MSOG Service

[integrity_L 385]

I am wondering about this service in the Ottawa region. I have met 4 SP so far and only 1 has offered such option.

 

Since English is not my first language, I do not except much conversation before the "action" and I am always wondering what if I SOG within the first 15 minutes and I paid for 1 hour of "fun" why MSOG is not more offered?

 

I know that some response will be "well discuss this with your provider beforehand" but I was wondering about everyone experience in this mater.

 

I have read review where a lady started the session with a BBBJ and the guy finish within 10 minutes and the remaining of the review only display discussion between the client and the SP.

 

If I pay the expected amount of money, I do expect some more "intercourse" even thought the SP was wild having the guy finish within the first few minutes.

 

Lady, if you offer such service has a standard service, let me know, I might contact you soon ... PM me if you want to be discreet.

 

Reviews doesn't always display such info ...

 

Thanks for reading. :)

[etasman2000 15994]

Hmm.......interesting. I've only had only one Ottawa SP tell me no MSOG.

 

There has been at least one thread regarding this matter and IIRC the majority of the SPs posting have indicated MSOG is part of the offering.

[Cleo Catra 178382]

There are many ladies, including myself, who offer MSOG. However, I choose not to advertise that, because listed it seems like a guarantee - and if the hour is up and the second, or third, shot hasn't happened, it's quite difficult to gently remind the gentlemen that our time is up.

 

For me, if I can please a man multiple times in one session that's fantastic - but, if the gentlemen chooses this, he needs to be mindful of the clock. I am not a clockwatcher in any way, however I have had the experience where someone is so determined to get the second shot in that we've gone well over the paid time, and when I remind him, I look bad. I've spoken with other ladies too who have had the same experience.

[Winnipegcub 21293]

I'm with Etas and never had a lady say the limit was 1 SOG. In fact I've been encouraged to 'go again' when I thought the body had long given out. If anything I think the time agreed to is more the criteria applied as any kind of limiter. But with everything if important to you I would just ask up front in a respectful way.

[Megan'sTouch 23875]

However, I choose not to advertise that, because listed it seems like a guarantee - and if the hour is up and the second, or third, shot hasn't happened, it's quite difficult to gently remind the gentlemen that our time is up.

I am the same way. I will do MSOG for 90 and 120 minute sessions and I like the gent to let me know that's what he's after.

 

But, like you, I don't advertise it or even confirm that I offer it because I sometimes will feel like I have to rush the first one to get in two, or things might just take a different turn. I'd rather him let me know he's interested and let things unfold.

 

That being said, I can't imagine having a gentlemen finish early and then saying "sorry it's only one shot."

[Capital Hunter 18263]

I think that unlike most agency SPs (under instruction not to offer msog) most independents offer MSOG.

[Guest f***2f***]

Choose your SP wisely. I've never had it not offered.

[cuteFrenchy 403]

I do not think that MSOG is a question of agency versus non-agency. I believe that it is more a question of inexperience. From my observations over the years I have noticed that inexperienced service providers do not understand that many hobbyist are seeking more than just the shot on goal. They should not be necessarily to blame. It takes time to learn a new craft. You should keep this in mind when seeking out an SP. My experience is that most established SPs (indy and/or agency) do offer MSOG.

 

I have also noticed another trend lately of some of the less experienced SPs of equating two shots with multiple shots. From my experience if they advertise two shots, then the experience is a rush to the two goals. In my opinion this is not a fulfilling experience. It is best not to have a predetermined number of shot on goals. We should just let things flow naturally, relax and have fun.

 

In the past, I have had a few sessions with 3 and even 4 shots on goal in one hour. This was when I was more premature. I would have not been satisfied with 2 SOG. Mind you my last encounter was with the beautiful Annessa. My first SOG arrived at the 50 minute mark in a one hour session. So I had no time for a second shot. Yet it was as fulfilling as my multiple shot sessions because she allowed me to go at my pace which permitted me to properly savour the moment.

[Guest **ng***1]

Interesting discussion. I remember asking a beautiful lady during prelim discussions if MSOG was part of the offering and she was kind of animated saying "why do guys always ask for it and 90 percent only have one shot". I guaranteed her I would have more than one shot and she hesitated and then said "fine it was included". Then I only shot once.!! hehe. Just kidding.

[E.D. man 691]

myself I had a 2 hour session the girl told me it was one shot per session no matter how long the time was. never booked with that agency again.

I have had indies allow me 2 in an hour and one per hour . It all depends on the women.

When I can do 2 in two hours i'm happier than a pancake in syrup!!!

[Annessa 22743]

I have had indies allow me 2 in an hour and one per hour . It all depends on the women.

When I can do 2 in two hours i'm happier than a pancake in syrup!!!

 

i want to stress that both the SP and the client are depending factors (depending on what we're talking about)...some men can go twice in one hour and some cant....I dont think it should be left to the SP however to figure that out, lol...and yes some SPs can figure it out if you are a good communicator with them in an encounter...i definitely dont think it all depends solely on the woman tho

 

everyone has an equal hand (yes pun intended) in it ;-)

[777flyer 1612]

Exactly what I was trying to say! :D

 

Since I love my Iphone 4 so much, I decided to create an APP, called the MSOG 'Shotmeter'.........

