Is this true gentlemen?

[Loralee Reach 245]

Why men deny sex?

By: Sruthi Appu

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

World has a feeling that men are hungry for sex but it's not true. There are times when men too deny sex and the reasons for that could be many. Here are some of those reasons why a man would deny sex.

 

1.If a man is taking either antidepressants or blood pressure medication then his interest towards sex would be very low. Also these medicines can affect his sound sexual function.

 

 

 

2.People think that men during their twenties or teens are more inclined towards sex but studies prove that it's wrong. A man during this age tend to have inclination towards a sound sleep rather have sex.

 

3.Identity is another issue to have a lower sexual interest. If man has a confusion or the feeling that he is not been identified for what he is, he will lose interest in sex. Even depression can be one of the reasons.

 

4.Man wants his partner to have the same sexual interests like his, although they don't talk to their partner about this, deep inside a man long for a woman with similar sexual interest. If he feels that his partner is not of his kind, he usually withdraw from having sex. Also men experience lack of interest due to the things what his partner does during sex or how he experiences her body.

 

5.Men deny sex when they are undergoing any interpersonal issues. They deny it as a punishment for their partner.

 

6.Stress can be another reason for their lack of interest. This can come in any form like challenges at work, financial difficulties, personal issues etc.

 

7.These days masturbation is a serious threat to partnered sex. Men have started finding masturbation more interesting than partnered sex.

 

8.Men who face sexual dysfunction, like issues in erection, early or late ejaculation avoids sex.

 

9.Another interesting reason for lack of sexual interest is, some men hunt for a best place to have sex, unless they find the suitable place or circumstance, they stay away from sex.:confused:

[Jabba 18389]

Why men deny sex?

By: Sruthi Appu

 

World has a feeling that men are hungry for sex but it's not true. There are times when men too deny sex and the reasons for that could be many. Here are some of those reasons why a man would deny sex.

 

1.If a man is taking either antidepressants or blood pressure medication then his interest towards sex would be very low. Also these medicines can affect his sound sexual function.

 

2.People think that men during their twenties or teens are more inclined towards sex but studies prove that it's wrong. A man during this age tend to have inclination towards a sound sleep rather have sex.

 

3.Identity is another issue to have a lower sexual interest. If man has a confusion or the feeling that he is not been identified for what he is, he will lose interest in sex. Even depression can be one of the reasons.

 

4.Man wants his partner to have the same sexual interests like his, although they don't talk to their partner about this, deep inside a man long for a woman with similar sexual interest. If he feels that his partner is not of his kind, he usually withdraw from having sex. Also men experience lack of interest due to the things what his partner does during sex or how he experiences her body.

 

5.Men deny sex when they are undergoing any interpersonal issues. They deny it as a punishment for their partner.

 

6.Stress can be another reason for their lack of interest. This can come in any form like challenges at work, financial difficulties, personal issues etc.

 

7.These days masturbation is a serious threat to partnered sex. Men have started finding masturbation more interesting than partnered sex.

 

8.Men who face sexual dysfunction, like issues in erection, early or late ejaculation avoids sex.

 

9.Another interesting reason for lack of sexual interest is, some men hunt for a best place to have sex, unless they find the suitable place or circumstance, they stay away from sex.:confused:

I can confirm most of these. Us men are not mindless spawning salmon ejaculating all over the sea (metaphorically speaking) after all. Despite all the crap that have been dished out by uncaring mysogynists.... We crave the same things females do: excitement, spontaneity, tenderness, adventure.

 

I choose to abstain from sex with my mate for reason #5. After years of suffering and discussing, I finally said "F**k it", I'm going my own path. We sleep in the same bed, but haven't been intimate for several years. Next step - I'm getting my own room.

[Loralee Reach 245]

Jabba you are a honey!!!!!

I agree with you I do not have other choice in my brain to disagree.....

I have a brother going through the same.....wife is cool, cold, freezing.....

he is desperate, does not want to cheat....nice super good provider and great man.....he does not know what to do....

I understand yu and I am sure most of the gentlemen here do so!!!!

Get your own room and play movies....

Hugs

LoraLee:-)

[NotchJohnson 214123]

I agree to most of those reasons but for me I just want to give her back what she did to me for so long. That is she kept me from having sex 3 times a day after we were married for 6 years( she was looking for it before).

It use to be 3 times a day and went down to twice and then once a day(boring,lol) to finally once 1 month and now that she is looking for it I'm playing the same game so she can have a taste of what she did to me. Just kidding on this.

 

But seriously that list is right on.

[geo007 203]

That's a good list. My wife is just not interested in sex very much therefore, after being turned away too many times, I find it easier to go to an SP once in a while between masturbation spells....... Feel like a teenager again hoping to eventually getting laid by someone. Perhaps I should thank my wife because without her frigidness, I would not have met so many interesting SPs......

[Loki318 1631]

The question was why do we "deny sex" well fro me I have been denied but extreemly seldom the other way around ... "if the question is sex the answer is yes!"

 

even at this advanced age the spirit is willing and where there is a will there is a way, God Bless our ladies of the night .......:bowdown:

 

Loki318

[BarrhavenWoody 10776]

I made of list of all the reasons why I have ever refused sex:

 

1.

 

 

 

Okay, maybe there was one or two times, but they were pretty rare.

[Guest S**r***e]

I would agree with #4 and #7....not sure about the other ones.

[Bethany Westbrooke 7532]

I have to say that #1 is definitely true. I think anti-depressants should be banned, have sex instead and your depression should go away in relation to that! Not being able to have sex would make me more depressed than anything!

 

Bethany

Xoxox

[Jim.Bean 241]

Why men deny sex?

By: Sruthi Appu

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

World has a feeling that men are hungry for sex but it's not true. There are times when men too deny sex and the reasons for that could be many. Here are some of those reasons why a man would deny sex.

 

1.If a man is taking either antidepressants or blood pressure medication then his interest towards sex would be very low. Also these medicines can affect his sound sexual function.

 

 

 

2.People think that men during their twenties or teens are more inclined towards sex but studies prove that it's wrong. A man during this age tend to have inclination towards a sound sleep rather have sex.

 

3.Identity is another issue to have a lower sexual interest. If man has a confusion or the feeling that he is not been identified for what he is, he will lose interest in sex. Even depression can be one of the reasons.

 

4.Man wants his partner to have the same sexual interests like his, although they don't talk to their partner about this, deep inside a man long for a woman with similar sexual interest. If he feels that his partner is not of his kind, he usually withdraw from having sex. Also men experience lack of interest due to the things what his partner does during sex or how he experiences her body.

 

5.Men deny sex when they are undergoing any interpersonal issues. They deny it as a punishment for their partner.

 

6.Stress can be another reason for their lack of interest. This can come in any form like challenges at work, financial difficulties, personal issues etc.

 

7.These days masturbation is a serious threat to partnered sex. Men have started finding masturbation more interesting than partnered sex.

 

8.Men who face sexual dysfunction, like issues in erection, early or late ejaculation avoids sex.

 

9.Another interesting reason for lack of sexual interest is, some men hunt for a best place to have sex, unless they find the suitable place or circumstance, they stay away from sex.:confused:

Seriously?

1) I was on Anti-depressants for 4+ years and it definately didn't impact my desire or performance. I have been on High blood pressure for the last 5 years and again, no impact.

2) My sexualality has not changed since I was 16 except that I might be a little more inclined to pleasure women now than when I was 18

3) Can't comment from personal experience

4) My wife and I are at opposite ends of what we would like sexually. If anything it has increased my desire and need for sexual encounters

5) My wife can bitch and scream all day but if at any point in time I she drops her pants or even if I think I possibly see a nipple poking though her shirt... I am good to go. It's sex.. and Damn it's always good

6) Stress, really? I live and work in a very high stress environment. Every day I deal with confrontation and frustration. The BEST way to deal with stress..... Bend over dear,, it's been a ruff day :bddog:

7)I LOVE masturbation. The only thing better than pulling one off is... :handjob: The only thing better than pulling one off is having a woman do it for me. And what could be better than that :confused: :69: you guessed it. DATY . Masturbation is only an entree.lol

 

8) I can comment only on late ejaculation. Yes it actually is a dysfuntion. It can take forever to complete sometimes. Does it stop me?? Not at all. I still glady do what I can and if it's takin to long I can always finish up on my own later. Its like a double header without the midgame clean-up

9)Any place is the best place.

 

Really, who comes up with these lists?

If there is a female orifice that is willing to take what I got.. I am willing to fulfill it

[bdawk 100]

The one that gets me is number 2...

Are you kidding me???? sleep??? buahahahahahaha wow not in my case at all, i can't imagine anymore i've known who'd agree with that.

[Kubrickfan 12836]

I am happy, and grateful, to say that none of these apply to me. Not to mention that some of these sound really screwy to me. Especially number 2 ... when I was in my 20s, the equation always was Sex > Sleep.

 

I wonder whether there is any research to support these or just someone trying to fill up space in an article they had to write. I guess there all possible, but I doubt they are really prevalent.

[Guest s******ecan****]

Some things in the list are obvious and well documented(stress, depression, relationship problems, anti-depressants).

 

Some of the others are plain ridiculous....guys in their 20's want sound sleep ahead of sex....sorry just not believable. As far as #9 and the "hunt" for a place to have sex well I have no idea WTF that is suppossed to be about unless of course it means that guys aren't willing to have sex on the sidewalk in broad daylight.

 

The one about masturbation though is something that researchers are talking about more, insofar as how internet pornography and masturbation may be leading some men to become addicted to that experience to the point of preferring it over sexual contact with a SO. I don't think anything conclusive has yet to be proven however.

[E.D. man 691]

Why men deny sex?

By: Sruthi Appu

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

World has a feeling that men are hungry for sex but it's not true. There are times when men too deny sex and the reasons for that could be many. Here are some of those reasons why a man would deny sex.

 

1.If a man is taking either antidepressants or blood pressure medication then his interest towards sex would be very low. Also these medicines can affect his sound sexual function.

 

 

 

2.People think that men during their twenties or teens are more inclined towards sex but studies prove that it's wrong. A man during this age tend to have inclination towards a sound sleep rather have sex.

 

3.Identity is another issue to have a lower sexual interest. If man has a confusion or the feeling that he is not been identified for what he is, he will lose interest in sex. Even depression can be one of the reasons.

 

4.Man wants his partner to have the same sexual interests like his, although they don't talk to their partner about this, deep inside a man long for a woman with similar sexual interest. If he feels that his partner is not of his kind, he usually withdraw from having sex. Also men experience lack of interest due to the things what his partner does during sex or how he experiences her body.

 

5.Men deny sex when they are undergoing any interpersonal issues. They deny it as a punishment for their partner.

 

6.Stress can be another reason for their lack of interest. This can come in any form like challenges at work, financial difficulties, personal issues etc.

 

7.These days masturbation is a serious threat to partnered sex. Men have started finding masturbation more interesting than partnered sex.

 

8.Men who face sexual dysfunction, like issues in erection, early or late ejaculation avoids sex.

 

9.Another interesting reason for lack of sexual interest is, some men hunt for a best place to have sex, unless they find the suitable place or circumstance, they stay away from sex.:confused:

 

I disagree with#8 as I am diabetic still get horny while I am soft, but the expense of my medicationfor 6 pills is $128.00

I still love the foreplay part of sex like kissing , hugging, and licking.

I still want all this and if I could get hard more often I'd have intercourse more often.

Alot of times an ugly personality in a woman is a big turn off. Every person is different and their can be 1000's of different reasons for the sexual blahs in men.

[masterowls 249]

Why men deny sex?

By: Sruthi Appu

 

 

 

 

 

 

.

 

 

World has a feeling that men are hungry for sex but it's not true. There are times when men too deny sex and the reasons for that could be many. Here are some of those reasons why a man would deny sex.

 

1.If a man is taking either antidepressants or blood pressure medication then his interest towards sex would be very low. Also these medicines can affect his sound sexual function.

 

 

 

2.People think that men during their twenties or teens are more inclined towards sex but studies prove that it's wrong. A man during this age tend to have inclination towards a sound sleep rather have sex.

 

3.Identity is another issue to have a lower sexual interest. If man has a confusion or the feeling that he is not been identified for what he is, he will lose interest in sex. Even depression can be one of the reasons.

 

4.Man wants his partner to have the same sexual interests like his, although they don't talk to their partner about this, deep inside a man long for a woman with similar sexual interest. If he feels that his partner is not of his kind, he usually withdraw from having sex. Also men experience lack of interest due to the things what his partner does during sex or how he experiences her body.

 

5.Men deny sex when they are undergoing any interpersonal issues. They deny it as a punishment for their partner.

 

6.Stress can be another reason for their lack of interest. This can come in any form like challenges at work, financial difficulties, personal issues etc.

 

7.These days masturbation is a serious threat to partnered sex. Men have started finding masturbation more interesting than partnered sex.

 

8.Men who face sexual dysfunction, like issues in erection, early or late ejaculation avoids sex.

 

9.Another interesting reason for lack of sexual interest is, some men hunt for a best place to have sex, unless they find the suitable place or circumstance, they stay away from sex.:confused:

To be honest, reason 4 is true for me, altho I'm usually quite vocal about what does and doesn't work. For instance I don't mind being soft and gentle in foreplay, but when it comes to sex, I like a partner to take over and just pound me, I mean I'm disabled, not made of glass, if it's too gentle I get bored, if you bore me there really is no point. I think that's part of why I tend to like older ladies. They tend to have found a balance between soft enough to be cuddly and sexually aggressive enough to be exciting when the time's right.