Why I Love my Job...Lol!

[Guest ATasteOfEve]

Sounds familiar!!

[Nicolette Vaughn 294340]

Ah, wot (waste of timer) infinity.. Lol. Dont let them get you down. As soon as they sound too eager and agreeing with pretty much everything, my wot radar goes up. It's as though you just know..

[BrettonWoods 4365]

Some members of my gender (male) constantly embarrass me with their ignorance and disrespect. I hope it is some comfort to you that many of us do know how to behave like a gentleman.

[ChloeSummers 8409]

I feel really badly for these people. Sure, they are being annoying and they are not fun to deal with....

 

But when I think of their lives, and how they need to fill the time, I just feel.. sad. How meaningless and empty must your time be to go out of your way to harass someone at work? I get the feeling they are really lonely, and constantly feel weak and powerless, so they need to target escorts.

 

Still, we ladies are working together to mitigate this b.s. and it's really amazing just now many people desperately make new email accounts, make new phone numbers, pay for new phone numbers...

 

I'd suggest the time and money go towards therapy instead so they can finally make something of their ho-hum lives and work towards being happy in an otherwise grey world.

 

Best wishes to these poor boys, especially the ones 30+. There are clearly some developmental issues and unless brain damage is extensive, not everything is at a loss. They can get better and my suggestion is they try soon- it only gets harder and harder to make positive changes as you age.

 

I know a lot of you trolls lurk on here, so best wishes. Sincerely.

-Chloe.

[Guest ATasteOfEve]

To Steve McQueen: Perhaps you misunderstood my post Steve. I did NOT disappear at the appointed time. I in fact ran out to pick up some wine for us while I waited for him. He was no show.

[Guest st*****ens**ors]

Hello Eve.

 

I think Steve was responding, generally, to Chloe's post, and not specifically to yours.

 

Its fairly clear from your post that you both communicated well, and were exactly where you said you'd be in the situation you related. The guy flaked on you.

 

However Chloe suggested that such an outcome was (always/often?) the result of a disturbed individual quite deliberately wasting a provider's time in order to obtain a sense of power or base satisfaction from the simple malice of the act.

 

Steve flipped the equation on its head to test the suggestion. As someone who has had providers fail to show without a word of explanation, I think that's fair. And, like Steve, I don't attribute those lapses to deliberate malice or a desire to jerk someone around without consequence.

 

I figure they had crappy organizational skills, an emergency, a distraction, or just plain forgot. Or perhaps someone more immediately available called. It may be unprofessional, or lazy, or incompetent, or an accidental lapse, and it will likely dissuade me from booking them again.

 

However, to conclude the action was considered, deliberate and malicious is a bit paranoid. At least it seems so to me.

 

Nasty and spiteful are rare. Blunders and lack of consideration are common. When in doubt I try to assume the latter.

[Guest ATasteOfEve]

To StillOpensDoors: Oh...Not sure how my original post got off track. Lol! I was talking about one particular guy who jerked me around. I don`t claim to know his emotional status...I just know he pissed me off and typically you get this kind of crap from guys with American area codes who may or may not even be in Ottawa and just trolling the internet as Chloe suggested. Thanks :)

[Guest *Ste***cque**]

Stillopensdoors is correct, Eve. I was responding to Chloe's post. I think Chloe's frustration with timewasters may have gotten the better of her that day and it came out in her post. From reading Chloe's previous posts she doesn't strike me as being as cynical as this post alluded. Many of us tend to exaggerate to make a point, I know I do occasionally. My wife may argue it's more frequent. :)

 

All is good.

[ChloeSummers 8409]

Hello :)

 

I get where you're coming from. However, I was referring to specific kinds of cancellations.

 

Yes, at times clients indeed get caught up in life; those clients often apologize and have valid reasons e.t.c. That's life. It happens with Sp's, myself included too.

 

I was not talking about that. I was talking about the clients who go out of their way to harass ladies in general, which happens frequently.

 

I felt as though the content of my comment made that clear, as I did specifically mention those who re-created emails and phone numbers to fake book and harass Sp's.

 

I do see how I made an error though. I expressed my distaste for this behaviour on a thread with another ladies problem with a potential client. Perhaps that was not the best thing to do, and I can see how it looked like I was lashing at clients for cancelling. That was not my intention and I apologize if people felt I was doing so.

