Turn On's for a Lady or Gent!

[Midnite-Energies 110563]

There has been a lot of activity in the "turn off's" thread so to increase both the positivity and titillating factors, let's talk about what turns us on.

 

I for one love a vocal partner. One who makes noises of pleasure, who encourages or directs with desire and who loses themselves in the moment. It is even a bigger turn on while using your name! !

 

What turns YOU on??

[renegade 11027]

Women who truly know how to and love to kiss !

[Emma Alexandra 123368]

Intelligent men

Someone who can make me laugh

Men who know what their doing.

Actually the jobs some men have can turn me on. I'm not necessarily saying the high paying ones.. it could military..firemen,men in uniforms..guys that have interesting stories to tell.

[Tempted Monk 5057]

Maybe this sounds strange, but attention to me as a person.

When Lady makes me believe that she is happy to see specifically me by some small signs of caring and attention. For instance, I did not ask for specific outfit but mentioned in the conversation she looks fantastic on that photo - and next time she reproduced it exactly for me. Or I told her about something important for me - and next time I am asked how did situation developed.

Small signs but they mean a lot...

[Meaghan McLeod 179664]

I adore it when someone listens and takes direction. Nothing better then someone who wants to understand what I want vs what they've been doing for years, and thinks their way is the best way. Everyone is different, and what works for one person might not work for someone else.

 

Also, I adore it when they tell me what they want - not whispering, but actually voicing their wants and desires. Whispering implies they are ashamed of what they want - I love the self confidence when someone tells me what they want.

[Brad 49548]

A genuine smile and laugh. Not much that can make me feel better than knowing I've pleased or entertained.

 

Kissing, light kissing, more kissing, deeper kissing, lips tracing kissing, hello is that your tongue kissing, followed by...a handshake--while kissing!

 

Tongue along my ear. Sets me right off.

 

An enthusiastic, happy greeting. Nothing like getting off to a pleasant, friendly start.

 

Geeky interests and fun conversation. Intellectual connections make for sparks!

 

A partner who doesn't mind saying what she likes and enjoys. I'm not going to be having any fun if I don't think it's mutual, and nothing gives pleasure like pleasing.

 

Finally...boobs (yup, sometimes it's just that simple).

[Guest Prufrock Cummings]

Kissing, first and foremost :)

Hearing her express things vocally. Love to hear what she enjoys, so that more can be provided to her in the heat of the moment at her request

A little dirty talk from time to time

 

And direction. As simple as it is, mind reading works from time to time, but simply being told "do this" or "more of that" takes the guess-work out.

 

I love to please!

[Regent 35404]

That feeling of a genuine connection.

 

Lots of communication - both verbally about what you want, what's working, what feels good, and also non-verbal communication like facial expressions, body language, noises. I love love love strong reactions.

 

Getting to do fun activities that are new to me or very infrequently requested.

 

Obedience. I really love subs who want to do as they're told and who are interested in the ways I experience pleasure, rather than the ways they think I should experience pleasure.

 

Massages - pretty much the quickest and most reliable way to turn me on.

[ElissaMarie 4310]

A well-dressed man that smells good is all I need ;)

[Genevieve Marceau 68000]

A man with a plan.

[Exotic Touch Danielle 31728]

One who takes the time to read my ad and when contacting me he is respectful and courteous...major turn on!

 

Good hygiene

 

One who is also in tune with my needs and enjoys pleasing me as well

 

A good sense of humor and positive attitude

[Guest st*****ens**ors]

Genuine conversation, warm hugs, slow kisses and tenderness.

[Nicolette Vaughn 294340]

A smooth shaven face. That 5 o'clock shadow can REALLY burn!

[Luckyme 41401]

Maybe this sounds strange, but attention to me as a person.

When Lady makes me believe that she is happy to see specifically me by some small signs of caring and attention. ......

Small signs but they mean a lot...

 

This, as well as what have been mentioned, passionate kissing, good hygiene, a friendly, respectful and good attitude, and last but not least, an occasional " miss you.." and "can't wait..." phrase -- will do it for me.

[Guest discr33t]

Hungry eyes

[johnybird 4391]

When she scratches my head or back, When she scratches my head or back, When she scratches my head or back, When she scratches my head or back, When she scratches my head or back, When she scratches my head or back, When she scratches my head or back,

 

did I say when she scratches my head or back?

 

I am putty in her hands

[Triple HHH 12345]

Greet me with a Smile, enjoy Kissing and my biggest turn on is when the lady I am with shows me she enjoys the moments as much as me.

[Nicolette Vaughn 294340]

A gentleman who will accept a compliment from a lady saying "Thanks" instead of saying "I bet you say that to everyone."

[Bully 383]

When a connection between 2 people is made, makes everything else seem a little sweeter. Either personality wise, humor, a small interest, the approach and maybe yes seduction. The small details, subtle scents , the curve of the back....excuse me for a moment...cold shower.