halifaxguy1984 217 Report post Posted July 3, 2013 This thread seems to go on forever, and I've read most of it. A lot of great information and great points. I'm still very new to this (thus the new member status after three years - go me), but I thought most of us men got out of the jackhammer phase when we were teenagers/early 20s. I'm of the same mindset as many people who have posted here - the most fun is in the warmup! Appreciating and exploring, now that's creating one hell of a memorable experience. Pounding away for 55-60 minutes seems like a waste of a beautiful lady's time, body, and patience. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
VanessaGold2 100 Report post Posted July 4, 2013 So true! How can any one enjoy being jack hammered Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
meow-x 160 Report post Posted July 8, 2013 I love giving more than receiving, One of my biggest turn ons. And I sure do love sucking on balls. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Robby Dobby 120 Report post Posted July 12, 2013 Sex is not penatration for me. I've had ED for the past 20 years. The day Viagra was introduced, I thought I'd died and gone to heaven. No such luck... None of those drugs did anything for me. That doesn't mean I don't enjoy a damn good sex life. I have the ability to be stimulated... Generally orally... To a climax. I please my partner with kisses, massage, gentsl touching, digital stimulation, with adult toys, and of course orally. 99 times out of a hundred, she climaxes with oral stimulation. 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
vegas78 220 Report post Posted July 16, 2013 Well I am a newbie to this community and have never been with an SP but have my first encounter booked in a week with a very respected lady from this site and this thread was very helpful in trying to understand what is expected. I could not possibly imagine having an encounter where there is not mutual satisfaction because I know my biggest turn on is pleasuring a woman. There is no greater arousal then knowing the woman is turned on, aroused, pleased and climaxing ... that's what it's all about for me. If I know she is pleased, I am pleased and I'm sure I will enjoy the encounter. 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
meow-x 160 Report post Posted August 2, 2013 I just love this thread, I've read every post and everyone has had some good points. And for the posts about not lasting that long, I've been with clients that lasted only a few minutes, but then we would cuddle, talk, some foreplay, then have another round so on. Thank you for this great thread. 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
travlr6487 110 Report post Posted August 11, 2013 I'm in much the same place as Vegas ... haven't been with a SP but definitely scheduling an appointment when I visit Windsor in a couple weeks. Thank you so much Meow for your post, I hope I can find a provider like you in that area; like so many guys have posted, I have a pretty quick trigger but that doesn't have to be the end of the encounter. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
missclassysexslave 419 Report post Posted August 12, 2013 I think men sometimes forget that paid or not paid..we are still women. I strongly believe that we should still be treated as such..as we look at this as a job and not a life style. Thank you for writing this I loved reading it lol 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
spiderweb 100 Report post Posted August 13, 2013 Hi there, just wanted to say that Madison is an awesome lady and lots of fun to be with. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
The Duke 114 Report post Posted August 22, 2013 Thank all for the interesting insights. Just be respectful goes both ways Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
astakask 100 Report post Posted August 28, 2013 Good to know Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
chrisleagues 100 Report post Posted August 30, 2013 Interesting, good to know that perspective. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
winnipgeee 100 Report post Posted September 1, 2013 good to know. thanks Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest R**ee**ov***9 Report post Posted September 13, 2013 (edited) Personally I'm not too picky.. I enjoy both the hard pounding and the slow heart warming ride.. Although I do have my favourite position which is the best way to make me moan.. With the right rhythm and the right speed any position can be perfect!! A lot of men don't know this.. But the way a woman gets off is mainly from hitting the g spot or playing with her clit.. Many women cannot get off otherwise.. You can likely get her going, but squirting is almost impossible! Personally Greek is not on the menu.. Four play/after play is always lovely.. As well as cuddling.. But I want to do what you want to do.. I will however tell you how I like it or if you could do something to make my experience better.. But I want you to tell me the same.. Ladies.. You must also realize that every man is different.. While some making like a bj to be slow and soft others may want it to be fast and some as hard to request you to drag your teeth.. A big thing is to ask questions.. I never rush into the "deed".. Or out.. If their not happy.. I'm not happy.. But of course I expect a gentleman.. There is nothing wrong with mildly rough sex.. But politeness is key.. We aren't expecting to entertain a (not quite sure if I should say) "pig".. Boys.. To get the best experience you desire.. You must earn it.. The ladies will provide you with what they think you deserve.. PS: We can refuse a second date just as easily as you can refrain from calling us again.. We expect respect.. If you want the best service you can imagine.. Be the best customer you can possibly be.. Take care!! <3 xoxoxox Edited September 13, 2013 by R**ee**ov***9 Spelling correction Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kidasuka 100 Report post Posted September 21, 2013 Completed Agree Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
notreallyme 100 Report post Posted September 27, 2013 This thread was perfect for a first timer to read. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
katie 1337 Report post Posted September 28, 2013 I agree ! In every one of my sessions,I always do foreplay..that is one of the best parts..OMG ! That's is what gets both up and going,ready for the next step!:bigclap: Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
teddybear1 100 Report post Posted September 28, 2013 I totally agree with you on this one. It is way more fun to explore the woman first and get her excited and, like you said, penetrative sex doesn't last long for me, so I like to do everything else first. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
andrewbs 100 Report post Posted September 28, 2013 very true :) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
YoungBeautyMirella 5600 Report post Posted September 28, 2013 Dude, seriously...just fucking do it. Who can you trust? Everyone. All the ladies who advertise here and have review threads are absolutely trustworthy as far as your needs are concerned. You're not giving them your bank account or SIN number or first born child for fucks sake. Shave your nuts, wash your ass, head to the ATM and have at it. Don't be a pussy. I think I love you. Hahahaha Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Jetty 100 Report post Posted October 4, 2013 I will be a first timer sometime in the near future, hopefully. This has been a great thread to read. A loveless, lifeless and sexless mistake of a relationship have done nothing good for my confidence, even if paying for attention, but knowing that just being a gentleman and not an ass does wonders does help. Now to find someone who is newbie friendly. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
perchie15 120 Report post Posted October 11, 2013 well im in the middle here, if i find the girl really attractive yeah ill take my time with her, i like kissing the female body/nibbling and such.. if they smell good/and seem clean.... but i have only seen 2escorts, and maybe 8 Massage ladies, the massage ladies well they all seem to scam me as i payed for 45min or w.e and me being some what quick i guess lol, within 20mins they were kicking me out the door!!! so i didnt get to to be touchy touchy or w.e.. but i suppose massage ladys have more of a restriction? ones ive been with anyways... but the escorts i had, stayed with me for the full hour, but i guess its a bit different maybe compare to massage? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
zoomy 100 Report post Posted October 22, 2013 This is great for noobs! Thx! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
xcross 100 Report post Posted October 23, 2013 Definitely some interesting pov's. Gives something to think about Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
philips1 110 Report post Posted October 31, 2013 That's good advice. I think everyone should keep that in mind. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
