DarkWandering 178 Report post Posted August 3, 2015 I am an older gentleman looking for a bit of fun. I am clean, respectful and relatively in shape. I am very inexperienced. I am happily married to my high school sweetheart, and she is the only woman I have ever known. We both share very traditional values, yet I am a little more adventurous and part of me is very unsatisfied. I would never leave her, but I need something more. I find the idea of spending time with an escort very intriguing, but absolutely terrifying as well. I don't know where to start. I think I would need to find someone that could spend at least a few hours with me. What is important to me in choosing a date is personality much more than looks. Discretion would be very important. Is there a good way to get to know potential SPs before booking a session? Are there any SPs that specialize in spending time with inexperienced older men? Thank you in advance for any advice. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Bianca Jaguar 39183 Report post Posted August 3, 2015 Good day, I think a good way would be to start with a private message...or email if the lady prefers that way of communication... There are a lot of ladies here comfortable with someone new to this...so feel free to send an introductory message to the lady of your choice. Bianca :) 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Parker 19761 Report post Posted August 3, 2015 I am an older gentleman looking for a bit of fun. I am clean, respectful and relatively in shape. I am very inexperienced. I am happily married to my high school sweetheart, and she is the only woman I have ever known. We both share very traditional values, yet I am a little more adventurous and part of me is very unsatisfied. I would never leave her, but I need something more. I find the idea of spending time with an escort very intriguing, but absolutely terrifying as well. I don't know where to start. I think I would need to find someone that could spend at least a few hours with me. What is important to me in choosing a date is personality much more than looks. Discretion would be very important. Is there a good way to get to know potential SPs before booking a session? Are there any SPs that specialize in spending time with inexperienced older men? Thank you in advance for any advice. Welcome to Lyla! A good place to read through some posts, (if you have the time,) is the New to this? Things you should know... section, lots of information there to get you started. It is possible to get to know a companion before meeting, but does involve some work. A good start is the Classifieds sections and other ad areas around Lyla. You can learn more about ladies that interest you by checking out websites, blogs, recommendations, posts.. and of course, you can always contact a few who catch your eye. Hope this helps a little. ;) 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nicolette Vaughn 294340 Report post Posted August 5, 2015 Like the other ladies have said, check out their websites, blogs etc to see who sparks your interest. Once you find someone who intrigues you, contact them by the method of communication that they offer. When you speak with them, be honest, direct and to the point. Many ladies do not like endless conversation over a long period of time because they may feel it's going nowhere. I prefer to speak with gentlemen on the phone for a few minutes and that way I gauge by the conversation I've had with them if we would be a good fit or not. I will always listen to my intuition and I suggest men do the same. Sometimes you just know if it's someone you'd like to meet or not after to speaking with them and hearing their voice. At least for me, anyways. I wish you the best of luck in finding lady that is right for you. :) 3 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Luckyme 41401 Report post Posted August 6, 2015 I am an older gentleman .... I will not call a 30-yr old man old.... unless you've mis-typed on your public profile :icon_wink:. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Meaghan McLeod 179664 Report post Posted August 6, 2015 You are lucky that there are many great women in Ottawa that are very active on this board. So look around and find someone who sparks your interest and send her a message by her method of choice. Good luck! 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
DarkWandering 178 Report post Posted August 6, 2015 Thank you all for the advice. Feels like a very welcoming community which, to be honest, I was not really expecting. I can't wait to explore more. I will not call a 30-yr old man old.... unless you've mis-typed on your public profile . Ha! I was so paranoid when I signed up I didn't want to use my real birth date. This is a very foreign place to my previous life experience. Now that I have a better feel for this community I would change it, but can't figure out how. 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Parker 19761 Report post Posted August 7, 2015 ... I would change it, but can't figure out how. I believe you have to message the Mod to change birthdays.. (mine's also wrong, I'm always forgetting to message mod and have it changed.) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
andflemcol 3975 Report post Posted August 10, 2015 I find the idea of spending time with an escort very intriguing, but absolutely terrifying as well. I don't know where to start. I think I would need to find someone that could spend at least a few hours with me. What is important to me in choosing a date is personality much more than looks. Discretion would be very important. Is there a good way to get to know potential SPs before booking a session? Are there any SPs that specialize in spending time with inexperienced older men? Thank you in advance for any advice. I have been in your shoes about 10 or so years ago when I first got into the hobby. My biggest fear was getting that look of disgust as the SP gets her first glance at me due to my age. I can tell you that I have experienced that initial look on a couple of occasions but not from any of the ladies from this site and I have seen many. All the ladies from Cerb that I have met have been nothing but professional and do a wonderful job of making you feel comfortable. To them age is merely a number and to add, you will find many ladies who prefer older gentlemen. Good luck and have fun. Feel free to pm me if you want to hear from someone who has been there. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Gordblack 100 Report post Posted August 10, 2015 Just do it. You will love it. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