 

It will automatically post your score of the most MSOG, within the shortest time frame......and create a weighted average, so for future reference you can try to beat your best, ie highest score in lowest time score.......

 

Kind of like the Nike App, where you track where you jog, and for future reference, you RUN LIKE hell to beat your previous lowest score.......

 

Honestly though, what is the big hang up of maximizing MSOG........?

 

It's not about MSOG, it's about maximizing your enjoyment during love making and the passion during your session.....not how quickly and often you score......

 

Perhaps, I am just missing something.......

 

Be sure to look for Fat Bastards BBM App....on Itunes soon.......

 

[tiimde71 176]

Good post 777 lol Omg almost fell out if my chair. Can't add anything to that :)

[Cleo Catra 178382]

It's not about MSOG, it's about maximizing your enjoyment during love making and the passion during your session.....not how quickly and often you score......

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MEOW!!!! Exactly!

[Guest W***ledi*Time]

... Honestly though, what is the big hang up of maximizing MSOG........?

 

It's not about MSOG, it's about maximizing your enjoyment during love making and the passion during your session.....not how quickly and often you score......

 

Perhaps, I am just missing something.......

 

There seems to be slightly different understandings as to what MSOG implies. Paradoxically, MSOG isn't necessarily about how often your score. In my mind, the definition of MSOG is simply that the time that a client pays for should be equal to the time that the client is allowed to spend with his lady. The client has purchased the time, and MSOG implies that he can spend that time any way he wants (subject to the usual constraints of proper conduct and respect for the lady, of course), be it chatting, cuddling, or trying for as many releases as he so chooses.

 

The major issue, from the client's perspective, is that a lady who does not offer MSOG may in fact consider that the client who has purchased "one hour", has not in fact purchased the privilege of spending one hour's time with her. According to the interpretation of some non-msog ladies, the client who has purchased "one hour" has instead only purchased the privelege of one release, which must happen within a one hour maximum. The client, in her view, is purchasing a release instead of time. Just as soon as a release happens, the client has received the entire service he has contracted-for, and she considers the encounter over, no matter how quickly that release occurs. The client is booted out the door, even if he has purchased "one hour", and has only spent a tiny fraction of that time with her. Under this particular definition, "No MSOG" means: "One shot and you're out." It's like turning into a pumpkin before midnight strikes.

 

For me, cumming is quite a variable thing. Sometimes I do, sometimes I don't, sometimes I do twice. Whatever the outcome in that particular aspect, I greatly enjoy spending time with a lady. My full time. If I find myself being hustled out the door before my time is up, I confess that I'm not very inclined to repeat. When my time is up, I cheerfully hustle myself out the door. If ever I were to lose track of time or miss my exit-cue, the lady would be very welcome to kick my sorry ass out, preferably with steel-toed stilettos.

[Andee 220524]

Call it what you want, but I always say you can go around the world as many times as you can handle in the time frame you spend with me!

[bucken 1479]

It's not about MSOG, it's about maximizing your enjoyment during love making and the passion during your session.....not how quickly and often you score......

 

Perhaps, I am just missing something.......

 

Gotta agree with you here. Great thoughts....

[mmad 2842]

Got a laugh out of the title... if I can manage one SOG, I'm happy; guess I'm not a young stud anymore. I'm envious of you guys that enjoy MSOG !!

[Guest s******ecan****]

 

Something that I also feel needs to be addressed: "clock-watcher" is a term i hear thrown around too much the wrong way. if a lady senses that time may be running out and glances at the clock or informs you that a second shot isnt realistic considering you have 5 mins left.....thats checking the time.......a girl who clances every 5 mins at the clock like she just wants to get it over with and would really rather be fishing.....well thats the true definition of a clock-watcher in reality. an unrushed exerience is always a good one...however because time is important to us it doesnt mean a lady is rushing you if you have gone seriously overtime and she notices and decides to mention it.

 

 

 

A good point. I once had a booking where the SP was so concerned about appearing as a "clock watcher" that she didn't keep track of time. I was having so much fun I didn't either. Our session ran on so long that she missed her next booking, we both felt terrible.

[VedaSloan 119179]

I recently had an experience where the client and I were so engrossed in our conversation that before we knew it there was only 10 minutes left in the appointment. I felt guilty for not saying anything sooner and didn't want to rush the sexual aspect even though there was only 10 minutes left, so I said that I could give him an extra 15 minutes, but after that he would have to pay to extend the time. On the one hand, I felt like I should have been paying more attention to the time, but then again, I didn't want to be a clock-watcher either.

 

Like Annessa said, many of us are happy to offer multiple shots, but if you get to a point where there is only 5-10 minutes left, that puts so much undue pressure on me to try and get you off within that time frame, on top of which, my own personal guilt kicks in as I feel bad saying, sorry, time's up, if I happen to be in the middle of servicing you.

