Why all posts about Bp ladies?

[Amelia Fox 9064]

If you've concerns, why come here to this board? Typically ladies get on here last, so the massive amounts of random posts about this one and that one is now taking over our discussion boards in NS!

Why?!?

You men not doing your home work and instantly coming here to vent or what? Surely there's other things to talk about then Ashley,Tiffany, Brandi,MissCanada, Deborah from bp or cl etc...

These silly posts are ruining good chats/discussions we could be having...

My oponion only. Hehe...

[rustbot 398]

Well these questions are posted under the section for "escort discussion for Nova Scotia". Seems like a reasonable place to ask such things. Since BP is by far the most popular place to see ads it isn't surprising there are lots of questions like these. BP can be a super sketchy place at times and checking here is a good way to try and stay safe.

[Leviathan31 8387]

Just curious - what other resources are we supposed to use to do our homework??

 

If I want to know if a girl on Backpage is "legit" or worth the visit; my only real plan of recourse is to simply show up and hope for the best.

 

This site/recommendations by members has led me wrong a few times, but I won't even entertain randomly just calling a BP girl unless I know at least one other person has visited her - thus me coming here in hopes of finding info. :icon_wink:

[Meg O'Ryan 266444]

Both responses are extremely valid! My only question is...are there not enough providers on Lyla to choose from?

[Leviathan31 8387]

There are plenty of desirable ladies on Laya......thing is, almost all of them are in the higher price category (250+ per hour).

 

On Backpage, you can find lower rates/"hidden gems"; but the risk is then presented with the advantages.

 

For instance.....I've been planning on seeing Amilia Fox for a while now, but whenever I get the moolah together, I end up thinking "Damn, for that much money, I can see two "BP girls".

 

Now, mind you....so far in my Backpage experiences, I've yet to come across what I believe is what I will get from Amelia. Addictive Barbie is close, but she is also one of the higher priced Backpage girls.

 

I've also paid "higher" rates for a Backpage girl and been utterly disappointed.

 

I swear - my next visit is Amelia!!! lol

[rustbot 398]

Both responses are extremely valid! My only question is...are there not enough providers on Lyla to choose from?

 

In all of Canada sure. But there isn't a ton of activity on the NS ads section. For example there have been 0 posts today so far and only 4 yesterday. I know there is a rule for limiting reposts but right now you can still see ads from over a week ago on page 1. BP has become the default place for most to advertise which would explain why there are so many posts asking for information.

[robby72bobby72 120]

Personally, at this very moment at 6:42 on a friday when I look at the schedule section there is only two advertised and one is for an upcoming visit. I can go to BP scroll through a big list with pictures but I would never see one of the ladies on BP unless it was on the all clear list on this site. Thus when I see an advertisement I might be interested the next logical step is to see if she is advertising here if not has anyone commented here...

 

If there were more ladies advertising in the schedule thread it would eliminate me even looking at BP.

 

Just how I roll!

[Guest h***yto***2]

Keep doing things the way they are. No harm done, I say.

[Ice4fun 78407]

If you've concerns, why come here to this board? Typically ladies get on here last, so the massive amounts of random posts about this one and that one is now taking over our discussion boards in NS!

Why?!?

You men not doing your home work and instantly coming here to vent or what? Surely there's other things to talk about then Ashley,Tiffany, Brandi,MissCanada, Deborah from bp or cl etc...

These silly posts are ruining good chats/discussions we could be having...

My oponion only. Hehe...

 

I am not sure I have a problem with guys asking about ladies who advertise on other sites because frankly that is one of the reasons guys come to this site to share info on wonderful ladies they may have met and while my experience may tell me that all LYLA ladies are great I don' think it's safe to say that all the great ladies are on Lyla... some have never been on here and some have been and are no more for a variety of reasons. I think the quantity and quality of posts on this board has declined over the last year or so due to the new laws and restrictions on what we can say so i don't think we want to drive people away... Let's encourage greater discourse and suggest that guys do what I do... if i meet a lady who is not on Lyla I encourage them to join.

 

This site/recommendations by members has led me wrong a few times,

 

It's important to recognize that any recommendation written on here is an expression of one guys opinion and opinions are like a*ssholes everyone has on and most stink. Recommendations reflect that individuals preferences, like and dislikes... no two encounters will be the same as so much relies on chemistry and connection... that's why everything in this industry is Y*M*M*V...

 

Both responses are extremely valid! My only question is...are there not enough providers on Lyla to choose from?

 

I guess if that's a fair question to ask a guy who is a member here then should it also be fair to ask Ladiy members here if they think there is not enough Guy clients here on LYLA...

 

It's not about enough in either case in my opinion it's about guys looking for a provider that is right for them and ladies looking for good clients and that happens here and in other venues..

 

There are plenty of desirable ladies on Laya......thing is' date=' almost all of them are in the higher price category (250+ per hour).

 

On Backpage, you can find lower rates/"hidden gems"; but the risk is then presented with the advantages.

 

For instance.....I've been planning on seeing Amilia Fox for a while now, but whenever I get the moolah together, I end up thinking "Damn, for that much money, I can see two "BP girls".

 

Now, mind you....so far in my Backpage experiences, I've yet to come across what I believe is what I will get from Amelia. Addictive Barbie is close, but she is also one of the higher priced Backpage girls.

 

I've also paid "higher" rates for a Backpage girl and been utterly disappointed.

 

I swear - my next visit is Amelia!!! lol[/quote']

 

I am still laughing at this post....

 

First in my experience there are a wide range of ladies here on Lyla and they are not all in the high price bracket... and yes I have seen ladies in Halifax on a number of occasions... if you are looking for Gems then LYLA is the place to stake your claim..

 

Second... you are looking for Gems but keep getting disappointed... There might just be a lesson in this for you lol

[redmana2 2754]

If you've concerns, why come here to this board? Typically ladies get on here last, so the massive amounts of random posts about this one and that one is now taking over our discussion boards in NS!

Why?!?

 

The question is not why, it's why not? Why should the escort discussion board not be "taken over" by discussion of escorts? The most valuable asset that this board provides is sharing of information that can keep us safe. Communication is critical for that. If there was already a recommendation thread on a BP provider then we wouldn't need to ask. In the absence of that resume it can help hobbiests to ask if other members have any experience with a specific lady.

 

Just a guess, but my thoughts are that backpage has between 5 to 10 times the number of providers that lyla has in the run of a month. There's plenty of nice lyla exclusive ladies, but there's plenty of non-lyla ladies equally nice to those that reside here. They just require more research to uncover. Also unscientific, but my own observations tell me there has been two big price shifts since the new legislation took effect. First, verified ladies raised prices by as much as half a C note. Second, unverified ladies have faced lower prices as there business has declined. Higher price does not always translate to better service. Increasingly is just means more well known.

 

This question keeps coming up again and again, and I find it a head scratcher every time. Is it really such bother? We're so fortunate to have such a great place for discussions like this. We should be encouraging more discussions of local unknown ladies, not keeping that information private.

[halifax76 2855]

One of the most basic reasons i can think of would be the natural human condition of curiosity. Everyone has a natural desire to obtain and share information. That's why i think social media is the new currency personally.

 

If you look over Lyla there is more or less the same SP's posting. Although there is a lot of registered SP's in the local search not a lot are active on the main sections compared to the diversity of BP. Everyday there is someone new. Possibly legit, possibly not. Just to be clear on the quality of site/service between the two personally I've had just as many great/bad experiences out of both.

 

I think it all comes down to basic curiosity though. I've emailed a few SP's here looking for info and have had great experiences just in the communication. Unfortunately for some reason i can't bring myself to go see them based off a fear of Halifax being so small and very big on gossip.

 

Just my thoughts :)

[Amelia Fox 9064]

Well these questions are posted under the section for "escort discussion for Nova Scotia". Seems like a reasonable place to ask such things. Since BP is by far the most popular place to see ads it isn't surprising there are lots of questions like these. BP can be a super sketchy place at times and checking here is a good way to try and stay safe.

 

 

There is a discussions options on BP.. Perhaps those questions should be posted there. We are on lyla not bp silly. I disagree with backpage being the most popular site, however that's your opinion and I respect it. If bp is so sketchy why bring that here to lyla? So we now have to deal with the "sketchy?

 

I probably seem rude, but promise I'm not.. Just annoyed with all the BP posts taking over our boards. If your so worried" it's free to post a anyone know such & such...

[john427smith 361]

Amelia, I don't have anything to add here - I don't surf back page - All my Halifax connections is via Lyla.

 

Just wanted to comment on the font you use here and in your ads - it's very, very difficult to read - way too small. Any chance you can use something larger so it's easier to read? Thanks!

[Meaghan McLeod 179664]

There is a discussions options on BP.. Perhaps those questions should be posted there.

 

I have never seen a discussion section on BP. Where is it?

[halifax76 2855]

I would guess people bring it here so they can be or get informed. The title is (Escort,Massage,Fetish & Adult Discussion) Lots of people who are SP's of Layla are actually advertising on BP also.

[PistolPete 61421]

That if there is a influx of discussions on BP then there is gentlemen out there that are interested in participating with ladies in your area. One should and would be happy would they not? BP is as others posted used widely by providers that are also on this board.

 

Safety for the gentlemen is just as paramount importance as is it is for ladies, so here is a good place for discussions to ensure there is not bait and switch.

 

When I visited this board once a week or maybe twice, it would be like me asking "why all the fun threads on this board" ....LOL

 

 

 

 

If you've concerns, why come here to this board? Typically ladies get on here last, so the massive amounts of random posts about this one and that one is now taking over our discussion boards in NS!

Why?!?

You men not doing your home work and instantly coming here to vent or what? Surely there's other things to talk about then Ashley,Tiffany, Brandi,MissCanada, Deborah from bp or cl etc...

These silly posts are ruining good chats/discussions we could be having...

My oponion only. Hehe...

[Tallrichsexy 1546]

Very Interesting discussions for sure , Hobbying also goes in cycles in my opinion , you may see an SP a few times and then get the urge to see or do something different . I don't have 6 pairs of blue pants in my closet , and some days you feel like blond or others a brunette or Asian or ...... the list goes on. Nothing like a good duo here and there to shake things up , Lyla is kind of like The Bay ( great product and you know what your getting at a fair price ) but every now and then you cant help but take a look at the bargain rack at Winners ( BP ) to see if there are any new styles or great deals. Lol anyway if we all wanted the same all the time we likely wouldn't be members here or looking there . Have a Great Day everyone , Go Denver .......

[dread pirate roberts 4036]

I've never seen a discussion part of Back Page (because I have very rarely looked at the site) though I can't say it doesn't exist. But if what you mean is anyone could post an ad saying "has anyone seen X" - i.e. they can post the sort of thing for which the Escorts discussion board in Lyla is specifically designed - then it seems to me that would be a poor substitute.

 

The greatest value of Lyla is that it gives the opportunity to create reputation. That's especially true for SPs, but not exclusively true for them.

 

If I were to post "has anyone seen X" on Lyla I might get replies from new members, from people whose username I have never seen before, from users who are noted as "Valued Members", from users whose names I recognise but realise have different tastes from me, or from users with whom I have exchanged pms in the past.

 

That gives me information based upon which I can decide how much value to place in the opinion. Such a question posted on Back Pages might garner me a slew of responses, none of which I was in a position to evaluate. How much value could I place on the responses?

 

Should I trust the opinion? Think it was being offered by a sockpuppet who was actually the SP in disguise? Conclude that it was posted by some competitor of the SP out to diminish her? Given Lyla's rules, I can be pretty sure nothing posted here will fall into the latter two categories, but anonymous replies through Back Pages could be anything. Even if they are honest, they could be honest opinions from someone whose opinion I would not value.

 

On your original question, Amelia, I think its quite understandable that the "Escorts" board is filled with questions about non-Lyla ladies. If I wanted to know about a Lyla lady I would go and read her recommendation thread. Indeed, if someone posts about a Lyla lady on the Escorts board, they are usually advised that it would be better (for both the SP and for clients) if that were posted in the Recommendations section. So there's not a whole lot left for the Escorts board to be about other than non-Lyla ladies.

[Biker Dude 2391]

Can't go wrong with Amelia. She's a treat. Worth saving for.

[Amelia Fox 9064]

The question is not why, it's why not? Why should the escort discussion board not be "taken over" by discussion of escorts? The most valuable asset that this board provides is sharing of information that can keep us safe. Communication is critical for that. If there was already a recommendation thread on a BP provider then we wouldn't need to ask. In the absence of that resume it can help hobbiests to ask if other members have any experience with a specific lady.

 

Just a guess, but my thoughts are that backpage has between 5 to 10 times the number of providers that lyla has in the run of a month. There's plenty of nice lyla exclusive ladies, but there's plenty of non-lyla ladies equally nice to those that reside here. They just require more research to uncover. Also unscientific, but my own observations tell me there has been two big price shifts since the new legislation took effect. First, verified ladies raised prices by as much as half a C note. Second, unverified ladies have faced lower prices as there business has declined. Higher price does not always translate to better service. Increasingly is just means more well known.

 

This question keeps coming up again and again, and I find it a head scratcher every time. Is it really such bother? We're so fortunate to have such a great place for discussions like this. We should be encouraging more discussions of local unknown ladies, not keeping that information private.

 

 

Really? Verified ladies have raised rates? Where?!? I believe NOT! It's all in our expenses, as goes for BP uncovered" ladies? Pls there woman who have no clue what men are willing to pay! Let's be honest. Most men just adore the beautiful young ladies who does it all for dirt cheap.. She provides this because she's so new. We all started out cheap.. Most men look on Bp & Cl for the cheapest woman they can find. Why bring that here? So we have 100 hr girls or others providing mouth services for 60?

Lyla I hope is for the ladies who plan to stick around in this industry not the one year girl go at ers...

 

Additional Comments:

I have never seen a discussion section on BP. Where is it?

ill send a link, it's under some massage board they have listed!

 

Additional Comments:

That if there is a influx of discussions on BP then there is gentlemen out there that are interested in participating with ladies in your area. One should and would be happy would they not? BP is as others posted used widely by providers that are also on this board.

 

Safety for the gentlemen is just as paramount importance as is it is for ladies, so here is a good place for discussions to ensure there is not bait and switch.

 

When I visited this board once a week or maybe twice, it would be like me asking "why all the fun threads on this board" ....LOL

 

 

All I want is to click on the city I live in and not have to page down three to read something more interesting then who's who on other boards..

I need to move to Ottawa haha.

[Meaghan McLeod 179664]

I would guess people bring it here so they can be or get informed. The title is (Escort,Massage,Fetish & Adult Discussion) Lots of people who are SP's of Layla are actually advertising on BP also.

 

This is all I see:

 

escorts

body rubs

strippers & strip clubs

dom & fetish

ts

male escorts

phone & websites

adult jobs

[redmana2 2754]

Really? Verified ladies have raised rates? Where?!? I believe NOT! It's all in our expenses, as goes for BP uncovered" ladies? Pls there woman who have no clue what men are willing to pay! Let's be honest. Most men just adore the beautiful young ladies who does it all for dirt cheap.. She provides this because she's so new. We all started out cheap.. Most men look on Bp & Cl for the cheapest woman they can find. Why bring that here? So we have 100 hr girls or others providing mouth services for 60?

Lyla I hope is for the ladies who plan to stick around in this industry not the one year girl go at ers...

 

I think you're being just a bit unfair and mean to both the men that visit BP and providers that advertise there. Some of the most respected and well reviewed women that reside on Lyla also advertise on backpage, including yourself. Men are just trying to sort through the sketchy and the fantastic. If it is so sketchy, then why are you there?

 

Of the thousands of ads I've seen there I only recall seeing one that offered uncovered service. Portraying them all as offering dirty barebakc providers is hyperbole.

 

My own observations tell me there most certainty has been upward movement of prices here driven by a shift in demand as hobbiests have retreated to safer dates under the new legislative regime. And yes, this is EXACTLY where we should be bringing quality providers that don't yet have a Lyla account. Some women don't want to be there because they don't want this to be their life. I talked to some that are just trying to support their families through a bad patch and then they want out. That's neither cheap or dirty.

 

I understand there is a financial incentive to shut down discussion of off site providers. At one time there was even a rule here to ban even the mention of backpage. It was unenforceable, largely tolerated, and didn't allow for men to stay safe through sharing of experiences. In their wisdom, staff changed the rules to permit such discussions, and Lyla is stronger now as discussion has flourished (as likely ad hits have, too). Respectfully, please let us do so, as the rules permit, without attacks on anyone's character or hygiene. I would suggest if these posts bother you so much then you can choose to not click and not read them.

[halifax76 2855]

@Meaghan Mcleod, The tag line i posted (Escort,Massage,Fetish & Adult Discussion) is the tag line above the Lyla.com logo upper left of the screen here. The reason i posted it was to highlight the section labeled (Adult Discussion). Which is why people here ask questions about anyone from anywhere i would guess. I hope i understood your comment right. Let me know if i missed it and I'll see if i can address it.

[damatt 340]

I completely agree with you. All a person has to do is just do their own homework. Although I find this board to be generally pleasant.

I have heard from others about the other board. Nasty is a word that comes to mind.

 

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If I can make a comment about cl and bp. cl is free to advertise and who doesn't like free advertising? the benefit of bp, is that the SP can choose when she wants her ad at the top, and which ads to include a sponsor upgrade, ect. Generally speaking, both sites offer a lot of flexibility. by the way, the legit ones will provide references, and links to other review sites

[Amelia Fox 9064]

Amelia, I don't have anything to add here - I don't surf back page - All my Halifax connections is via Lyla.

 

Just wanted to comment on the font you use here and in your ads - it's very, very difficult to read - way too small. Any chance you can use something larger so it's easier to read? Thanks!

 

 

Sure will change it and make it larger just for you.

Tks for the tip sweetie

 

Additional Comments:

I completely agree with you. All a person has to do is just do their own homework. Although I find this board to be generally pleasant.

I have heard from others about the other board. Nasty is a word that comes to mind.

 

Additional Comments:

If I can make a comment about cl and bp. cl is free to advertise and who doesn't like free advertising? the benefit of bp, is that the SP can choose when she wants her ad at the top, and which ads to include a sponsor upgrade, ect. Generally speaking, both sites offer a lot of flexibility. by the way, the legit ones will provide references, and links to other review sites

 

Amen! Thank you so much! I absolutely agree with you 100% Clist ads get flagged down almost instantly by other ladies, but BP by far is the most popular.. If all us ladies switched to advertise on let's say ����s list then we'd not be paying to post and keep it on top.

 

Additional Comments:

I think you're being just a bit unfair and mean to both the men that visit BP and providers that advertise there. Some of the most respected and well reviewed women that reside on Lyla also advertise on backpage, including yourself. Men are just trying to sort through the sketchy and the fantastic. If it is so sketchy, then why are you there?

 

Of the thousands of ads I've seen there I only recall seeing one that offered uncovered service. Portraying them all as offering dirty barebakc providers is hyperbole.

 

My own observations tell me there most certainty has been upward movement of prices here driven by a shift in demand as hobbiests have retreated to safer dates under the new legislative regime. And yes, this is EXACTLY where we should be bringing quality providers that don't yet have a Lyla account. Some women don't want to be there because they don't want this to be their life. I talked to some that are just trying to support their families through a bad patch and then they want out. That's neither cheap or dirty.

 

I understand there is a financial incentive to shut down discussion of off site providers. At one time there was even a rule here to ban even the mention of backpage. It was unenforceable, largely tolerated, and didn't allow for men to stay safe through sharing of experiences. In their wisdom, staff changed the rules to permit such discussions, and Lyla is stronger now as discussion has flourished (as likely ad hits have, too). Respectfully, please let us do so, as the rules permit, without attacks on anyone's character or hygiene. I would suggest if these posts bother you so much then you can choose to not click and not read them.

 

 

That's your oponion!