 

I hope this clarifies things. And yes, I do firmly believe that if you harass someone at work and constantly go out of your way to create fake numbers and emails, especially over the age of 20 you do have emotional or developmental problems that should be sorted out. I have a hard time seeing otherwise, but I am open to a different perception on the issue.

 

Respectfully,

-Chloe.

 

Additional Comments:

Hello Eve.

However, to conclude the action was considered, deliberate and malicious is a bit paranoid. At least it seems so to me.

 

Nasty and spiteful are rare. Blunders and lack of consideration are common. When in doubt I try to assume the latter.

 

Darlings, my comment (and I should have specified) was a shot at people on here who we know deliberately fake book ladies and pull no-shows. We often find this through solidarity on the SP's only board.

We SP's are smart. Many of us a very educated, and for those who are not educated at a post-secondary level, have incredible street-smarts, interpersonal skills, and great experience in this industry.

We are not 'dumb whores' we notice things.

 

Regarding an Sp bailing on a client, there can be all sorts of reasons for not meeting up with a client. You can't generalize. Those reasons are the same for a serious client.

 

A repeat WOT, fake booker, and harasser does not fall into the same category.

 

Best wishes,

-Chloe.

[Guest st*****ens**ors]

Thank you for such a thoughtful and eloquent response, Chloe.

[Guest *Ste***cque**]

Hello :)

 

I get where you're coming from. However, I was referring to specific kinds of cancellations.

 

Yes, at times clients indeed get caught up in life; those clients often apologize and have valid reasons e.t.c. That's life. It happens with Sp's, myself included too.

 

I was not talking about that. I was talking about the clients who go out of their way to harass ladies in general, which happens frequently.

 

I felt as though the content of my comment made that clear, as I did specifically mention those who re-created emails and phone numbers to fake book and harass Sp's.

 

I do see how I made an error though. I expressed my distaste for this behaviour on a thread with another ladies problem with a potential client. Perhaps that was not the best thing to do, and I can see how it looked like I was lashing at clients for cancelling. That was not my intention and I apologize if people felt I was doing so.

 

I hope this clarifies things. And yes, I do firmly believe that if you harass someone at work and constantly go out of your way to create fake numbers and emails, especially over the age of 20 you do have emotional or developmental problems that should be sorted out. I have a hard time seeing otherwise, but I am open to a different perception on the issue.

 

Respectfully,

-Chloe.

 

Additional Comments:

 

 

Darlings, my comment (and I should have specified) was a shot at people on here who we know deliberately fake book ladies and pull no-shows. We often find this through solidarity on the SP's only board.

We SP's are smart. Many of us a very educated, and for those who are not educated at a post-secondary level, have incredible street-smarts, interpersonal skills, and great experience in this industry.

We are not 'dumb whores' we notice things.

 

Regarding an Sp bailing on a client, there can be all sorts of reasons for not meeting up with a client. You can't generalize. Those reasons are the same for a serious client.

 

A repeat WOT, fake booker, and harasser does not fall into the same category.

 

Best wishes,

-Chloe.

 

 

Chloe, I appreciate you admitting you were wrong and apologizing :). Beauty, brains and can admit when she's wrong. Total package girl!. Btw, is it just me or am I sensing a possible connection between us? :) Have a great day, Chloe!

 

Steve

[ChloeSummers 8409]

I do enjoy someone who can dish out the sass just as well as I can ;).

 

Take care, and I forgive your misunderstanding as well :P. Glad things turned out amicably.

Best wishes,

-Chloe.

[Guest ATasteOfEve]

Chloe, I'm sorry for putting you in the hot seat (Although it's refreshing when it doesn't happen to me. Lol!)

 

As an SP, I understood exactly where you were coming from and what segment of the pooner market you were talking about. My mistake was posting my thread in the wrong section. Should have been in the SP Only area :)

[Nicolette Vaughn 294340]

For those over the age of 20 who go out of their way to waste a lady's time, I just pity them and let them go. Then I block their a$$ forever. They do not have permission to attack my personal energy and they are emotional vampires.

 

Those weird area codes, I don't even bother with. It screams deception and wottyness. I don't go to hotels so an American coming to see me for in hosting is very rare. In my personal experience, those area codes are all texting apps and while there are exceptions, they are few and far between. I go with my gut instinct with those numbers.