Recommendation for the Unexperienced

[ottawajondoe 100]

Hello Ottawa,

 

I am a 24 year old virgin and I haven't really experienced anything before, since I'm not pretty and I have some social anxiety. This is a lonely existence and I have started to wonder what I am missing.

 

Are there any specific ladies, preferably in the east-end, who you would recommend to me; someone who is patient and who enjoys what they do?

 

Also, I know from my research that most ladies only see White gentlemen. I myself am half-Asian and half-White. So I need to take this into account.

[blacklabdog 3049]

I think there are quite a few ladies who would not care if you are half Asian (I am Chinese ). Not sure if its a long term solution gor feeling lonely but might serve to give you a shot if confidence. I have only ket a couple of ladies and though both might fit the bill I'll let some of the more senior members chine in

Hope it works out for you

[cerbfan 1738]

In my opinion you can start looking into the recommendations on this board which will be a great help to you as a beginner. Best of luck to you.

[Amber Rose 19012]

First, are you looking for a specific type of look or lady? If so, start from there and see who fits your type and read through their websites and postings and such to get a sense of what they're like and if they have positive recommendations.

 

Second, if you don't have a specific look you're going for an are just looking for who ever might help ease you into this the best, than just look through threads and ads and again, see who catches your eye, then send them a message.

 

I think you have a lot less to worry about with your skin colour than you might with your age, but you should be able to find someone who will give you a wonderful experience and help you feel totally at ease.

 

But remember to try and stick with reputable and established providers for an almost guaranteed good time for starting out! :)

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[daredevil8888 407]

Just throwing it out there. You might want to try going to a strip club. I find the experience less stressful, but it most likely will be more expensive. I am not advocating going all the way at the club, but at the very least it can help you get more comfortable with the opposite sex.

[star99 4852]

try going to see an MA 1st before seeing an escort. just so you get a taste roughly what it will be like with an escort.

 

there are a couple of Spa's in the east end. CMJ and Vibe.

 

best of luck :)

[maleguy2015 513]

confidence can go a long way regardless of looks. very very long way.

 

I would recommend you go for a massage personally. someone can probably recommend a more chatty girl which should help break the ice.

[Andee 220524]

If you're looking for a great lady in the east end, I recommend Nicolette Vaughn.

[Guest *ha***op]

I at 28, have a very hard time finding girls who are interested in under-30's. In fact less than half (at least in this site) seem to be. Discrimnating against race is frowned upon on CERB but its open season to discriminate against younger guys. Best of luck.

[Ice4fun 78407]

I at 28, have a very hard time finding girls who are interested in under-30's. In fact less than half (at least in this site) seem to be. Discrimnating against race is frowned upon on CERB but its open season to discriminate against younger guys. Best of luck.

 

Discrimination is a very harsh word... There are endless threads on here discussing the reasons why a lady might choose to restrict who she sees with the ugly connotations of discrimination being just one. My experience in this industry is that I have been struck by just how open to diversity this community is... it has amazed me.

 

I have been active in this lifestyle for quite a few years and frankly when I have cold called a lady from her ad I don't think I can recall a lady specifically asking my age....so I am left to wonder if you are experiencing 50% or more who are concerned with age if it is your approach that raises the concern more then the specific age?

 

Just my Opinion

[Meg O'Ryan 266444]

Do you know what triggers the age request? Disrespectful, immature, and "gangsta" style contact. I have met many young men who I gladly spend time with but I will outright ignore those who portray themselves like young morons. "Yo babe", "what do I get for $xxx", "wanna party" etc, while not solely a young persons MO it's more likely than an older gent.

[Guest *ha***op]

I definitely understand what you are both saying. I actually prefer to go through emails and PM's (Ironically) to weed out the "gangsta" and gramatically inept SP's.

 

In my initial inquiry I always voluntarily provide my age and race, as I know there are SP's who dont see a certain demographic of both. I am not willing to stop this as I believe being honest and transparent is very important for clients and providers alike.

 

Come to think of it I have never had an SP ask me how old I was...perhaps (coming to your point Meg) because I dont write like a caveman or a "gangsta".

 

As for the word "discrimination", it is not harsh at all. Age discrimination usually takes the opposite route, but call it what it is.

[Ice4fun 78407]

I definitely understand what you are both saying. I actually prefer to go through emails and PM's (Ironically) to weed out the "gangsta" and gramatically inept SP's.

 

In my initial inquiry I always voluntarily provide my age and race, as I know there are SP's who dont see a certain demographic of both. I am not willing to stop this as I believe being honest and transparent is very important for clients and providers alike.

 

Come to think of it I have never had an SP ask me how old I was...perhaps (coming to your point Meg) because I dont write like a caveman or a "gangsta".

 

As for the word "discrimination", it is not harsh at all. Age discrimination usually takes the opposite route, but call it what it is.

 

As I said before ladies select their clients for a lot of reasons but is that not also very similar to what us gentlemen do... we don't bring up BP and call the first lady that appears on the list... we check the lady out to see if she meets our requirements... are we looking for a BBW or a spinner or an Asian lady.... perhaps a lady with an amazing ass or a tall lady or a short lady... we CHOOSE who we wish to spend our time with based on our own specific criteria... so I wonder are we choosing or are we discriminating... or are you suggesting that the ladies in this lifestyle should not be allowed to choose who they spend time with just the clients.

 

Just my Opinion

[Amanda-Lee 11094]

Hello Ottawa,

 

I am a 24 year old virgin and I haven't really experienced anything before, since I'm not pretty and I have some social anxiety. This is a lonely existence and I have started to wonder what I am missing.

 

Are there any specific ladies, preferably in the east-end, who you would recommend to me; someone who is patient and who enjoys what they do?

 

Also, I know from my research that most ladies only see White gentlemen. I myself am half-Asian and half-White. So I need to take this into account.

 

One of the things you could do is ask the lady if she is available to chat on the phone. That way you can get an idea what she is like and you can ask any questions you may have or concerns. For me, I do all my confirmed bookings in a phone call, this way it allows room for any questions they might have. It also allows me to know how they respond.

 

When you find a lady that you would like to get to know more you can give her a call or send her a text asking if she is available to take your call.

 

Trust your gut, if you like what they look like or how they interact with others/or replies, or the content on their website the chances are you should get in touch with her.

 

For me personally if you are Caucasian, African-american, Jamaican, etc., that doesn't determine whether or not I will see someone. I don't see anyone who is rude or demanding with explicit messages. If they are kind and nice, they get an appointment. Everyone is different.

 

Best of luck in your search :)