Hobbying or Hooking up?

[JohnDoe-000 130]

I'm curious to know what everyone thinks about this.

 

Which do you prefer and why?

 

A) Hobbying or,

B) Hooking up with someone

 

*For discussion sake, this question is for both SP's and MA's, unless of course you prefer one from the other. In which case, please let us know why.

[Beldivok 224]

B) Hooking up with someone is my preference.

I'd rather experience a girl who is interested in me in some way other than money.

 

Dropping money is only for when you don't have time for the game.

[canadiandude201 1010]

For me it is not keep close, hooking up, but I'm not very good at it. So I do what I have to. but if someone told me how to play the game I'd rather do that.

[daredevil8888 407]

I have been hobbying for a while with strippers mostly but I have also tried various massage parlors and a couple escorts. I have some long term (around 5 years) CR (not outside the club) relationships with a few dancers in the city. While they are good, lately I have been wondering if a hook up might be more fulfilling. Either way money is going to be spent.

 

Pros for dancers

1 After 1 or 2 songs you have a good idea about the dancer (to get to this level a fair amount of money/experience is required, or you can be direct, but that takes away the fun in my book)

2 the game is finite (a bit of small talk, money exchanged for a service ����)

3 usually no drama, my long term cr mates always greet me with a smile and make me feel like they missed me. if there is drama just stay away from that dancer

4 you can have more than 1 and sometimes 2 at the same time with no jealousy works best if the dancers are friends

5 cleanliness- similar to 1 you can tell pretty quick if a dancer is dirty and you should stay away.

 

The major con for me with dancers lack of privacy. there are options like take out but that is usually much more expensive than an escort or ma.

 

If I could if a bar/massage parlor where I could meet the attendants before going for the massage it would be the best of both worlds. I haven't been to the brass club yet but want to try it soon.

[golfer1948 244]

Both can be loads of fun and very satisfying. Hobbying is more expensive - usually, but Hookups can be dangerous in terms of an emotional attachment taking hold on either party. However, if you don't have a SO then hookups are probably the way to go.

[Hukupp 1651]

Hooking up can be a hobby ;)

[bobm22 140]

Never had much success hooking up, so I would have to say hobbying, even tough I'm starting.