Best BBBJ

[PistolPete 61421]

I'm not going to comment, but I knew this topic was brought once before. Here is the thread link started in 2009...basically asking the same type question and some answers to it.

http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=19684

[nutty 153]

I would think threads of this nature (asking for public posting) would be counterproductive, and not in keeping with the "review" policy here on CERB.

 

Yeah, God forbid someone asks for public recommendations on a recommendation board...

 

Mod, am I out of line with respect to CERB policies? If so, I'll be sure to change my ways.

 

Additional Comments:

I have to side with the ladies on this one and not just cause meg is hot though ....

 

I think that ranking or rating is degrading because these ladies provide a very personal service. I like this forum because it is a place we can compliment and share information.

 

Lets remember our ladies here are not objects and they are not doing their profession as a competition. The more humanity we show the more human our time with these beautiful ladies will be. And for me that is the turn on.

 

I'm not asking you to rank them or rate them, I'm asking for your collective recommnedations wrt BBBJs.

 

This thread doesn't objectify them nor does it dehumanize them - it's asking for recommendations with respect the services that they advertise offer. I should be well within my rights to ask opinions as to which services are considered more bang for my buck.

[tiimde71 176]

I should be well within my rights to ask opinions as to which services are considered more bang for my buck.

 

As indicated there are ways to do that with a little class and without the locker room attitude. You want to treat this like any business and it is not. If we want classy service and personal service and not business like service I would stay away from expressions like bang for the buck. The advice given with regards to the thread is solid and meant not as an attack nut but as advice on how you can get the info you desire without giving offense.

 

Yes this is a recommendation board but I am learning it is a community not the chamber of commerce. Let's consider that every lady here has feelings and if a topic is offensive move on.

[nutty 153]

Many of you have already been PM'ing me asking for the results of my search for the best BBBJ in Ottawa - for those of you that are indeed interested in the concensus of who tops the list, PM me and I'll let you know. At the moment, there's a clear favourite (with one very detailed description). Keep sending me your recommendations and I'll do my best to deliver on the end result.

[Meg O'Ryan 266444]

Thank you Scott and Time for your accurate portrayal of the sentiments we tried to convey!

 

While some of us do offer this service, it is YMMV and private discussions are welcome!

[Chanel Reign 28097]

Wading into the pool again but on subject. I am not being immature here, I am genuinely asking this.

 

With all due respect, and quite honestly, ask yourself this question?

 

Would you like to see a thread where the SP's talk like this about Hobbiests? Best Penis here on cerb, the Best Daty, the Best Hobbiest EVER, the Best Body, The Hardest Cock, The Best Kisser, Best Tipper, Most Gentlemanly like etc etc etc?

 

I'm sure to some of you, you would say, "ha-ha sure". But are you really sure? Deep down wouldn't it bother you just a bit?

 

Think about what you would read, what these threads would say? Picture the Posts in your head. Would your name appear in these? If so, what emotions would be running through you?

 

I'm sure they would be as different as there are people.

 

But think about that thread.

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Feel free to flame if you must.

[tiimde71 176]

Chanel makes a great point and the answer is no I would not want to be graded on a board and giving it further thought I say this knowing

 

My picture is not public

My contact info is not public

My professionalism is not impacted

 

Interesting point.

[stevecurious 42059]

(Takes deep breath)

 

Clearly you are missing the point that the respondents of this thread are attempting to make. Yes there are ladies who offer bbbj, yes the ladies advertise all of their services, yes there are recommendations for bbbj in the Ottawa section...I checked. Actually out of the 5 random recommendations I selected 4 of them listed bbbj as a service offered by that particular lady! But very very few people want to talk about specific services involving specific ladies publicly! Discussing specifics like that is, well just not done! You should do you own research into what you want and go with it...privately. Then after the date, with the ladies OK, post a recommendation in the reco. section.

 

Obviously since you are receiving PM's there are people willing to discuss this matter, but notice how not one of them posted publicly! There is a way to go about matters such as this and that way is the discreet, respectful way! I believe, as I mentioned in a previous post on this thread, if you had stated you were seeking ladies who offer bbbj's but to PM the names and not state them publicly you would have been much better off!

[E.D. man 691]

Wading into the pool again but on subject. I am not being immature here, I am genuinely asking this.

 

With all due respect, and quite honestly, ask yourself this question?

 

Would you like to see a thread where the SP's talk like this about Hobbiests? Best Penis here on cerb, the Best Daty, the Best Hobbiest EVER, the Best Body, The Hardest Cock, The Best Kisser, Best Tipper, Most Gentlemanly like etc etc etc?

 

I'm sure to some of you, you would say, "ha-ha sure". But are you really sure? Deep down wouldn't it bother you just a bit?

 

Think about what you would read, what these threads would say? Picture the Posts in your head. Would your name appear in these? If so, what emotions would be running through you?

 

I'm sure they would be as different as there are people.

 

But think about that thread.

______________________

 

Feel free to flame if you must.

I'm cool with hardest cock best tipper ect. I woul loe to see an SP do a thread like that. Just wondering how many clients ego woild go to their heads.

[nutty 153]

Wading into the pool again but on subject. I am not being immature here, I am genuinely asking this.

 

With all due respect, and quite honestly, ask yourself this question?

 

Would you like to see a thread where the SP's talk like this about Hobbiests? Best Penis here on cerb, the Best Daty, the Best Hobbiest EVER, the Best Body, The Hardest Cock, The Best Kisser, Best Tipper, Most Gentlemanly like etc etc etc?

 

I'm sure to some of you, you would say, "ha-ha sure". But are you really sure? Deep down wouldn't it bother you just a bit?

 

Think about what you would read, what these threads would say? Picture the Posts in your head. Would your name appear in these? If so, what emotions would be running through you?

 

I'm sure they would be as different as there are people.

 

But think about that thread.

 

 

Of course we wouldn't want our name/handles put out there like that, but we're hiring you for your advertized services, not the other way around? We make no claims about our bodies or sexual skillset - we don't toss around statistics about ourselves or offer up any photos. You're offering services for money, and therein lies the difference. You advertise your bodies in pictures to entice us to hire you. You are putting yourself out there as providers of sexual services, the menu clearly advertised, discretion assured, therefore you can't be surprised when the clients want to figure out amongst themselves whether or not your services are the ones they want or if the other SP is more to their liking.

 

If I were a male escort, would I not advertize the size & hardness of my member? Would I not show pictures of my abs, chest and butt? Are these not marketing tools to get more clients interested? If so, I couldn't be shocked if my clients started discussing these same characteristics in an open forum... hell, since this forum is all about positive reviews, the more often you're mentioned, the better it is for your business, no?

[Meg O'Ryan 266444]

You are putting yourself out there as providers of sexual services, the menu clearly advertised,

 

So...why not consult the menu for the answer and then ask for people to privately contact you?????

[mod 135639]

I was asked to intervene but all sides have valid points.... and obviously some comments are just to stir the pot and invoke emotions.

 

The problem with this thread is the tittle... if it was "your favorite bbbj" that would have been a better choice. the "best" is the issue. the ladies do not like to be rated and it is not nice to be left out of a thread like this. also it's such a personal preference how can you possibly find "the best" .... trial and error and have fun in the process!

 

let's end this thread so no one gets more upset and maybe in the future some more thought on trying not to ask for the impossible.

[Guest s******ecan****]

Of course we wouldn't want our name/handles put out there like that, but we're hiring you for your advertized services, not the other way around? We make no claims about our bodies or sexual skillset - we don't toss around statistics about ourselves or offer up any photos. You're offering services for money, and therein lies the difference. You advertise your bodies in pictures to entice us to hire you. You are putting yourself out there as providers of sexual services, the menu clearly advertised, discretion assured, therefore you can't be surprised when the clients want to figure out amongst themselves whether or not your services are the ones they want or if the other SP is more to their liking.

 

If I were a male escort, would I not advertize the size & hardness of my member? Would I not show pictures of my abs, chest and butt? Are these not marketing tools to get more clients interested? If so, I couldn't be shocked if my clients started discussing these same characteristics in an open forum... hell, since this forum is all about positive reviews, the more often you're mentioned, the better it is for your business, no?

 

 

If you haven't noticed already, you're pretty much a lone voice on the issue you're trying to push (the posting in a public thread of a list of the best bbbj).

 

Take a look at Pistol Pete's link to the earlier thread on this same subject. You can see Pete's own response was a TOTF winner. This is reflective of the CERB community's view of this topic.

 

What you are facing here is the CERB community's overwhelming view of this idea, yes you make some valid arguments, but there are times when our CERB Community values and ethics transcend those arguments.