Rambler1980 1359 Report post Posted March 30, 2016 Do users consider it safer to visit a SP at a hotel they work out of or their home. I prefer hotel but is one safer? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Brad 49548 Report post Posted March 31, 2016 I think it's all about the Lady. As long as you're meeting someone reputable, I don't see why their home would be any less safe. I've enjoyed very enjoyable visits with ladies who have invited me into their home. Actually, I generally find that setting more comfortable and a nicer atmosphere than a hotel. 4 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Rambler1980 1359 Report post Posted April 1, 2016 I guess the apartments I visited are usually messy and sketchy and often have pets around. I haven't been to many particularly clean ones. With a hotel I have less issue with being robbed and its always clean. Once I become a regular obviously going to a house is less of a worry Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Midnite-Energies 110563 Report post Posted April 1, 2016 One of the benefits of this forum is the recommendations from other members. That should greatly reduce your chances of ending up somewhere distasteful, dirty, dangerous etc. Most here have learned the valuable lesson of researching and watching out for one another some from having been in not very safe or good conditions. Good luck. I hope the quality of your encounters is awesome! 3 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Katherine of Halifax 113932 Report post Posted April 1, 2016 I love entertaining in the comfort of my home while in Halifax. My place is simple, clean and very inviting. Weather we wish to visit on the couch enjoying a drink or having dinner in my dining room, I love to be home. This is a luxury I don't always have in a hotel and my guests appreciate all the extra's a home visit allows. 10 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Rambler1980 1359 Report post Posted April 2, 2016 Ive never been robbed but just paranoid. I agree having a drink or a bit of talk would be quite nice Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Metalsmith 2983 Report post Posted April 2, 2016 For some reason, I think I prefer a home visit instead of a hotel. I think I get more nervous at a hotel. A home, a quiet location, a welcome space that the person I'm visiting is most comfortable in, those are important. MS 4 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest N***he**Ont**y Report post Posted April 2, 2016 I have had a couple of home visits with a local and it was very pleasant as there was no pressure involved except a request once to put on a Captain America outfit for the next encounter. To bad she retired it would have been interesting. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ice4fun 78407 Report post Posted April 2, 2016 As a client in this lifestyle it is in my opinion all about managing risk. The new laws have increased the risk for clients but frankly if you are smart... do your homework and stick to meeting reputable well established ladies like the wonderful women of LYLA then the risk can be managed relatively easily. I would think that the relative risks of seeing a well established reputable LYLA lady in a hotel or her home would be the same. I would say however that if it is someone you have never met and that you have little or no research on then meeting in a high end hotel might reduce the risk to some degree. Just my Opinion 6 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mrgreen760 37785 Report post Posted April 2, 2016 Home in call is always my preference. Hotels seem cliche to me. Peace MG Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Exotic Touch Danielle 31728 Report post Posted April 3, 2016 Whatever makes you feel most comfortable .... you may find that a hotel setting is more private but then you may find a home setting is much more relaxing and inviting Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Biker Dude 2391 Report post Posted April 9, 2016 Hotel is my preference. The nicer the hotel, the safer I feel making that first date. I've never been ripped off in a hotel but I have been ripped off in a home a few times. And often the homes are so disgusting it makes it hard to focus on what you're there for (I've seen a few hotel rooms like this as well). That being said, if the home is not in a "no go" neighbourhood and is relatively clean and free of cats, it can be a much better experience than even an encounter in a high end hotels. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Exotic Touch Danielle 31728 Report post Posted April 9, 2016 What exactly is a 'no go' neighborhood? Just curious 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
roamingguy 300292 Report post Posted April 9, 2016 Most of my encounters have been at my hotel room. Hotel because I have to travel to meet a lady...yes I'm a touring gentleman LOL That said, irrespective of whether a date is at my hotel, or a lady's hotel/home/condo my feeling of safety is dependant on the lady more than anything. If I felt unsafe seeing a lady at her place I'd feel unsafe seeing her at my place too. A rambling over cup number 2 RG 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Exotic Touch Danielle 31728 Report post Posted April 9, 2016 I think what is most important is how you feel with the lady...how safe and comfortable she makes you feel while you are with her...yes of course the setting should be comfortable and safe as well...I personally just hate and get highly offended when my in call location is sometimes judged based off the fact I am not in a high end location or there maybe a neighbor outside enjoying the wether or what not...but hey that's his loss and another's gain of course 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Katherine of Halifax 113932 Report post Posted July 5, 2018 I think what is most important is how you feel with the lady...how safe and comfortable she makes you feel while you are with her...yes of course the setting should be comfortable and safe as well...I personally just hate and get highly offended when my in call location is sometimes judged based off the fact I am not in a high end location or there maybe a neighbor outside enjoying the wether or what not...but hey that's his loss and another's gain of course Exactly . My location is easily as nice as most who visit. My civic address , really? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites