Why go to a massage parlour rather than an escort???

[pizzapop 100]

I'm just curious why go to a massage parlour rather than an escort??? I never been to a massage parlour before but I really want to know the advantages. Thanks.

[fortunateone 156618]

Independents offer privacy and discretion. You deal directly with her (unless you go thru an agency), and she and you are the ones making the connection and appt. You have less chance of surprises on arrival, in other words, if you see an indy. You and she are the only ones in the location.

 

MPs are public business fronts. You will walk into it from a back way or front street entry, not discrete. There is a chance you will encounter other mp clients, either along the way or in the waiting room. You cannot be shy! There will likely be a receptionist person who you will have to talk with first to set up an appt. The pros are that being a business, if you have problems there is a management to complain to. There may be a choice of different sps available, and you can meet them all first then decide. You have the safety of visiting a business, rather than be directed to a location you do not know, or having someone come to see you at home.

[Pink Kitty Escorts 6195]

I think the reasons to go wherever has to do with the expectations and the experience that the client is looking for.

 

MP is someone who is, (or should be) skilled in massage. Physical stress relief and tension. The happy ending is the end of the journey, but its about the experience as a whole not just getting off.

 

With an Escort, many times its mainly about the release.. Much less likely the SP is as skilled in massage as its not her field of expertise. However the options are much more for the actual sexual part of the encounter.

 

This isnt to say that Sps cant give an amazing massage or an MP cant give a wicked BJ.. Its just not each other usual strong suit.

 

All of this said, Both can be amazing experiences and really depend on the mood of the individual.

 

Sometimes I'm in the mood for Italian, sometimes Steak.

[antlerman 17064]

I'm just curious why go to a massage parlour rather than an escort??? I never been to a massage parlour before but I really want to know the advantages. Thanks.

 

I think there has to be some clarification here.

 

I go to an MP for a body rub......massage......pamering on me....and a nice release...with little or no effort by me.....I am the center of attention.

 

I do not go to MP's for the extras really.....

 

I go to a SP for the whole thing...when I am putting as much work and effort into the experince as the lady is......time with a SP is about the experiance of the time...

[RobX 2084]

 

I go to an MP for ......pampering on me....and a nice release...with little or no effort by me.....I am the center of attention.

 

I go to a SP for the whole thing...when I am putting as much work and effort into the experience as the lady is....

 

I feel the same way.

 

With an MP, you just have to make an appointment and show up on time (or just show up and ask for a presentation).

 

However, seeing an outcall SP is a lot more complicated. You have to first acquire another cell phone to be used exclusively for contacting SPs, find an SP whose schedule matches yours, make the appointment with the SP or agency, find a hotel that does not require ID, and which is within the area the SP will travel to without requiring a travel premium, check the SP's website for her preferred refreshments and gift suggestions ("Gifts are never required but always appreciated"), buy the gift, refreshments and mood music CDs, book the hotel 45 minutes before the appointment to allow time to shower and prepare the room (bring extra cash in case the hotel requires a cash deposit if you don't present a credit card), call the SP with the room number, prepare the room - bathroom, music, refreshments, envelope and lights, wait for the SP's call announcing that she is just around the corner or stuck in traffic, and be prepared to extend the room by another hour depending on how late she will be, and finally, be prepared for surprises - the hotel is fully booked, there is a problem with the room, the SP cancels after you have paid for the room, etc.

 

The bottom line is that if you find an MP who fully satisfies you, it can be a lot more convenient than seeing an SP.

[Seymour 3970]

However, seeing an outcall SP is a lot more complicated. You have to first acquire another cell phone to be used exclusively for contacting SPs, find an SP whose schedule matches yours, make the appointment with the SP or agency, find a hotel that does not require ID, and which is within the area the SP will travel to without requiring a travel premium, check the SP's website for her preferred refreshments and gift suggestions ("Gifts are never required but always appreciated"), buy the gift, refreshments and mood music CDs, book the hotel 45 minutes before the appointment to allow time to shower and prepare the room (bring extra cash in case the hotel requires a cash deposit if you don't present a credit card), call the SP with the room number, prepare the room - bathroom, music, refreshments, envelope and lights, wait for the SP's call announcing that she is just around the corner or stuck in traffic, and be prepared to extend the room by another hour depending on how late she will be, and finally, be prepared for surprises - the hotel is fully booked, there is a problem with the room, the SP cancels after you have paid for the room, etc.

 

The bottom line is that if you find an MP who fully satisfies you, it can be a lot more convenient than seeing an SP.

 

Goodness man - have you ever heard of incall? ;-). OK granted not everyone is comfortable with incall - but there are top notch independent incall providers that go above and beyond to ensure this type of experience.

 

Also - there are top notch ladies that are agency affiliated and also provide the same top notch incall service. If one wants music, scented candles, lighting, special outfits, ask - but ask nicely -and they do deliver.

 

To answer the original question of massage parlor vs escort - advantages. It is not about advantages or disadvantages, it comes down to personal preferences and expectations.

 

Go to a massage provider if one is in need of a massage. If you seek a more intimate type of escape with the potential for intercourse, then seek an escort. The underlying expectation with seeing an escort is there will be sex at some point during the session - unless you set strong ground rules prior to the date that it is a 'social event' only - like dinner and story telling, no sex! So it comes down to the individual and personal preference.

[Andee 220524]

I feel the same way.

 

With an MP, you just have to make an appointment and show up on time (or just show up and ask for a presentation).

 

However, seeing an outcall SP is a lot more complicated. You have to first acquire another cell phone to be used exclusively for contacting SPs, find an SP whose schedule matches yours, make the appointment with the SP or agency, find a hotel that does not require ID, and which is within the area the SP will travel to without requiring a travel premium, check the SP's website for her preferred refreshments and gift suggestions ("Gifts are never required but always appreciated"), buy the gift, refreshments and mood music CDs, book the hotel 45 minutes before the appointment to allow time to shower and prepare the room (bring extra cash in case the hotel requires a cash deposit if you don't present a credit card), call the SP with the room number, prepare the room - bathroom, music, refreshments, envelope and lights, wait for the SP's call announcing that she is just around the corner or stuck in traffic, and be prepared to extend the room by another hour depending on how late she will be, and finally, be prepared for surprises - the hotel is fully booked, there is a problem with the room, the SP cancels after you have paid for the room, etc.

 

The bottom line is that if you find an MP who fully satisfies you, it can be a lot more convenient than seeing an SP.

 

I take it, you don't do in-calls? Reading the aforementioned made me exhausted! I would say what you described is the worse case scenario - the SP cancelling after you paid for the room. Now that would be a bummer. No wonder you prefer MPs.

[pjrd 324]

MPs and incalls are both great and I can get the same service with both. I just find the MPs to be quite a bit more convenient for me personally. Price wise it works out about the same. Outcalls are more expensive because I have to pay the extra for a hotel room and driver fees. If the only reason I'm in town is to see a Lady outcalls costs quite a bit more. I spend way too much already.

[Megan'sTouch 23875]

I'm an independent massage provider and here are some main reasons I think clients see me rather than an escort:

 

-Much less risk of STDs through just a hand job.

-They're married and want a sexy experience but they don't want to have intercourse with someone other than their wife.

-No pressure to "perform".

-To be pampered.

-Generally more tease and build up involved in a massage.

-Rates are cheaper.

[antlerman 17064]

Megan...well said

[Capital Hunter 18263]

Great posts. They were useful to me. After 15 years of seeing both dancers and escorts, likely hundreds may be thousands of SP dancers and hundreds of SP escorts I have not seen even one SP masseuse!!!! and thus reading these posts were interesting to me lol. I had no idea what receiving a massage is? So, to my understanding there is no FS (so why I read massage parlours being busted??) but are there any kissing exchanged?? or it is just (as said in one post) HJ and massage?. If no kissing or hugging or emotions, that is not for me, then I stay with gfe escorts and dancers (FS is not important to me and is not my requirement, but kissing/hugging is), otherwise it may be interesting to try a masseuse SP for a change and out of curiousity lol.

 

Also it is my impression (could be wrong) that Massage is for relieving physical stress, in the muscles and body (for those who have to do physical tasks) but in my case I have emotional stress at work (I don't do physical work), you know like dealing with difficult people, meeting tight deadlines, technical work, etc. Can a masseuse relieve that too?? Would be hard without the kissing/hugging component lol!!.

[etasman2000 15994]

Also it is my impression (could be wrong) that Massage is for relieving physical stress, in the muscles and body (for those who have to do physical tasks) but in my case I have emotional stress at work (I don't do physical work), you know like dealing with difficult people, meeting tight deadlines, technical work, etc. Can a masseuse relieve that too??

 

Emotional stress do cause physical manifestations.

 

A RMT could relieve emotional stress by addressing the physical components of it. A MA would add an 'extra' pull to it :grin:

[RobX 2084]

... I had no idea what receiving a massage is? So, to my understanding there is no FS (so why I read massage parlours being busted??) but are there any kissing exchanged?? or it is just (as said in one post) HJ and massage?. If no kissing or hugging or emotions, that is not for me...

 

Is there any kissing? I have only seen MPs in Montreal, and the answer to your question here is: It depends on the MP. Some do not kiss, some may kiss (YMMV) or only kiss their regulars. However, some MPs are more friendly and will engage in LFK or DFK, and may even join you in the shower at the end of the session.

 

Another thing that is different about receiving a message is that a massage session usually has two distinctive parts - the regular massage and the happy ending part, which occurs after she asks you to flip over. If there is any kissing or friendliness it usually happens only during the second part, unless you are a regular repeat customer.

[Cato 160314]

I'm an independent massage provider and here are some main reasons I think clients see me rather than an escort:

 

-Much less risk of STDs through just a hand job.

-They're married and want a sexy experience but they don't want to have intercourse with someone other than their wife.

-No pressure to "perform".

-To be pampered.

-Generally more tease and build up involved in a massage.

-Rates are cheaper.

 

You forgot to mention that clients see you because you're incredibly gorgeous and brilliant, Megan.

[ThisOneWorks 4707]

MP's are great, but I do agree that every time I go to one, I always drive around it once or twice. I don't know what I'd do if I ever met someone I knew coming in or going out of one. Hard to hide what your doing there!

I'm a man, it's not likely I was going to ask for directions! :lol:

 

SP's certainly can make you feel special in a different way, if you find one that offers a GFE and she's good at it, like many are, then you can have your cake and eat it too.

 

As for the hotel thing . . . yikes dude! Why would you ever book and pay for a hotel room unless you had some previous history experience with a person before, that's just silly. But then again theres the fact that you just talked me completely out of ever trying that process. I would rather see an incall, or go to an MP, than go through all of that.

[etasman2000 15994]

I would rather see an incall, or go to an MP, than go through all of that.

 

Someone suggested treating myself to a hotel locally to 'get away' for the weekend. Something like Chateau Laurie or The Arc where its a wonderful stay regardless.

 

Otherwise I outcall only when I'm traveling.

[blue_eyes56 2010]

I agree with Megan and would add one more thing.

 

Based on my (limited) experience, I find massages can be much more sensual because the focus is not just on the release. More touching, more intimacy, more relaxing while escorts (IMHO) tend to be less seductive/engaging and a little more impersonal/mechanical. It's almost like MP's can give more because they give less (if that makes any sense). Of course, it all depends on what you're looking for.

[PistolPete 61421]

I'm just curious why go to a massage parlour rather than an escort??? I never been to a massage parlour before but I really want to know the advantages. Thanks.

 

Massage parlour- Are you referring to a establishment with more then 1 lady? Since you have no other posts I would assume that is what you are referring too?

 

Advantages- All depends what you are looking for- intimate massage and hand release, then a selection of different ladies if they advertise giving those details of different ladies available that day, sometimes you can book the same day. STD's ease of mind.

 

Independant Massage Provider- You and her only at the location, she would have an in call avail it most cases. A intimate massage and hand release,STD's ease of mind.Pre-booking is in order in most cases.

 

Service Provider- Advantages-Having full safe intercourse, having the intimacy of erotic foreplay,kissing and mutual satisfaction for each other. Again YMMV and how you and your provider hit it off together, you must pre-book in most cases, unless she is advertising and avail that day.

 

Service Provider-Agency bookings- Having full safe intercourse, having the intimacy of erotic foreplay,kissing and mutual satisfaction for each other. Again YMMV and how you and your provider hit it off together, you must pre-book in most cases, unless she is advertising and avail that day. You have a choice of ladies that might be avail. that day.

 

Again it is at your discretion, how and what you like to do with your time and money. I don't think that stating a comment as blues _ eyes56 said-

 

"More touching, more intimacy, more relaxing while escorts (IMHO) tend to be less seductive/engaging and a little more impersonal/mechanical."

 

Is even close to the truth at all, my times with ladies have been all very seductive/engaging physically and emotionally and the ladies always have been very personal and not mechanical. Again that is his own view, certainly not mine.

 

Have fun what ever you choose to do.

[yak2432 1499]

For me an MP satisfies 3 functions. First off a decent massage can be an incredible stress reliever. Most RMT's are $60 a pop and no release and I've had better massages at some MP's than most RMT's. Secondly you have the visual of a naked woman and the freedom to roam around. This eliminates the appeal of strip bars and thirdly the hand release. You don't have the guilt of intercourse and if she's good, it sure feels better than if you did it yourself. Decent massage, feeling up the bobbies and had release all for $120 sounds pretty good to me.

[BUCKIT 100]

Convenience:-):-) Spur of the moment:-):-) Moment to SPURT:grin::grin:

YOU find the RIGHT ONE at a GOOD!! MP "RIGHT ON with a HARD ON":grin::grin:

YOU find the RIGHT, ESCORT "RIGHT ON with a HARD ON":grin::grin:

[ross64dave 100]

MP you go in when u want.

SP you have to try and set time. Which can take a whole lota time.