JohnDoe-000 130 Report post Posted November 1, 2016 I'm curious to know what everyone thinks about this. Which do you prefer and why? A) Hobbying or, B) Hooking up with someone *For discussion sake, this question is for both SP's and MA's, unless of course you prefer one from the other. In which case, please let us know why. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Beldivok 224 Report post Posted November 1, 2016 B) Hooking up with someone is my preference. I'd rather experience a girl who is interested in me in some way other than money. Dropping money is only for when you don't have time for the game. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
canadiandude201 1010 Report post Posted November 2, 2016 For me it is not keep close, hooking up, but I'm not very good at it. So I do what I have to. but if someone told me how to play the game I'd rather do that. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
daredevil8888 407 Report post Posted November 2, 2016 I have been hobbying for a while with strippers mostly but I have also tried various massage parlors and a couple escorts. I have some long term (around 5 years) CR (not outside the club) relationships with a few dancers in the city. While they are good, lately I have been wondering if a hook up might be more fulfilling. Either way money is going to be spent. Pros for dancers 1 After 1 or 2 songs you have a good idea about the dancer (to get to this level a fair amount of money/experience is required, or you can be direct, but that takes away the fun in my book) 2 the game is finite (a bit of small talk, money exchanged for a service ����) 3 usually no drama, my long term cr mates always greet me with a smile and make me feel like they missed me. if there is drama just stay away from that dancer 4 you can have more than 1 and sometimes 2 at the same time with no jealousy works best if the dancers are friends 5 cleanliness- similar to 1 you can tell pretty quick if a dancer is dirty and you should stay away. The major con for me with dancers lack of privacy. there are options like take out but that is usually much more expensive than an escort or ma. If I could if a bar/massage parlor where I could meet the attendants before going for the massage it would be the best of both worlds. I haven't been to the brass club yet but want to try it soon. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
golfer1948 244 Report post Posted November 2, 2016 Both can be loads of fun and very satisfying. Hobbying is more expensive - usually, but Hookups can be dangerous in terms of an emotional attachment taking hold on either party. However, if you don't have a SO then hookups are probably the way to go. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Hukupp 1651 Report post Posted November 2, 2016 Hooking up can be a hobby ;) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
bobm22 140 Report post Posted November 2, 2016 Never had much success hooking up, so I would have to say hobbying, even tough I'm starting. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites