Amanda Bella 421 Report post Posted September 14, 2010 Come, come! This gentleman has simply said that he likes to "touch and lick softly". I really don't see that it is at all reasonable to single him out for a scolding, or to assume that he must therefore be callously ignoring his partner's sensitivities or preferences. Much less to imply that he would be an undesirable guest in bed. On the contrary, many ladies (and gentlemen, myself included!) are really quite partial and receptive to a soft touch or lick. You say that everyone is different -- well, believe it! Let's get back to being happy about breasts! WrinkledinTime I think a well educated guess with emotional and sexual intelligence will prefer to ask "how do you prefer" Instead of i do this and that to her. WrinkledinTime You are absolutely right assuming he is insensitive to her likes and dislikes it is wrong of me. I only wish more guys had more interest in learning the likes and dislikes of individual woman because some guys grab and bounce and pinch and hurt our breasts and do hard painful stuff to us assuming because he is paying our bodies are playground for him to do as you wish! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
srch4intimacy 204 Report post Posted September 14, 2010 Come, come! This gentleman has simply said that he likes to "touch and lick softly". I really don't see that it is at all reasonable to single him out for a scolding, or to assume that he must therefore be callously ignoring his partner's sensitivities or preferences. Much less to imply that he would be an undesirable guest in bed. On the contrary, many ladies (and gentlemen, myself included!) are really quite partial and receptive to a soft touch or lick. You say that everyone is different -- well, believe it! Let's get back to being happy about breasts! Thanks WIT for sticking up for me. I never said that I would do that to a woman if she didn't like it or it hurt or they were overly sensitive. All I said that was I like to do it. I would only do what a woman enjoys. It turns me on when I arouse a woman so it is in my best interest to not do anything that has the opposite effect. Don't assume too much. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Amanda Bella 421 Report post Posted September 15, 2010 Thanks WIT for sticking up for me. I never said that I would do that to a woman if she didn't like it or it hurt or they were overly sensitive. All I said that was I like to do it. I would only do what a woman enjoys. It turns me on when I arouse a woman so it is in my best interest to not do anything that has the opposite effect. Don't assume too much. SRCH4Intimacy! You are absolutely right! Making assumptions about your behavior it is dead wrong of me and i am so sorry! I am talking from the perspective of someone who rarelly gets a gentleman who ask, what do you preffer? How do you like it? Even when i tell them`: ''Please do not grab my breasts tight, u r hurting me'' They still do it as if they are indifferent to my likes and dislikes. I really think that some people are very happy from within and they want to spread joy and others are indiffrent to the well being of someone else because they are miserable. Happiness it is from within! Also many gents thinks like this! I am paying you thus i will do whatever i want and whatever i like it. Nice guys are rare! If a gentleman it is not doing what helps me to get aroused i will just do whatever it takes to get him to stop doing what he is doing to me. Then i will ask him to lay down and give him the service he wants without envolving my body too much. My pleasure them it is to get him off without been hurt, thats all! Usually they are happy to stare at my beautifull face and body!:grin: Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
PistolPete 61421 Report post Posted September 15, 2010 As Freddie would say..."yabba dabba doo time" Lickable,kissable and very suckable:boobies: here comes the motor boat:mrgreen: ...'nuff said Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Loralee Reach 245 Report post Posted September 15, 2010 Breasts.....when we are girls we want them large and we stuffed our little bras with cotton balls......when we are matured and sexy we know that breasts are a source of pleasure, does not mind their size, gentle sucking and gentle kissing, as if with the tip of the tongue......hmmmmm can't continue....obviouslyyyyyyyyy LL Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
PistolPete 61421 Report post Posted September 15, 2010 Breasts on a woman are great,men should enjoy them to their fullest:boobeyes: at all sizes and shapes:boobies:. Some ladies like them fondled with care,some like them hung on to while riding you cowgirl,some ladies like them nibbled and sucked and licked while others like a dick in between them. Now I like my nipples also flicked,licked,lightly bitten,brings goose bumps out in both parties while enjoying each others titties. Now I'm sure we are all grown ups and know how to behave behind closed doors once the playing field has been established. So ladies and gents, don't get overly bent, about a ladies tits some do give a shit just give it your best and forget the rest:cooter: Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
NotchJohnson 214123 Report post Posted September 15, 2010 Breasts on a woman are great,men should enjoy them to their fullest:boobeyes: at all sizes and shapes:boobies:. Some ladies like them fondled with care,some like them hung on to while riding you cowgirl,some ladies like them nibbled and sucked and licked while others like a dick in between them. Now I like my nipples also flicked,licked,lightly bitten,brings goose bumps out in both parties while enjoying each others titties. Now I'm sure we are all grown ups and know how to behave behind closed doors once the playing field has been established. So ladies and gents, don't get overly bent, about a ladies tits some do give a shit just give it your best and forget the rest:cooter: Well said PistolPete, I enjoy any size and shape of breast and can be soft or hard with them depending on how you like it played with.:boobies: Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
