bachelor parties

[Wpgassmaster 140]

So..i've been asked by some boys coming in from all over...and since i live in winnipeg where it is..the fricken knew to pick me in giving a recommendation. They dont want to all come in, and the night of the event start looking around, or creeping online to find the default who ever is available. So lol ..i said..sure i will make sure to find the right SP. Its a group of prob 20 or maybe 25..who are DB's and ive given the heads up to them that they all pay and tip well..and ultimately respect the SP..It would prob be an after club ..3 am to ..probably morning kinda of thing. So. firstly SP's if you are out there...DO NOT like play some kind of math thing....Hrs..x clients..x..certain services...and have 3 watches on so you never lose track of time. BTW..90 % of ads say...no rush service, and 90% are rushed service. lol. SO know you would be very healthily rewarded for effort. Im thinking prob a SP with experience ..so n oone under 25 unless she a stand out. ..and of course safe..and that would be returned..but also willing to do all the scenerios....let me know!!!

[Meaghan McLeod 179664]

Thats a tall order. A group of 20-25 guys, in the middle of the night. Hmm...

 

I've arranged many group sessions. Typically it is easier if there is more then one SP. I don't know a single lady out there that would be willing to go into a room with 20-25 men. The risks are too high - so if you do get someone willing to do this, she is going to ensure she has her own security to keep her safe.

 

As for the costs - I would typically have 1 girl per 2 guys - it keeps the ratios easy. The typical 2 hour session is the equivalent to a 1 hour duo. So its a great deal for the guys, and the girls feel it is worth it for them as well. So not sure what you feel is an appropriate amount (you are alluding that you will pay well, but don't want someone overcharging). This is an extreme speciality, that not everyone provides.

 

Good luck!

[fresh 8278]

Funny how everyone has different lines. Although I see providers. I would find a bachelor party with all that to be a bit odd. To share all that with so many people. I have booked strippers for bachelor parties and it's always been great. But for the party to go to that kind of level with so many people there just seems strange to me. Not judging I just have a hard time imagining it. And I also think that situation would seem a lot more difficult for the provider to feel safe.

But ecery individual and group is different I guess.

[Guest S****r]

Any girl or girls in that situation will expect you to pay her own security team and to pay them well.

[cinelli 22184]

25 rowdy and drunk guys and one girl.

And the girl has to be a non clock watcher and provide outstanding service.

Sounds like a recipe for disaster.

As a former driver this is the last place a girl would want to be.

[Guest st*****ens**ors]

There have been a number of posts on the board recently, some very eloquent, on the topic of consent.

 

At a bachelor party, a stripper is paid to provide a show, and tease, and though she may provide more, the setup makes it clear that the discretion to do so is hers at the outset. Hopefully. With an sp, paid "not to be a clock-watcher", with 25 guys, the question of her consent becomes critical.

 

I agree with previous posters that you should expect to pay for security for an sp who agrees to provide what you describe.

[fresh 8278]

Wouldn't most guys feel a bit odd attending a bachelor party where escort type services are provided?

Stripped are somewhat more socially accepted and if you are in a large group of peers then someone has a big mouth and it's going to get talked about.

People are going to understand guys hiring a stripper for a bachelor party. It is going to be viewed more socially incorrect for escort type services

Maybe some have a more relaxed peer group than I do.

[Guest S****r]

 

Additional Comments:

Well and a question to the SP's - on the safety concerns, especially if you are independent. Going to an upscale hotel suite..even if there were 20 guys (some of which are fathers, brothers, sons..and would never let anything happen to any female) I would think this a lot safer or worrisome than going to an out call of a lone male at 3 am on a dark street for the first time. But ..what do i know i am not a SP.

 

No, you are incorrect. Unfortunately, there is the very-real phenomenon of

Mob Mentality

 

Other factors come into play when the term "mob mentality" is used to refer to something negative. Two of the main factors are the greater anonymity that exists within a group and the distribution of responsibility for the group's actions. These factors sometimes make a person believe that they can act a certain way within a group and not have the same consequences that the same actions would have if he or she acted alone. For example, if a person is in a group that is vandalizing a building, he or she might believe that there is less of a chance of getting caught than if he or she was acting alone, because it might be difficult to identify every person who was involved. He or she might also feel less guilt because other people also vandalized the property.

 

Plus: Every single man who ever raped someone was a father, brother or son of someone.

[hotwinnipeg 555]

cmon guys we have all been to these kinda things.

 

I have a suspicion your experience may not be everyone else's. Personally, I've never been to anything remotely like what you're describing.

[Talia Ciarra 3360]

Perhaps a strip club might be a better place to have a bachelor party for a large group of men like this, then if they meet a lady that their interested in they can have fun else where.

[wolfkat 838]

This is just my 2 cents.... I don't think there are too many reputable SP's on here that would provide an experience that you have described.

 

As suggested maybe a private room at one of the strip clubs is more in line for what you are looking for.

[fresh 8278]

I have hired strippers that I know for bachelor parties at houses before going out to the strip bar. I was happy three times when I knew one and she did a Duo with another. They felt safe because they knew me and they were in a pair. My friend doesn't donprivate shows like that because her boyfriend did not like it So I hired another one for a show. She was a no show.

Booking through the agency ensures girl will show up. But you can't be assured of quality. They sometimes send girls that you rather keep their clothes on from what I here

If you have an in with a reliable stripper I would go with that. If you don't maybe make a reservation at the club.

I have heard trips to the states can be fun with some of the strip clubs down there but I have not been myself

 

Additional Comments:

More on the subject of loose lips and being tight with buds

This past year I had some bad experience with people who I did and still feel are very good friends

I advised some friends that they should take up this hobby and told them about some of my good experiences

Basically my advice to one was that after his second divorce and a string of girlfriends maybe he would find it less stressful to go see an escort

I really would have thought it would have been understood to keep my hobby quite but then he opened his mouth about it in front of some others who are less close friends and business clients of mine

I couldn't beleive it

I learned my lesson to not open up except in these anonymous forums

But if it is comfortable amongst your group then go for it

But since it caused a marriage not to happen obviously it does impact things.

Personally I would keep to strippers for bachelor parties and keep escortd for very small special groups

But again to each their own

[Guest S****r]

 

Additional Comments:

More on the subject of loose lips and being tight with buds

This past year I had some bad experience with people who I did and still feel are very good friends

I advised some friends that they should take up this hobby and told them about some of my good experiences

Basically my advice to one was that after his second divorce and a string of girlfriends maybe he would find it less stressful to go see an escort

I really would have thought it would have been understood to keep my hobby quite but then he opened his mouth about it in front of some others who are less close friends and business clients of mine

I couldn't beleive it

I learned my lesson to not open up except in these anonymous forums

But if it is comfortable amongst your group then go for it

But since it caused a marriage not to happen obviously it does impact things.

Personally I would keep to strippers for bachelor parties and keep escortd for very small special groups

But again to each their own

 

That's really awful. I hope you let him know how inappropriate that was. That's awful