[Guest S***dst***]

I recently had an experience where the client and I were so engrossed in our conversation that before we knew it there was only 10 minutes left in the appointment. I felt guilty for not saying anything sooner and didn't want to rush the sexual aspect even though there was only 10 minutes left, so I said that I could give him an extra 15 minutes, but after that he would have to pay to extend the time. On the one hand, I felt like I should have been paying more attention to the time, but then again, I didn't want to be a clock-watcher either.

 

Like Annessa said, many of us are happy to offer multiple shots, but if you get to a point where there is only 5-10 minutes left, that puts so much undue pressure on me to try and get you off within that time frame, on top of which, my own personal guilt kicks in as I feel bad saying, sorry, time's up, if I happen to be in the middle of servicing you.

 

 

I had a similar thing happen with myself and a girl from an agency... She had knocked her clock sideways when she'd got up to answer the door and we both got along so well we just kept talking about everything lol

 

She was happy to go the extra 5 minutes over but her agency wasn't :/

(she left it shortly after and is still doing well to date)

 

As for the thread itself, I've voiced my views in a similar thread before; it's very similar to WIT post.

Only had one lady tell me, after I had arrived, that if I want to stay for an hour it's only one shot so I should book a 1/2hour... I didn't care about how many "shots" I was allowed but it immediately spoiled the mood :/

[Big Sexy 133]

This also happened to me at a session with a fav SP of mine. We had a wonderfully sensual time and it was not quite an hour yet, but I was supposed to go out of town on a trip to a family gathering (7 hr drive) so as soon as the SOG was completed I was up outta the love nest and showering already while she was getting a drink of water.

 

The 'act' only took 45 mins so I was really not badly off schedule, but after getting dressed, we started talking and ended up sitting together enjoying each others company, laughing and talking for close to 2 hours.

 

Now in this case, she finally realized the time and just laughed at how we completely lost track of time and reminded me I had to leave town, so I felt it was necessary to leave a tip. She was so good about the whole thing and such a lovely person, but it was the right thing to do. In fact if I'd had more money I would have left more. She left me with such a great feeling that day. Just thought I'd share because it left me thinking how gracious she was about the whole thing...that goes a very long way with me. ;)

[sexnonstop724 1727]

A little simple communication goes a long way. A few experience to share.

Most of the time I ask before my session if there is another session right after mine, and if it is ok to extend my session for extra half or full hour if we connected well. With that out in the open, after my first hr, we can determine if a second hr is warranted.

Secondly, I try to make myself clear that I would like to have MSOG up front and asked to be reminded of the time. If we chatted for too long, and with little time left. Either extend the session or if not possible, come back again soon.

Most ladies I have been with are extremely generous and never clock watch. Once I had a session where we talked for so long, by the time she check the clock, we only have 5 minutes left. But since I was up front with my intentions. She was kind enough to follow thru with my second shot for the 1.5 hr session. It is both our responsibility to keep track of time, any extra time offered should be treated as a gift from the lovely ladies.

 

We are paying for the ladies' time as our companion. YMMV always apply.

 

SNS724

[Chanel Reign 28097]

I do not understand the SOG option. If you are paying for my time, its up to you to decide how many times you'd like to/can orgasm. The concept of shooing someone out the door after their SOG makes my brow furrow.

 

Am I wrong in assuming that if you offer only this type of service then clearly there is a blurring of legalities and opens up a whole other can of hot worms? But I digress...;)

 

In my opinion if you are paid for an hour of your time and escorting said client out the door 25 mins later that is in very bad taste and probably ensures a non-repeat. Please clarify me if I am wrong on this.

 

Most of my clients (especially my regulars) will usually cum once quickly into the session to "get the edge off", and then we can spend a long leisurely time building up to their next or next, and so on.

 

I do have some edgers that want to hold out for one big blast toward the end of our time. They tend to spend the last 5-10 or so minutes cuddling and recuperating, chatting and laughing.

 

I also suggested to one very young man (his first time with an SP), who only got to last 15 mins (although he tried very hard), that he masturbate every morning if he wasn't having sex regularly, including the morning before he sees an SP. For the rest of our time I massaged him and chatted with him about being a good client, and what SP's like which was mostly communication and respect. Not to be afraid to ask. He left very much at ease.

 

And I NEVER book back to back clients.

 

So since each individual is so different, is it fair to only offer SOG? I most definitely have more than one in a session, so why shouldn't they?

[tiimde71 176]

I do not understand the SOG option. If you are paying for my time, its up to you to decide how many times you'd like to/can orgasm. The concept of shooing someone out the door after their SOG makes my brow furrow.

 

Am I wrong in assuming that if you offer only this type of service then clearly there is a blurring of legalities and opens up a whole other can of hot worms? But I digress...;)

 

In my opinion if you are paid for an hour of your time and escorting said client out the door 25 mins later that is in very bad taste and probably ensures a non-repeat. Please clarify me if I am wrong on this.

 

 

God bless you ;)

 

I had one sp run me out after 20 min of an hour even cuddle time was not an option. Then she asked where her tip was lol.