imdec123 82 Report post Posted September 15, 2010 One of the main problem is that when a man has time with one of you ladies, we have a time frame and we are rushed to do what we have to do. One hour passes very fast and it's not everyone who can afford to spend 2 hours... I've been with other escorts before and it's always the same thing, when it starts to be hot, it's time to finish because some have other appointments... I find it very annoying... Why can't you let it go with the flow if you don't have someone else in line? I know that we donate a full hour but if you have the time, why not keep it up? Maybe if we knew when we arrive that there's nobody else after us, we would take our time and it would be more pleasurable for both parties... It's just a thought... 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Meg O'Ryan 266444 Report post Posted September 15, 2010 For me, it depends on the mood and the company! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
PistolPete 61421 Report post Posted September 15, 2010 For me, it depends on the mood and the company! You are always in such a great mood and I love fondling your gorgeous natural breasts Meg.:mrgreen: Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
srch4intimacy 204 Report post Posted September 15, 2010 SRCH4Intimacy!You are absolutely right! Making assumptions about your behavior it is dead wrong of me and i am so sorry! Apology accepted. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Old Dog 179138 Report post Posted September 15, 2010 .... despite all the words, all I have to say is... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
NotchJohnson 214123 Report post Posted September 17, 2010 He will let you know what he likes about breast.:boobeyes: Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Amanda Bella 421 Report post Posted September 18, 2010 One of the main problem is that when a man has time with one of you ladies, we have a time frame and we are rushed to do what we have to do. One hour passes very fast and it's not everyone who can afford to spend 2 hours... I've been with other escorts before and it's always the same thing, when it starts to be hot, it's time to finish because some have other appointments... I find it very annoying... Why can't you let it go with the flow if you don't have someone else in line? I know that we donate a full hour but if you have the time, why not keep it up? Maybe if we knew when we arrive that there's nobody else after us, we would take our time and it would be more pleasurable for both parties... It's just a thought... Imdec123! Allowing gents to stay over time is not garanty that they will be inclined to please us. The gents truly inclined to be reciprocal of our services are very very rare. My theory about is: I think you guys do not like to be sexually kind and generous when you are paying for sex. However i think generously kind good people tend to be good all the time. Thus when we have chemistry and you do not want to be accomodating and cooperative for the sake of intense sex between us it is because, i am assuming that you are probably in love with your romantic partner right? Thus you prefer to remain faithifull to her, i get it and i find admirable but still sexually frustrating to me. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Old Dog 179138 Report post Posted September 18, 2010 you know sometimes words just get in the way.... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
imdec123 82 Report post Posted September 21, 2010 MRGREENThank you for letting me know that at least you have some awareness of some principles in the arts of erotics, why are the great lovers in this world so rare? I think although sex it is one of the most searched after activities most people do not bother to read about sexuality neither care to find out the likes and dislikes of their sexual partners. I will never understand how come some people study to become lawyers engineers and politicians, but most people will not bother reading about sexual intelligence, it is so sad and as a result most people are zero lovers. I think good sex requires some knowledge and fitness and finess and self awareness and generosity, if one is self centred sex cannot be any good right? But generous guys are the best lovers. Not generous in a financial sense but in a emotional attentive and sexual sense. Imdec123!Allowing gents to stay over time is not garanty that they will be inclined to please us. The gents truly inclined to be reciprocal of our services are very very rare. My theory about is: I think you guys do not like to be sexually kind and generous when you are paying for sex. However i think generously kind good people tend to be good all the time. Thus when we have chemistry and you do not want to be accomodating and cooperative for the sake of intense sex between us it is because, i am assuming that you are probably in love with your romantic partner right? Thus you prefer to remain faithifull to her, i get it and i find admirable but still sexually frustrating to me. Most of you ladies do it for the money and don't really enjoy having sex with the ''gent'' who's with you so that's where the time frame comes. If I knew in advance that you enjoyed sex as much as I do, of course I would do everything to please you. But the thing is, when I'm with a woman and her phone rings and she answers while we're doing it, it kind of frustrates me. Especially when she tells the guy on the phone that she'll be available in 30 minutes or so... I'm a very gentle man during foreplay and most women I have sex with (no escorts) has her orgasm before I penetrate her. I love doing oral as much as I love to get it. But most escorts won't let the ''gent'' go near them... I'm not ugly and I'm always clean, I have all my teeth and they're white... So why? Breasts, I could play with breasts for an hour nonstop and I'm always gentle because I know that some women loves it when we're gentle at first... One thing I love to do to a woman is to make her have a nipple orgasm... Most women never had one and never will either because it's not something you get in 5 minutes. It takes time, sometimes over 30 minutes but because we only get to spend one hour with you, it's pretty hard to please you. If we want more time, well it's an extra fee and it's not all men who can afford to spend $300.00 for 1.5 hours of pleasure, especially if the extra money is for your pleasure... When I arrive, I'm always respectful, we talk and do everything to make us both comfortable. I have good manners and respect the woman I meet. I respect you laddies for what you do, I'm sure you must live situations with men that's not exactly wonderful. Just wanted to say that if some of you didn't make us feel in a rush, it might be more pleasurable for both parties... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
rickoshadows 937 Report post Posted September 21, 2010 A woman once told me, Great lovers aren't born, they are taught. So are bad lovers. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Meg O'Ryan 266444 Report post Posted September 21, 2010 Most of you ladies do it for the money and don't really enjoy having sex with the ''gent'' who's with you I wasn't going to comment but I actually find this offensive. Don't you think you are painting everyone with the same brush based on experiences that you have had? Perhaps the problem lies within yourself; a bit of self reflection may be in order? If not, then I am truly sad that you have not experienced a wonderful encounter and am disapointed that you were treated this way. 5 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
NotchJohnson 214123 Report post Posted September 21, 2010 Most of you ladies do it for the money and don't really enjoy having sex with the ''gent'' who's with you I wasn't going to comment but I actually find this offensive. Don't you think you are painting everyone with the same brush based on experiences that you have had? Perhaps the problem lies within yourself; a bit of self reflection may be in order? If not, then I am truly sad that you have not experienced a wonderful encounter and am disapointed that you were treated this way. You are totally right Meg, with my experience in this hobby I have had good luck at 95% of the encounter with fine ladies and in the 5% I will agree it felt mechanical but all in all I'm satisfied with the way I'm seen with the ladies. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
masterowls 249 Report post Posted September 22, 2010 Most of you ladies do it for the money and don't really enjoy having sex with the ''gent'' who's with you so that's where the time frame comes. If I knew in advance that you enjoyed sex as much as I do, of course I would do everything to please you. But the thing is, when I'm with a woman and her phone rings and she answers while we're doing it, it kind of frustrates me. Especially when she tells the guy on the phone that she'll be available in 30 minutes or so... I'm a very gentle man during foreplay and most women I have sex with (no escorts) has her orgasm before I penetrate her. I love doing oral as much as I love to get it. But most escorts won't let the ''gent'' go near them... I'm not ugly and I'm always clean, I have all my teeth and they're white... So why? Breasts, I could play with breasts for an hour nonstop and I'm always gentle because I know that some women loves it when we're gentle at first... One thing I love to do to a woman is to make her have a nipple orgasm... Most women never had one and never will either because it's not something you get in 5 minutes. It takes time, sometimes over 30 minutes but because we only get to spend one hour with you, it's pretty hard to please you. If we want more time, well it's an extra fee and it's not all men who can afford to spend $300.00 for 1.5 hours of pleasure, especially if the extra money is for your pleasure... When I arrive, I'm always respectful, we talk and do everything to make us both comfortable. I have good manners and respect the woman I meet. I respect you laddies for what you do, I'm sure you must live situations with men that's not exactly wonderful. Just wanted to say that if some of you didn't make us feel in a rush, it might be more pleasurable for both parties... I find your entire argument both flawed and offensive. I have been in the hobby for 20 years. In that time I have seen many many many different ladies, and only ever had one who made me feel at all like was in a hurry to have me gone. It's utterly ridiculous to assume that these ladies aren't enjoying their work. Some of them in fact have left very profitable careers in order to provide entertainment and company for us. If in fact a lady has made you feel like she doesn't want to spend extra time with you, I submit that there may be some underlying reason. Maybe talking to the lady about this situation might be in order? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Old Dog 179138 Report post Posted September 22, 2010 on another note.... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Meg O'Ryan 266444 Report post Posted September 22, 2010 We can always rely on OD to lighten the mood and on MO to defend our beliefs! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Leber 1328 Report post Posted September 22, 2010 LOL Ya think? It's true. My breasts and I are now friends. :boobies: Breasts and their owner and men should be the best of friends. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Old Dog 179138 Report post Posted September 22, 2010 ohhhhh... I just can't help myself... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
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