someguy 67067 Report post Posted April 7, 2016 Hi thought that I would start this tread as we have a "Ask a Escort" and "Ask a Hobbiest" thread. Since a MA and SP provides a different type of service then an Escort. And there are always questions from newbies about getting a massage. I thought I could start this thread so that all the questions and answers would be in one place. I've been getting massages for almost 6 years now. And have found most of the massages quite enjoyable. Most MA's are beautiful sexy women. Most offer begin and ending showers which sometimes can be a lot of fun. I have many happy memories of shower time. Then there is the massage itself. It can be theraputic, or sensual. It's great if the MA knows how to give a RMT type massage. Enjoyed the body slides also. Then there is the finish. The girls have there own style of finishing you off :) The best time's I've had is when there is connection and chemistry and the woman enjoys kissing and cuddling. I am sure there will be a lot of question and answers here. Such as Spa's vs Indy's and people are interested in rates and tips. So looking forwards to seeing some conversations here :) 4 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
someguy 67067 Report post Posted April 10, 2016 What can a new client do to make a session better? I know that hygiene is very important. And it takes time to build a connection or have chemistry. What makes it easier for you to relax and enjoy your time with a new client that you know nothing about? I usually communicate with the the woman thru PM here or email for a few days before I meet them. Like to get a feel for they are like and whether we have something in common. So by the time we meet, we have some knowledge of each other's likes or dislikes. It must be hard to meet complete strangers an then try to spend sensual time with them without having awkward times. So what can make as great session with a complete stranger possible? 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Bully 383 Report post Posted April 10, 2016 well said someguy. it's adds to the flavor of the session to add some chemistry and a pre introduction. A little intimacy goes a long way. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
someguy 67067 Report post Posted April 12, 2016 Another question is about the beginning shower. Both CMJ and Vibe include the shower at the beginning of the session where the hostess joins you in the shower. This is very enjoyable and a lot of fun with the right girl. The girls at the other spa's don't seem to do this, if you ask they may. Even some of the girls at CMJ and Vibe sometimes don't want to take the beginning shower, because in some cases they have already taken many showers already and there skin may dry out. In some case, they don't want to get their hair or make up wet. To the MA's what are your thoughts about joining the client in the beginning in the shower. You can ensure that he is clean :) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Amanda-Lee 11094 Report post Posted April 12, 2016 I am at the A.L.O locations (Bank and Montreal) even though there isn't room showers at those locations, there still is a shower. I'd love to shower with a client. The 30 minute appointments is a bit to short for a time to shower, massage, then shower again; for me I would find that very restricted and rushed (which isn't that good). Showering with the client is fun. I know some are shy to walk out with a towel on back to the room, but it's not like your walking out the door for the general public to see. I would walk out with a towel around me (if the case in point I would just walk out without a towel, I'm not shy). There is that issue or concern. Some don't even care, they are comfortable to really care about that, or rather, don't mind. 45min and 1 hour appointments seem like a better option for the shower. Less rushed and restricted. More time, allows me to enjoy your company rather be more conscious about the time. I am fairy new to the SPA world but I do have experience and common sense around showering with clients. 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
someguy 67067 Report post Posted April 26, 2016 I had started this other thread: http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=227437 This was a targeted at a general audience. I wanted to know what MA's thought of this. I know that not all MA's allow kissing and those that do, it is based on chemistry and hygiene. What makes you want to kiss someone in a session? Just wanted to know what to do in case of a MA. Most SP's kiss, but I am not sure about MA's. I've been lucky and have had great kissing sessions with about 90% of the girls. Mostly with ones that I have had previous contact with. The ones that I did not have a chance to get to know, were usually the ones that I did not get to kiss or feel a connection with. I now ask thru pm or text if there is a chance of kissing. If they don't kiss at all, I usually do not see them unless they are well recommended. How is the best way to bring up the topic of kissing? I know you can't promise to kiss until you meet the person. ? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Meaghan McLeod 179664 Report post Posted April 26, 2016 I have worked as an MA and SP. However, for the MA donations, I found that I was being asked for more and more - without the extra donation that should go along with it. In my opinion, if you want the more intimate activities - see an sp who is trained in massage. One of the main reasons I no longer advertise MA services - even though I do provide them, it seems that everyone wants the full deal without the donation. If I am going to provide a service that has any type of health risk, I expect to be paid fully for it. Kissing has some basic risks. 5 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
someguy 67067 Report post Posted July 27, 2016 I've never had a training session. If it is a girl's first time, Does the teaching hostess give instruction through out. ? Is it like a demonstration first and the girl follows the lead? Can someone explain how it works. ? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Na****a***mers (RETIRED) Report post Posted August 8, 2016 Having a chat over a glass of refreshing water about likes/dislikes/expectations/limitations/preferences at the beginning of the session. Do not put your underwear back on after you shower. What can a new client do to make a session better?I know that hygiene is very important. And it takes time to build a connection or have chemistry. What makes it easier for you to relax and enjoy your time with a new client that you know nothing about? I usually communicate with the the woman thru PM here or email for a few days before I meet them. Like to get a feel for they are like and whether we have something in common. So by the time we meet, we have some knowledge of each other's likes or dislikes. It must be hard to meet complete strangers an then try to spend sensual time with them without having awkward times. So what can make as great session with a complete stranger possible? Additional Comments: I've never had a training session. If it is a girl's first time, Does the teaching hostess give instruction through out. ? Is it like a demonstration first and the girl follows the lead?Can someone explain how it works. ? The girls get trained before their first shift. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
