newbie09876 795 Report post Posted November 1, 2013 perchie15 ... you should try Clubcmj ... you will not be disappointed or rushed out the door. Caution though the ladies there are very very very addictive . Ooops just figured out that you are in Alberta not Ottawa ... oh well .. guess CMJ is not in the works for you unless you visit O Town ... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Dog0fWar 110 Report post Posted November 1, 2013 Great post we need more of them cheers! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Kufaw 120 Report post Posted November 9, 2013 Im glad to hear that, I tend to do the bf behaviour and always wondered if that was a waste of time for them and they just wanted to do the chore and get out. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
tiger25 110 Report post Posted November 12, 2013 Hey Tater, I agree with your comment about slow down the process of de-clothing. Some of my hottest experiences were at the beginning of the encounter when all cloths were still on. I think it is the slow build up to what's coming that makes it more enjoyable... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
bee3083 100 Report post Posted December 28, 2013 We just like to Get right down to it ;) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
shaved 3174 Report post Posted January 24, 2014 This is a great thread. Here is my outlook on the topic. When I book with a Lady I always book 90 or 120. Well I am older so I'm never in a hurry. I believe in enjoying the Lady I'm with and pleasuring the Lady. When I enter her hotel apartment I introduce myself if I have meet the Lady before. Then I will give her a soft kiss on the check and a gentle hug. The Lady usually always offers a beverage or water which I usually take water. Then I like to talk for awhile and admire her in whatever she maybe be wearing. Then I will lean over and kiss her on the lips on the neck earlobes. As we warm up I usually kiss her shoulders slid my finger tips up and down her back to massage her then I work my way to her breasts and kiss and lick her nipples softly. Then at that point clothes usually drop. Off to the bed we go. I always spend the majority of my time pleasuring the Lady. I love when a Lady makes the sounds that lets me know she is enjoying what I am doing. And I am always open to suggestions. I LOVE DATY I could do it forever, but I know that is not all she wants. I kiss her I caress her breasts softly and massage her back and her BUM and legs every inch of her glorious body. And on and on. The way I look at it is it's not all about me. I enjoy it when the Lady is enjoying herself I know I will I can wait. When I do insert I do it gentle and slowly. I take my time. I will pull out and go back slowly again. In the BIG picture I love it when the Lady enjoyed herself. I guess that comes with age. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Razer 110 Report post Posted January 26, 2014 This is exactly the kind of information I was looking for when I came to the site, thanks. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest c**io**m7 Report post Posted January 26, 2014 I, for one, prefer the slow and sensual approach...it prolongs the entire experience. Lots of kissing, caressing and exploration of each other...and slow oral...lots of slow, sexy oral. If I just jump in and "jack-hammer", I am finished in record time and usually don't enjoy it much. There are times when both can be instantly hot and a quick, hard, fast session can have merit but...sex, for me, is about the full experience of two naked bodies together. Take the time, learn what makes her twitch, show her what blows you away. Use your time with her to the fullest. I am reminded of a line from a movie, title escapes me, sex is like a dinner of Chinese food, it ain't over until you both get a fortune cookie. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Cowboy kenny 50799 Report post Posted January 27, 2014 Outside Providence http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0125971/?ref_=ttqt_qt_tt I am reminded of a line from a movie, title escapes me, sex is like a dinner of Chinese food, it ain't over until you both get a fortune cookie. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SG791979 100 Report post Posted February 5, 2014 I was previously a MP with ending, and as a male provider I found female and male clients all achieved a more resounding climax after even just a 20-30 minute clothed massage. Women were more resilient and took a lot of exertion the more gently you start.... and men very often didn't need more than me pouring a light trickle of massage oil down their thigh before they were finished. Now I'm a hobbyist and when I pay for services, the need for actual penetration is far lessened when I've had a chance to worship the Sex Goddess' body and practice a full body massage and be able to learn what she likes... I found a few SPs that have appreciated the spa work and haven't charged me for the massage time because they've found me more relaxed when I've already put my entire body into it. So yes, unless you've requested something rough, please be gentle to your SP, and they will make it a very special time, and enjoy your company as much as you do theirs. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SG791979 100 Report post Posted February 5, 2014 I live on PEI, and what she had said is a very common mentality for everything here, not just girls. I've found it very difficult to find interesting companions, but there are some. And I find the mentality they have here (not just SPs, but girls in general) is that they are more likely to put up with that sort of abuse. We need some strong willed women that won't take shit from the assholes here, working or not working, Grow some ovaries or grow old and have power surges! whatever it takes, learn to tame your men properly, or they start thinking for themselves and that's not good. We get into mischief if we think for ourselves.... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
fxcaliber0 130 Report post Posted February 9, 2014 thanks for the info Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
peacectryguy 12547 Report post Posted May 9, 2014 It seems as though a lot of men watch way too much porn and don't understand that that is not what most women like or want. I think it takes some maturity to really understand the nuances of a good sexual experience. Honestly, if I'm not giving my partner a good sexual experience, I find that my own experience is unsatisfactory as well. Extended foreplay including soft caressing, kissing various parts of the body,(there are more places than just the breasts and genitals that turn women on, too), nibbling( understand the softer touch here), and complimenting and showing the "lady" appreciation are all turn-ons that can be mutually beneficial, imo. I also find that when it gets to the point of penetration, very rarely does it really last as long as most men think it does. Sometimes second time around or even third time, there is more stamina, it seems which is why I often book longer sessions. Of course, there have been lots of times that the longer session has turned into one good love-making session and a lot of cuddling and conversation.Nothing wrong with that either. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
nik11 754 Report post Posted August 25, 2014 I find a good conversation and a massage and or light touching those add to the sexual experience, and if it goes fast then so what, as long as you enjoy it its all good Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
nutjobmouse 100 Report post Posted August 25, 2014 Oh mi goodness! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
nutjobmouse 100 Report post Posted September 1, 2014 Awesome thanks for the info Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ava Adore 176 Report post Posted September 3, 2014 Everyone should have respect and feel comfortable! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Kdiddy 100 Report post Posted November 16, 2014 Good advice from back in 2010 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Kyon 200 Report post Posted November 16, 2014 Yeeeeaaaah kissing, groping, and nibbling....if she offers .... Otherwise, it's penetration all the way, what else can you do? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
roamingguy 300292 Report post Posted November 16, 2014 No such thing now...we are all law abiding citizens Thanks to MacKay,Harper and the CPC sex for money has been eradicated from Canada...well except for marriage LOL It just doesn't exist anymore RG Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Alfarovan 100 Report post Posted November 16, 2014 This has been very helpful. Thank you all! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
