embarassed. We parted awkwardly.

[PhantomKnight 7914]

I could see that. I know a beautiful lady who is in the industry, we are friends and I've warned to see her for the longest time. If you've got those boundaries, then you have to follow them! :)