ashleyangel4u 1341 Report post Posted September 1, 2010 Hi everyone :) I just wanted to remind you how useful feedback can be! When I am with a guy it is not only flattering and a huge turn on to hear verbal praise, but it can also be helpful to the *success* of our meeting. While I have some pretty good ideas for how to please a man, everyone is different :) Some like things slow, some fast, some like things hard, etc etc. Some like nipple play while others may find it extremely uncomfortable! I think other SPs would agree that it makes things easier for us when we know exactly how to push your buttons :) I've never really had anybody complain about my service, but I can tell when people are satisfied, and when they are in ecstasy. Nothing pleases me more than to see that I've helped someone reach ecstasy :) That, to me, is a Win-Win situation <3 xoxo Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Lexy Grace 103697 Report post Posted September 2, 2010 Hi everyone :) I just wanted to remind you how useful feedback can be! When I am with a guy it is not only flattering and a huge turn on to hear verbal praise, but it can also be helpful to the *success* of our meeting. While I have some pretty good ideas for how to please a man, everyone is different :) Some like things slow, some fast, some like things hard, etc etc. Some like nipple play while others may find it extremely uncomfortable! I think other SPs would agree that it makes things easier for us when we know exactly how to push your buttons :) I've never really had anybody complain about my service, but I can tell when people are satisfied, and when they are in ecstasy. Nothing pleases me more than to see that I've helped someone reach ecstasy :) That, to me, is a Win-Win situation <3 xoxo I have to agree with you 100%. I do ask what they like and how they like it, so I don't have or need to guess. I can 98% tell but there is no harm in asking, as they usually ask if I like what they are doing and how I like things. It's a mutal interaction and both should enjoy!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Meg O'Ryan 266444 Report post Posted September 2, 2010 What a great thread!!! I hope that more people will chime in here! I too am very turned on by vocalization; it ensures mutual satisfaction. While being somewhat submissive, I tend to wait for my partner to signal what they desire but sometimes I find myself practically pulling teeth for feedback! But, then again, it allows that hidden vixen in me to surface once in awhile! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
rickoshadows 937 Report post Posted September 2, 2010 I wonder how many men have been conditioned not to criticize, or even hint that something might be done better. With my wife, if I even should suggest that something could be done differently, I get a "Fine then! I won't do it at all" I guess I resigned myself that even a poor blowjob is still a blowjob! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Cleo Catra 178382 Report post Posted September 2, 2010 I wonder how many men have been conditioned not to criticize, or even hint that something might be done better. With my wife, if I even should suggest that something could be done differently, I get a "Fine then! I won't do it at all" I guess I resigned myself that even a poor blowjob is still a blowjob! No man should ever have to live with a 'poor' blowjob!!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Boomer 33202 Report post Posted September 2, 2010 I actually like to have a little discussion with the SP on the phone and let her know what it is I want prior to our meeting. I am pretty talkative and easy going, and generally have a good feel for whether I'm going to enjoy being with the lady. It also heads of any auckwardness later on. e.g when you lean forward for a little kiss and find out she doesn't allow kissing. Also since I vaue your skill as a professional, its nice to let you take charge and see where it leads. I guess part of it is my age, I am not at all shy expressing myself, but still respectful and polite. Also I don't generally book unless I think I'm going to want to repeat, mainly because I find it generally takes several dates to find a nice rapport and start to make friends. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites