Guest Report post Posted September 29, 2015 This is kind of an odd question, but I think about it a lot. I work in a place that isn't well known in Ottawa. Sometimes we have new clients come in who seem a little nervous...understandably. They don't know me. I don't want to go straight in for the hug (though I'm from BC and hugging is what we're known for), but a handshake and introduction seems way too formal. I'm looking for a happy medium that will make new guys feel comfortable. Ottawa is a weird town, remember. People are friendly, but they always keep their distance until you get to know them. Suggestions? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Meaghan McLeod 179664 Report post Posted September 29, 2015 Anytime someone has put out their hand to shake mine, I always go in for the hug and a big kiss. Sorry, but in this industry, a handshake just doesn't work. I find that those that put their hand out, just don't know what is allowed and what isn't. So, I let them know that we are going to get intimate real quick, and it sets the tone for the encounter. Ottawa is no different then any other place. Just might be a bit more nervous and reserved. This is your opportunity to shine. 17 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ice4fun 78407 Report post Posted September 29, 2015 Well I can't speak for Ottawa clients but for me personally I would much rather the hug... it immediately makes me feel welcome and at ease and sets the right tone for the rest of the visit. Just my Opinion Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
johnybird 4391 Report post Posted September 29, 2015 I agree a hug is the way to go. A little ass grab is a good way to break the ice as well :P Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
FranZKafkA 231 Report post Posted September 29, 2015 A welcoming smile and big hug is a perfect way to set the scene. I would see a handshake out of place actually. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
AUTUMN RAINE 15548 Report post Posted September 29, 2015 I'm a hugger .. lol ok ok and a kisser too ;) 4 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ice4fun 78407 Report post Posted September 29, 2015 I'm a hugger .. lolok ok and a kisser too ;) And we all are very thankful.. :) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
NotchJohnson 214123 Report post Posted September 29, 2015 I'm French and I'm not from Ottawa or Montreal and what I like is a hug followed by a huge French kiss. Ok that might be going to fast but I do like the French kiss further on in the encounter. 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
amf67 360 Report post Posted September 29, 2015 My last encounter, the girl stuck her hand out and introduced herself. It was a downer and pretty much set the tone for the date. You are about to get jigggy and she shakes your hand ? Definite no-no and a turnoff Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jafo105 39057 Report post Posted September 29, 2015 I think it makes a huge indication on how things are going to proceed. If she goes for the handshake - then things are going to be all business. If she goes in for the hug - then she is genuinely interested in what is about to follow. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ricky1ricardo7 400 Report post Posted September 29, 2015 Definitely, I prefer a big, tight hug..... and a kiss too! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
spud271 47779 Report post Posted September 29, 2015 I'm a big fan of both giving and receiving hugs. So I think a hug is very appropriate. :) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Luckyme 41401 Report post Posted September 29, 2015 A handshake may be too formal and business-like. I very much prefer a sweet smile, followed by a greeting like ( the one I remember fondly :D ) -- " Hi, how are you? " , then a big hug and some passionate kisses. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
bobviper69 100 Report post Posted September 29, 2015 I think a hug is best...definitely makes me feel more comfortable with the person I'm meeting! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
shymale 10234 Report post Posted September 29, 2015 hug and kiss all the way. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Exotic Touch Danielle 31713 Report post Posted September 29, 2015 Handshakes are more of a friendly business way of saying hello or good bye in this industry I prefer a more intimate warm hug...Hugs are good Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Emma Alexandra 123367 Report post Posted September 29, 2015 Im all about the hug. Love them and love giving them. Much more appropriate in this biz. I can't even imagine a handshake. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
waterat 20911 Report post Posted September 29, 2015 I don't mind a nice friendly, welcoming handshake and I love to use it to pull a willing lady in for a passionate, warm hug and kiss as I slide my left arm around her back! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
johnybird 4391 Report post Posted September 29, 2015 The answer to any question with Hug as an option, is always HUG Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Triple HHH 12345 Report post Posted September 29, 2015 A Hug is the way to go for sure followed the kiss after your initial meeting. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Reddog01 30280 Report post Posted September 29, 2015 Hugs all the way. I can give a great bear hug, kisses will follow. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
bewlayb 7480 Report post Posted September 30, 2015 A hug is the best ice breaker for me. I'm a nervous reserved type on first meets and nothing relaxes me faster than knowing I'm with a warm affectionate woman who wants me in her personal space. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
someguy 67067 Report post Posted September 30, 2015 With most girls that I can contact, I usually ask if they allow kissing. Other ones, i've read that they allow kissing. Some I have no information at all and I hope for the best. But I've never been greeted with a handshake. To me that means the session is probably not going to be as much as I hope. As I find without kissing, there can be no chemistry and it is usually mechanical. But in most case it is a big hug and a kiss or in some cases a passionate kiss. If it is a passionate kiss, then I know this is going to be fun. A little kiss hopefully needs to more. But never a handshake. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest *Ste***cque** Report post Posted September 30, 2015 What are you selling, Insurance or sex? If sex, a hug, please. I'd rather have just a hello with no contact than a handshake! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Brad 49548 Report post Posted September 30, 2015 It's all in the right technique... 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
