YourGFBrookeLee 190 Report post Posted July 5, 2016 Definitely avoid ALL oils as most people here listed. Also this was helpful when I was deciding on the type of lubricant to use (ones that don't cause yeast infections). http://www.prevention.com/sex/better-sex/some-lubricants-may-cause-yeast-infections 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
OceanMassage 5357 Report post Posted August 13, 2016 Coconut oil is my favorite oil for massage. It stains and smells (unless you get it defragranced) but the texture is rich and provides a delightful micro stimulation to the proprioceptors. I also like to use it as lube: since I am allergic to latex I can use it if I use polyurethane condoms. Because of the delicate balance of the flora, glycerine and sugars are not recommended. It is often said that it traps bacteria that can cause infections. I have not experienced that but I regularly soak in Epsom Salts, which may have help avoid that issue. However, silicone gives me yeast infections... go figure! Although Aloe seems to get the thumbs up, I can't use it either as I am very allergic to it! As for the water-based lubes, they dry tacky so fast... The best lube i found so far is the Preseed lube, with hyaluronic acid recommanded for couples trying to conceive. Cost an arm and a leg but feels amazing. Just try not to break the condom... ;-) 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
capitalCforcougar 16766 Report post Posted August 24, 2016 As a practitioner of many lovely things.... <grin> I find so many uses for coconut oil that it's 'almost' limitless... you can cook with/in it... use it to clean your mouth/teeth (not whiten, as some would say.. but it does 'pull' bacteria and tartar out of your teeth/gums).. a base for medicines/balms/salves... lipcare and a host of other things... but... as is what I can safely assume everyone's purrrrrsonal favorites in this thread...<grin>.. massage/perrrsonal lubricants ;) Unlike many petrolium-based things (which are horrible for your body as it leaves a very long-lasting 'film' on body tissue and can cause more issues than they are worth)... coconut oil tends to absorbed into the skin.. 'feeding' it moisture/vitamins and much more.... **And for females who suffer from yeast issues (men can too, but predominantly females) coconut oil actually can 'help' take care of those things....as it literally KILLS candida cells....(so anyone currently dealing with candida overgrowth of any kind..... (and there's an easy test to do to see if you are.... it isn't just about females hehe) it's also the *least* 'harmful' to condoms..toys and other fun things that can come into play during play ;) I dug up a wonderful article that not only goes into the benefits of this amazing substance <grin> but others as well... from the point of view of using it for s3x/activity.......take a peek.. if you are so inclined ;) http://dirtyorganics.com/personal-lubricants-guide-with-a-coconut-oil-focus/ There is so much information out there.. easily accessible.... and one should *always* arm themselves with as much as possible.... with the ease of finding out information.. whether through internet, a doctor... a practitioner of natural health modalities like myself.. or my favorrrite standby.. *actual* books <grin>.... it's silly to *not* ask/learn about things that can have an immediate effect on you ;) Like the old adage says; 'the only 'dumb' question, is the one not asked' ;) 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
OceanMassage 5357 Report post Posted August 25, 2016 That article was a great read! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Regent 35404 Report post Posted August 25, 2016 That article reads like an advertisement for coconut oil. Oils are definitely damaging to latex and rubber, this includes coconut oil - it says it's being debated but by who? Coconut oil is trendy - not magic. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
capitalCforcougar 16766 Report post Posted August 25, 2016 That article was a great read! <grin>.... I do what I can ;) I have soooo much information on coconut oil and all it's incredible benefits.. (and a ridiculous wealth of information on all sorts off other 'fun-foodie-type things one can use/enjoy)....but this one was specific to s3x and playing, so hehe best suited for here I thought ;) glad it was enjoyed and hopefully of some use :) Additional Comments: That article reads like an advertisement for coconut oil. Oils are definitely damaging to latex and rubber, this includes coconut oil - it says it's being debated but by who? Coconut oil is trendy - not magic. <grin> The article comes off like that .. largely due to it's title.. making the reason rather obvious <grin> "with a coconut oil focus".... and being this thread is *about* coconut oil and s3x/play... well....<shrug>... ;) and no, while certainly not magic.. but is almost inexhaustible in it's uses.. although, like anything else out there containing oil... it can be damaging to anything like condoms.. toys et al... and as usual, common sense (the ultimate oxy-moron hehe) should come into play...latex + *any* type of oil.. not the best combination or.. say.. you are allergic to coconut.. then.. perrrhaps not the best thing to consider.. ;) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
OceanMassage 5357 Report post Posted August 25, 2016 I was actually referring to the Who (World Health Organization) article referenced in there. It can't hardly be deemed as marketing... Rather scientific. And interesting facts about water-based lubs that will make you wonder if you really want to use them... 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Brassfoxx 1390 Report post Posted December 20, 2016 Mmmm good substitute.. will have to try ;) 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
AveryMayhem 1050 Report post Posted May 25, 2017 Definitely not wise to use with or as an SP - oils degrade condoms... No point really in using them if their integrity is compromised... 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
GetHard 1030 Report post Posted September 17, 2017 Yes I've tried coconut oil as lube, it's a great substitute. It's not too greasy but give better lubrication. Just apply once and you're good. And it doesn't give that sticky feel. 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sari 1010 Report post Posted September 19, 2017 It could disrupt your vagina's natural pH balance. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
GetHard 1030 Report post Posted September 21, 2017 I guess then it's not ideal for women but for men, makes great lube for when you're getting a hj 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest J**ck*9 Report post Posted September 21, 2017 Maybe so, but it could have an adverse effect on men as well. For massage, I believe it should be discussed between both the MA and client to confirm allergies or adverse effects, thus insuring a more pleasurable experience for both. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
rubylabellexo 1144 Report post Posted April 23, 2018 Yup, coconut oil is great for massage but will break down condoms- don't risk it! I don't recommend using it even if condoms are not a factor- because coconut oil has antifungal and antibacterial properties, it could well disrupt the healthy equilibrium of bacteria in a vagina, and there are no studies that have looked at this so we don't know for sure either way. I'm brand-new to Lyla btw- first post. Hello everyone! :) 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
GoinDown 3669 Report post Posted April 24, 2018 WD40 is also a terrific lubricant but I wouldn't use it between anyone's legs. I suggest sticking with water-based lube for sex. If you ingest it it won't harm you unlike silicone-based lube. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nicolette Vaughn 294340 Report post Posted April 24, 2018 Thanks, what a great tip. I did not know this. Coconut oil is having good amount of antibacterial as well anti fungal properties which can be for topical treatment in order to get control on the bacterial infections ( non related STD infections) which occur in the vagina. Also 3% half hydrogen peroxide and half water is good for vaginal cleaning as it gets rid of the bad bacteria that can be caused by overuse of douches and soaps while maintaining good bacteria. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
EmilieSpade 1010 Report post Posted October 14, 2018 On 11/17/2015 at 12:34 AM, Regent said: If you use coconut oil as lube, use non-latex condoms, like the female/internal condom or polyisoprene condoms (Lifestyle Skyns, Durex Avanti Bare Real Feel). If you're using latex, silicone lube is a nice "oilier" feeling lube that is latex-friendly. On the SKYN website they say not to use oils and recommend water or silicone based lubricants... https://skynfeel.co.uk/pages/faq Use products intended for sex, they were made for a reason 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
EmilieSpade 1010 Report post Posted October 14, 2018 On 4/24/2018 at 7:42 PM, Nicolette Vaughn said: Coconut oil is having good amount of antibacterial as well anti fungal properties which can be for topical treatment in order to get control on the bacterial infections ( non related STD infections) which occur in the vagina. Also 3% half hydrogen peroxide and half water is good for vaginal cleaning as it gets rid of the bad bacteria that can be caused by overuse of douches and soaps while maintaining good bacteria. Hydrogen peroxide will burn, vaginas have discharge that helps it clean itself and you really need something to clean, use pH balancing vaginal wipes EXTERNALLY ONLY. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
cat 262460 Report post Posted October 15, 2018 I use coconut oil and lecithin for day to day natural lubrication without issue and I make my own water based lubes. One with distilled water, arrowroot, vit C and lecithin. The other with pure aloe vera gel, vit C and lecithin. I freeze them into small squeeze bottle and suppositories, then pop a suppository in after my shower before an playdate and keep a squeeze bottle in the playroom. I love coconut oil but it really shouldn't be used with latex at any time. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nicolette Vaughn 294340 Report post Posted October 18, 2018 On 10/14/2018 at 1:50 PM, EmilieSpade said: Hydrogen peroxide will burn, vaginas have discharge that helps it clean itself and you really need something to clean, use pH balancing vaginal wipes EXTERNALLY ONLY. On 10/14/2018 at 1:50 PM, EmilieSpade said: Hydrogen peroxide will burn, vaginas have discharge that helps it clean itself and you really need something to clean, use pH balancing vaginal wipes EXTERNALLY ONLY. Hydrogen peroxide has to diluted with 1 cup water to be used internally. I remember dealing with this only twice in my life, it does alleviate symptoms almost immediately and it does work. While your may not feel comfortable with using hydrogen peroxide, it doesn’t mean that it is not safe to do so. I have never EVER used feminine douching products or with PH cleansing wipes, baby wipes or any other similar feminine commercial products related and try to avoid antibiotics unless its for bladder infection or strep throat. A study was done on participants who used this for bacterial vaginosis. https://www.google.ca/amp/s/www.thealternativedaily.com/should-you-put-hydrogen-peroxide-in-your-vagina/amp/ Anyways I don’t want to steer off topic... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest PetraPegasus Report post Posted December 2, 2019 Amazing personal lube and oil, terrible for condoms and not the best for anal personally. Anal I prefer silicone based for myself. Coconut is great for vaginal if you need it. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Pure Lily 0 Report post Posted May 24, 2022 I would personally avoid using it as it doesn't really work with condoms. But I do use coconut oil in my p***y after some days of work as it really helps with soothing and moisturing vagina. It smells nice too! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
bravenewworld1 3 Report post Posted July 5, 2022 A few years ago I knew a woman who use coconut oil for lube. After one evening I noticed a bitter odor that I could not escape. It was on me and it took washing a few times to get rid of it. I thought it was odd until the next time I saw her and smelled it again after we met. So it definitely leaves an odor. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Phillip89 102 Report post Posted July 26, 2022 What do you guys recommend for silicone based lubes? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites