cgnex 1616 Report post Posted April 20, 2016 If I am interested in learning more about someone on the DNR list, is it appropriate to ask for feedback via pm or is it improper to ask at all? Thanks! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mister2u 123 Report post Posted April 20, 2016 PM is moderated you'll get a warning if a DNR is discussed. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mod 135640 Report post Posted April 20, 2016 PM's are NOT moderated however you can REPORT a PM if someone is breaking a rule or abusing the PM system.. ONLY THEN do we (The mods) get to see a private message. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
cgnex 1616 Report post Posted April 20, 2016 To clarify, can I ask for opinions and request a pm reply, or is the public request alone out of bounds? Thanks! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mister2u 123 Report post Posted April 20, 2016 You'd do well not to mention any DNR services in any way shape or form.Even advising another member that a specific MA is on the DNR list is out ,in my experience. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
roamingguy 300292 Report post Posted April 20, 2016 How can you ask the question about someone when the DNR rules state explicitly (copied/pasted) "This stands for Do Not Review and Do Not Discuss Some people have asked not to be included in the site and asked us to remove any discussions, comments, reviews and even recommendations about them. We must respect these requests and add them to this list. " Just mentioning a lady's name publically in your post (on DNR list)and asking for comments via PM would IMO mean comments about her are being brought up, even if behind the scenes on the PM system And how would anyone know who you are asking about unless her name is first mentioned publically in a post. Just asking the question publically would be against the DNR rules That would be my read on it Of course Mod may have a different opinion and he's the judge and has the gavel LOL A rambling RG Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
marriedbutnotdead 3844 Report post Posted April 20, 2016 I remember seeing the list before but for some reason I can't seem to locate it anymore, can someone please refresh my memory for me. thanks Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
roamingguy 300292 Report post Posted April 20, 2016 I remember seeing the list before but for some reason I can't seem to locate it anymore, can someone please refresh my memory for me. thanks Here you go :-) https://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/announcement.php?f=125&a=10 RG 5 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
waterat 20911 Report post Posted April 21, 2016 I agree with RG's comments. Here is a very simple solution to the restrictions: Just go visit the provider you're interested in - no questions, comments, reviews, recommendations needed. As Nike says Just Do It. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Hukupp 1651 Report post Posted April 21, 2016 Thank you for the list. I have responded publicly to many massage questions to help out and in one case a PM (very generic in nature). I am almost sure one was on the list without me knowing ahead of time. Anyway, I wanted to state that right away after reading this thread. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Grass_Hopper 18263 Report post Posted April 21, 2016 All DNR should include every kind on comments on service, from the first communication, to the last, including location. Often, those ladies go by ����, so one service offered to one might not be the same for the other. Some providers also have techniques they rather keep to themselves. Discretion thing. And last, the provider might have personnal reasons wanting not to be reviewed. It's her choice, please, respect it and do not talk about her. A PM, text, or e-mail to kindly ask for permission is in good form, but don't be surprise if she refuses... 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mod 135640 Report post Posted May 4, 2016 Dnr/dnd ... Do nor recommend or discuss. NO MENTION ON HERE PLEASE Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Grass_Hopper 18263 Report post Posted May 4, 2016 If you realize afterwards that she's on the list, you can edit your post, or even erase it. The only thing you can't modify is the title of your post. You can also report a thread that is about a lady on the DNR/DND list. Thank you for the list. I have responded publicly to many massage questions to help out and in one case a PM (very generic in nature). I am almost sure one was on the list without me knowing ahead of time. Anyway, I wanted to state that right away after reading this thread. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Phaedrus 209521 Report post Posted May 6, 2016 If you realize afterwards that she's on the list, you can edit your post, or even erase it. The only thing you can't modify is the title of your post. You can also report a thread that is about a lady on the DNR/DND list. There's time limits on editing posts. After a while, you can't any more. But if you use the "report post" button and ask Mod to remove it for you, I'm sure he'll do so. 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
