Is kissing allowed?

[AUTUMN RAINE 15548]

All you have to do is ask lol

Most ladies ( i would think ) if they offer GFE they offer kissing

I could not ever think of being on a date without kissing

it would be like getting a chicken caesar salad without the chicken .. just not right .. if you see me you better love to kiss .. and i mean DFK xox

[plea 120]

I would love to find a good MA that also likes to kiss, that kind of sensual massage would be amazing but I've yet to have a massage that offers it (I don't want to ask). I'm clean, well groomed and have very good hygiene so I would hope that helps.

[waterat 20911]

@plea You have to decide which is the stronger thought: not wanting to ask or wanting the intimacy of kissing? Regardless be respectful. Among others, I can recommend kissing with April at Vibe - she snared me with one passionate kiss at a lyla social and I've seen her numerous times since!

[50 Shades Raven 31380]

kissing is great, the only time it isn't is when you come see me with smokers breath, yuck.

 

Asking is always best if you are unsure, but indeed, kissing is a great part of a date.

 

I just don't like it when someone tried to stick their tongue all the way down my throat forcefully, it should be passionate and caring, the kind that you should be getting from your significant other ;-)

[Exotic Touch Danielle 31734]

I think it's more of a personal preference(I don't mind light kisses but I do not like the tongue down my throat) and I will not kiss just anyone...I think it's best to ask her if she does or not so there are no misunderstandings!

[Guest sch****]

Great topic discussion.

 

I always feel let down when kissing is denied. Good to knows ladies are open to being asked before booking a session.

[Guest *sh****ox]

I myself base it off of chemistry. If there's a connection, I will most definitely go in for a kiss to let the gentleman know I am into him. Otherwise I always appreciate manners, so I'd prefer the client to ask rather than just attempt a kiss.

 

Ashlyn xox

[someguy 67067]

When I first make contact with a woman these days. I ask them if they may allow kissing during the session. They either say they don't kiss at all or depends on chemistry. So if there is a chance that she may allow kissing I may take a chance. If there is no kissing at all, I will probably not see her unless she is highly recommended. But like many of the older men here, Kissing is a big part of the experience that we are looking for. We all need human contact and passion in our lives. Touching and skin to skin contact is great. But without the kissing it becomes mechanical. Nothing turns me on more then a nice long passionate kiss. Don't need a tongue down my throat either, but a little tongue roaming is nice :)

[BlueProphet 130]

I absolutely love kissing, but as others have said, there has to be chemistry and a basic level of comfort. It is really something that I want to talk about with the MA in advance, to insure that I understand what she is comfortable and interested in.

[oliviaphan 1165]

I enjoy kissing at the beginning but I usually let the gent make his first move because I don't know if he likes it. Besides, I think kissing will help both client and SP feel more comfortable .

[ElissaMarie 4310]

I entirely agree with you on this but I think committing is a very strong word when it comes to something as intimate as kissing with someone you've never met. I personally never commit to anything especially with patrons I've never met, I do enjoy kissing but I wouldn't feel comfortable kissing someone with poor dental hygiene and if I commit to that then I'd be failing to provide something I promised, I recently read a thread about how there's no contract between us companions and our guests and having to commit to kissing or any other activity does sound like a contract to me.

 

I like how someguy phrased his question 'if kissing may be allowed' which is a nice way to discuss his preferences with the lady he's planning to visit without making her feel obligated to it.

 

My suggestion for those that want to make sure kissing is offered is to offer the same kind of commitment you're expecting from your provider, make sure to have impeccable hygiene at the time of your session and if she offers mouthwash use it even if you think you don't need it or bring your own,the travel size bottles are awesome for that and they sell them everywhere.

 

Happy Kissing! :makeout:

 

They probably can't commit to something like that on behalf of someone else, given the number of variables in play.

 

But many of the MAs at spas have accounts here...

[someguy 67067]

I have found when I initiate contact with a woman. I politely ask if kissing may be allowed during a session if there is chemistry or connection. And most of them replied that they may allow kissing or some will say not at all and that they are saving kissing for some one special, which I understand. I usually also try to get to know them a bit thru pm or emails which allows us to feel more comfortable when we first meet. I've been very lucky and have met mostly women that allow some kissing and have many that allow a lot of kissing. A few times I did not make the first move and found out at the end of the session, that she would have kissed me but did not want to make the first move :( But then they would give me a nice passionate kiss, maybe in hope that I will come back. If they are a really good kisser and I had a good time. I probably would make a return visit some day :0

[inkedamylovesyou 150]

I love kissing! I enjoy when a man has full soft lips with tiny nibbles! The sweetest thing ever.

[Izzy2 1015]

I agree kissing is very important but you must respect the ladies wishes. For me kissing is a deciding factor for repeat visits. Kissing = Passion!

[Guest Prufrock Cummings]

I'm a huge fan of kissing, so when I look at the ladies' website, I am always looking for those great three initials DFK and LFK.

 

I remember one first-time encounter where I spent over 20 minutes on the couch in a deep make-out session with her, and thinking WOW, this is so hot! As a result, I have repeated with her for over 4 years now. She loves kissing as much as I, and those kissing sessions are a great turn on for us both.

[Guest st*****ens**ors]

I've had and enjoyed sessions in which kissing was the primary activity. You lovely ladies, thank you.

[Athos 108589]

I know this has been covered, but without kissing, what's really the point of all the rest. For me, this hobby is about intimacy. I realize that this is precisely why some providers would prefer not to kiss, but for me it really is crucial. Without it, no matter how great everything else might be, I'll be disappointed with the session. It doesn't rule out a repeat, as I've found with some providers kissing gets better over time, but it definitely makes it less likely.

[nntsci 11076]

Some lady's will not kiss... I usually ask. In Austria, the girls would not kiss... A recently gal in Nevada would not kiss... but another gal in Nevada a few years ago, kissed my socks off... lol... very passionate.

 

I love kissing so basically if a lady doesn't kiss, or she only kisses very shallowly, I probably won't see her again. I've made exceptions... One lady would kiss minimally, but otherwise things were so good I saw her a few times.

But the ones I come back to over and over again are the ones that kiss the best.

The gal I've been seeing lately puts me in heaven the moment our lips meet.

[Nicolette Vaughn 294340]

I love kissing but because I advertise primarily massage, the kissing activities are kept for those I have built a rapport with in my companionship services.

 

I have noticed a trend where men I have met for massage tend to set boundaries with intimacy..many aren't that comfortable with those activities so I prefer to build a rapport with people first and then if it happens, it happens.

 

But I do love kissing....

[Manluvsex 13731]

I join the chorus to say that when kissing occurs it accentuates everything else that occurs physically as well as emotionally, as it feels so much more intimate. At the same time, it is for this very reason that some women may prefer not to kiss. And of course, kissing should not be expected as a given and the ���� rule applies as always as it is at the woman's discretion.

 

I would clear it with the lady, if possible before we meet and if OK would start slowly to allow her to show her preferences as well.

 

Found this quote below that raises some points why kissing may not always be accepted by all. One way or another there is always a reason.

 

 

"Some escorts prefer to take kissing off of their services lists, because they have a partner or significant other who may feel uncomfortable with a stranger kissing his or her sweetheart. Kissing is deemed as one of the most intimate acts between two people, as it involves the mouth, tongue, breath and intense skin contact. Engaging in sexual ����������� is one thing, but kissing is something entirely different reserved strictly for intimate partners." (Skipthegames.com)

[NotchJohnson 214136]

Some asked how do you find out if she allows kissing or not, I try this from the movie Hitch, I go 90% of the way and let her come the last 10%, if she does not go then I know there is no kissing. Here is the scene from the movie if you never seen it

Is it fair to say that if she advertise GFE that kissing will be allowed, I would say yes.

[someguy 67067]

Lately I have been asking the owner of the spa to recommend to me girls that are GFE and like to kiss. Most of them know me by know and my taste and just to make sure I have asked them to talk to the girls to tell them about me and see if they would be compatible with me. So far it has worked most of the time. Sometimes there is no chemistry or connection. That is understandable. Most of the time i get to know over twitter or PM first. But in some cases I can't as they may not have a online presence.

It's with these girls that I sometimes get no kissing? It's hard to get that intimate sometimes with a complete stranger. Whereas getting to know each other online helps you get to know somebody first. And when you meet it is with anticipation and with someone you kind of know?

[casey 2936]

Like most gents here, I am a member of the kissing club. I can just kiss any girl for a straight 3 hours and could predict her future life. All I need in the process, is a glass of mild honey with a few drops of Bulgarian rose oil. Yes, I am a bad boy who will ruin her life. I think kissing plays the core part and a common type of communication between the two during a session, regardless different types of language you may speak. And kissing is a catalyst to develop intimacy, feeling, trust, etc almost instantly, mostly critical for the first encounter. And for a lady, this could be your magical spell to have more returning clients. I couldn't agree more that personal hygiene, sex appeal, personality, good vibes, chemistry and personal boundary/principle could be the main factors as well. If you think you "deserve" to be kissed and have fulfilled a standard criteria, asking is always the best policy! Expect the rejection, accept it positively if it were to happen and enjoy the rest of the session the best you can.

[CheekyCutie 410]

MuAHS! @AllTheLadiesWhoLoveToKiss ;-) #LikeLastSongatHighSchoolDance

 

(Just gotta luv 2 lips! :-D )

[Guest MrHappy]

Well this is completely eye opening. I have been going to MAs for about 30 years on and off and didn't even think to ask about kissing. Is this discussion about escorts or MAs also?

Maybe I've been overly reserved. I just assumed that, as with RMTs/CMTs, that was not part of the equation. could it be that I have been missing out? I'm not a troll, have good hygiene, but may come across as aloof, due to shyness.

I recently moved here from out West. Now I'll have to find a MA to pop my kissing bubble.