gongshow 110 Report post Posted April 21, 2016 This might seems like a real dumb question, I'm sorry and I'm a freakin' noob. How safe is unprotected 0ral and are they worth the risk of a STD? I really want to have one, but I'm little apprehensive. Thanks for hearing me out! Additional Comments: Sorry my question was for unprotected 0ral. God I'm a noob. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
roamingguy 300292 Report post Posted April 21, 2016 Some (not all) threads which may interest you https://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=206726 https://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=71451 https://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=34872 https://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=329 One thing to remember about safe sex. The only absolutely safe sex is masturbation. Whenever two or more people are involved intimately there is a risk (yes even in so called monogamous relations, proof, how many married people are here on Lyla yet don't tell their spouse...btw not passing judgement) Use of condoms is risk reduction, not risk elimination Hope this helps A rambling RG Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
gongshow 110 Report post Posted April 21, 2016 Thank you roaming guy! I should have been more specific to unprotected 0ral. I see people all the time asking for it. I just wanted to know if the risk is worth it. it'S sorta of fanatsy. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nicolette Vaughn 294340 Report post Posted April 22, 2016 If you are in doubt, don't do it. It's as simple as that because wandering thoughts of "what if" will get the best of you. Not directed at the OP but also wanted to add that a client's health is THEIR responsibility. I've heard or read many situations on boards where someone participates in something like this and then gets paranoid thinking they have an STD.. They want the SP to reassure them nothing is wrong. If a person takes that risk and there happens to be negative consequences, they have to deal with that. Not the SP. Ladies have enough to deal with already so imo, if you want to keep safe, cover it up. Just don't ask the ladies after how often they get tested if you decide to do something you will regret afterwards. This is very insulting and puts it on them which isn't fair at all. 3 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
BrookeBurns 120 Report post Posted April 22, 2016 Some good information http://www.sfcityclinic.org/stdbasics/stdchart.asp 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
vir2 120 Report post Posted April 22, 2016 http://smartsexresource.com/about-stis/know-your-chances-0 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
gongshow 110 Report post Posted April 22, 2016 Thank you for the info, I'll be diligent to be as respectful as possible! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites