Ask Service Providers Question Thread

[Origin 268]

Many of us have questions that we wish to have answered by SPs and MPAs, to make us better clients and to understand you and the buisness more.

 

I was wondering if any SPs or MPAs would be willing to answer those questions possed by members here. The more the better.

 

Thank you for your help.

 

 

1) What do you feel is the best part about being an Service provider?

[Guest W***ledi*Time]

...What do you feel is the best part about being an Service provider?

 

Yes, the great part about Cerb is the participation of the ladies. There are hundreds of threads where the ladies have taken the time to answer our thoughts and questions.

 

While awaiting fresh input on this particular topic (I love positive topics!), here is Annessa's "Things that make us ladies LOVE our jobs! " thread from last summer, alias "Chicken Soup for the SP":

 

http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=12396

[Origin 268]

Cerb Women are the best.

 

How about these:

 

1) What are you' biggest fear as escorts. Getting old? not enough clients, privacy issues?

 

2)What races do you prefer if any and why?

 

3) What percentage of clients are people you think you would be interested in knowing (in a non-romantic sense) in the real world, if you didn't already know them as clients?

 

4) What's the funkiest place that a client has wanted to have sex with you?

 

5) Does size matter? I mean really? Is bigger better?

 

EDIT: I am so, sorry. These a questions that have come up amongst to populus. I did not mean any disrespect. I have learned my lesson.

I was also trying to give examples to start the thread.

The ladies are all wonderful.

[Jolie 3396]

I am all for encouraging questions and getting to know the gals,however that being said, I am not entirely sure how appropriate some of those questions are for this board. It may just be me but I am a rather funny about some things. I am an escort I offer a great quality service, the word hooker makes me cringe and think of street walkers *shrug* again just my opinion. As for some topics to avoid I would say race and religion are two :)

1) Biggest fear is not succeeding in accomplishing my goal (dogs surgery),though the other biggest fear is actually violence. You can pick which works for the question you had in mind.

2)I don't agree with this question since it would put some people far out on a limb, My motto however is this "doesnt matter where you come from,you give me respect and I will return it in tenfold.

3)I hope to get to know all the people I meet on some friendship level otherwise this is one very cold world.

4)N/A

5)How does the old saying go, it's not the size of the toy that matters it's all in how you use it. Or something like that ;)

 

I hope I don't come off as to snobby I am not very good at getting accross what I mean over the net.

[stevecurious 42059]

Cerb Women are the best.

 

How about these:

 

1) What are hookers' biggest fear. Getting old? not enough clients, privacy issues?

 

2)What races do you prefer if any and why?

 

3) What percentage of clients are people you think you would be interested in knowing (in a non-romantic sense) in the real world, if you didn't already know them as clients?

 

4) What's the funkiest place that a client has wanted to have sex with you?

 

5) Does size matter? I mean really? Is bigger better?

 

I am not sure if there are any ladies on this board who would answer these particular questions as they seem to be of questionable content. Perhaps they, the questions, should be changed. Sooner than later would seem to be in order!

[Ava Foxx 1747]

Many of us have questions that we wish to have answered by SPs and MPAs, to make us better clients and to understand you and the buisness more.

 

Thank you for your help.

 

 

1) What do you feel is the best part about being an Service provider?

 

You could start by not referring to us as hookers. I realize that this business is what is (prostitution), but I think we are above being called hookers.

[Cleo Catra 178382]

I am all for encouraging questions and getting to know the gals,however that being said, I am not entirely sure how appropriate some of those questions are for this board. It may just be me but I am a rather funny about some things. I am an escort I offer a great quality service, the word hooker makes me cringe and think of street walkers *shrug* again just my opinion. As for some topics to avoid I would say race and religion are two :)

 

 

Totally agreed!!! Well said :)

[roamingguy 300292]

You could start by not referring to us as hookers. I realize that this business is what is (prostitution), but I think we are above being called hookers.

 

I must agree, don't use the term hooker (or for that matter prostitute)

I think using the term lady (ladies) or service providers is more appropriate and respectful, just in the same way us hobbiests don't want to be called johns.

Mutual respect, treating others as you would like to be treated goes a long way.

Just some thoughts

RG

[Guest Ou**or**n]

You could start by not referring to us as hookers. I realize that this business is what is (prostitution), but I think we are above being called hookers.

 

Did I miss something? I don't see this term in either the OP's initial post or in your quote of his.

 

Perhaps you are thinking of the wildly popular 'Ask a hooker' thread on the T board. I think this board could use a dose of fun and lightening up. For those ladies that don't feel comfortable about answering a question then don't answer. I don't think its necessary to get down on someone for asking.

[Ava Foxx 1747]

Did I miss something? I don't see this term in either the OP's initial post or in your quote of his.

 

Perhaps you are thinking of the wildly popular 'Ask a hooker' thread on the T board. I think this board could use a dose of fun and lightening up. For those ladies that don't feel comfortable about answering a question then don't answer. I don't think its necessary to get down on someone for asking.

 

The OP used the term in his second post in this thread (third post in entire thread).

 

Cerb Women are the best.

 

How about these:

 

1) What are hookers' biggest fear. Getting old? not enough clients, privacy issues?

 

2)What races do you prefer if any and why?

 

3) What percentage of clients are people you think you would be interested in knowing (in a non-romantic sense) in the real world, if you didn't already know them as clients?

 

4) What's the funkiest place that a client has wanted to have sex with you?

 

5) Does size matter? I mean really? Is bigger better?

[roamingguy 300292]

Did I miss something? I don't see this term in either the OP's initial post or in your quote of his.

 

 

Question 1 copied/pasted 1) What are hookers' biggest fear. Getting old? not enough clients, privacy issues?

 

And as the thread started, its purpose (copied/pasted)

Many of us have questions that we wish to have answered by SPs and MPAs, to make us better clients and to understand you and the buisness more.

I don't think anyone is getting down on anyone...the intent of the thread, now a question is answered. I view this thread as learning for everyone, not a put down on an individual...we all have things to learn at one time or another

RG

[Guest C*****tte]

In the spirit of the thread and CERB I will answer some of these questions... though like others have mentioned the choice of words and some questions are not terribly considerate.

 

1) What are hookers' biggest fear. Getting old? not enough clients, privacy issues?

 

As an escort I am most concerned with time management as I try to balance all the various spheres in my life. It is not a fear, but definitely a worry. In terms of the other issues listed I take all of those issues into consideration as part of the way I run my business and run my life.

 

2)What races do you prefer if any and why?

 

Not an appropriate question.

 

3) What percentage of clients are people you think you would be interested in knowing (in a non-romantic sense) in the real world, if you didn't already know them as clients?

 

What I find interesting as an service provider is that my clients tend to be people I would never have met in my every day life (school, social settings etc...) and I enjoy this experience very much. It is very often refreshing and interesting. That being said I have very little time to socialize so when I do I tend to hang out its with long time friends and most are women and/or in the arts which is not typical of my client base which tend to be business men.

 

4) What's the funkiest place that a client has wanted to have sex with you?

 

Not an issue because I tend to meet people on an outcall basis at reputable hotels.

 

5) Does size matter? I mean really? Is bigger better?

 

As an escort penis size is not an issue unless they are very large or very small and that is only problematic because of condoms fitting properly. Additionally, size does matter when someone thinks they are a size different than what they are and insist on the wrong condom for them or activities that are not best suited to their size. I prefer to think of all the enjoyable possibilities than focus on what might not work. I find there is so much pleasure that can be had with people of all shapes and sizes.

[Guest Ou**or**n]

Ava Fox and roaminggy:

 

Thanks for pointing out the source of the use of the word hooker. My mistake for not seeing it.

 

For roamingguy:

 

My response was one made to a several of the earlier posts in the thread (I wish I had multi-quoted). I had no issue at all with your comments and apologize if it came off that I did.

 

Rather, those comments were more directed at this (emphasis mine)...

 

I am not sure if there are any ladies on this board who would answer these particular questions as they seem to be of questionable content. Perhaps they, the questions, should be changed. Sooner than later would seem to be in order!

 

I felt this could of been phrased more diplomatically as I think we all need to encourage new members to post.

 

Charlotte's post was elegant and dignified as per her usual standard and I think it proves that some of the OP's questions were legitimate.

[roamingguy 300292]

Out For Fun

No problem, and no need for apology

We're cool

RG :smile:

[Loralee Reach 245]

Cerb Women are the best.

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5) Does size matter? I mean really? Is bigger better?

...."

 

Yes, Origin, size matters, it starts with the brain.....did you really think these questions were appropriate to ask?....

:x

I may have a set for you to answer, but I already know your kind of answers after reading you.....pity:???:

But, YES, that "size matters"... sometimes it hurts, as you can perceive by the answers to your questions by the ladies....other times is invisible and can not be felt, as ........

Loralee

[harmony-bc 319]

Many of us have questions that we wish to have answered by SPs and MPAs, to make us better clients and to understand you and the buisness more.

 

I was wondering if any SPs or MPAs would be willing to answer those questions possed by members here. The more the better.

 

Thank you for your help.

 

 

1) What do you feel is the best part about being an Service provider?

The best part of being a service provider is the freedom, of choosing when to work.

 

Cerb Women are the best.

Thank you :boobies:

 

How about these:

 

1) What are hookers' biggest fear. Getting old? not enough clients, privacy issues?

Unlike other people that have commented, I don't mind the word hooker. The only word, I really don't like is ho. I take things as they come in context, and I really didn't get the impression that you were trying to offend.

 

I think getting old is a fear most women [or people in general] have, not just escorts. If you are honest, reliable, and sweet, there will always be enough clients.

 

Yes, privacy issues is a big one, because of discretion and neighbors wondering what you are doing if a client knocks on the wrong door by accident [it has happened to me, ack]

2)What races do you prefer if any and why?

I don't have a preference. I live in a multicultural city and grew up in a multicultural neighborhood. People are people. Sometimes there are cultural differences, but there are jerks in every ethnicity. Look how many white middle class serial killers there are. Racism is just wrong, ignorant, and hopefully one day will be obsolete. That said, some accents are just so mmmmm sexy.

 

3) What percentage of clients are people you think you would be interested in knowing (in a non-romantic sense) in the real world, if you didn't already know them as clients?

I prefer to keep a professional distance in my private life, but my repeat clients become friends of a sort. How can we not? Part of the experience is sharing pieces of ourselves. Its impossible to spend time with me and not get to know me. I have trouble being fake.

 

4) What's the funkiest place that a client has wanted to have sex with you?

I have never had sex with a client any place other than my place or his place, whether that be the hotel or apartment. I would be open to kinky places with a long time regular, but definitely not with someone I just met.

 

5) Does size matter? I mean really? Is bigger better?

Like someone else mentioned, size only matters if its a condom issue, or if the person has insecurities of his size. There are so many ways to have fun. Personally, I don't like really huge. It feels uncomfortable, and I worry about condom mishaps more.

[Kyra.Graves 23779]

Cerb Women are the best.

 

How about these:

 

1) What are hookers' biggest fear. Getting old? not enough clients, privacy issues?

 

2)What races do you prefer if any and why?

 

3) What percentage of clients are people you think you would be interested in knowing (in a non-romantic sense) in the real world, if you didn't already know them as clients?

 

4) What's the funkiest place that a client has wanted to have sex with you?

 

5) Does size matter? I mean really? Is bigger better?

 

When I saw this thread I too thought it was inspired by a very popular "Ask A Hooker" thread on another board, I've answered questions in that thread so I'm happy to participate in this one as well. That thread was started by the incredibly intelligent and well spoken Genevieve Lajoie who prefers the term Hooker in describing her occupation. In any event that wasn't the question asked so before I get sidetracked I'll move on to the questions at hand.

 

1. I can't answer for anyone but myself but my biggest occupational fear tend to be related to my variable costs. I have a certain number of expenses per date (eg. hotels, travel, etc.) that can vary a great deal and both anticipating those costs and managing them is not easy. This isn't an industry where you can just adjust your rate on a day to day basis, often I am scheduling weeks or months in advance and if a hotel is sold out or I have to make last minute changes to my travel plans it might be a very expensive error.

 

2. I recently became a fan of Speed Skating, I'm not sure why but there is something exciting about the long track races I like. I guess it's a mix of the athleticism, speed and competitiveness of the sport, plus I still sit in silent shock every time I see the crazy thighs on both the men and women. ;-)

 

3. I echo Charlottes sentiment here.

 

4. I'm not sure, I can't read their minds but I'm pretty sure they've had some dirty thoughts go through them based on the smiles on their faces.

 

5. Personally I find bigger can sometimes be a bit uncomfortable so no bigger is not always better. I know some men think bigger is better but I also know a lot of well endowed men that would tell you there are some serious drawbacks to it. Fortunately there are women that believe bigger is better and there are women that believe smaller is better, find the one that suits you and be happy with what you have.

[playtoe 201]

I thought I'd throw my hat into the ring on this discussion. I hope the questions are not too personal in nature. I bring the topics up because they keep coming up in my head.

 

1) As a number of the ladies travel frequently and stay in numerous cities are there any coping mechanisms that you employ when you don't have your family or friends near-by to socialize with. (I ask because I know I found it rather difficult to move away to a new city. I was at an age where I was no longer participating as a student and thus my ability to meet new people was limited to my fellow co-workers or clients. That being said, the majority of my work is done solo).

 

2) Financial security. Whereas I know each individual must take responsibility for their own financial well being, I am interested to know on average does this profession provide for a reasonable means to retire. Assuming one takes the time to invest wisely.

[Emma Alexandra 123368]

oops..sorry computer is acting weird...yikes...can't delete this so ...Happy Holidays!

[roamingguy 300292]

I'll ask a question. Do the ladies prefer incalls or outcalls

If incall, at your home/condo, or do you prefer getting a hotel

If outcall, is the preference for a hotel or the hobbiest's home

RG

[Guest C*****tte]

Kyra makes an excellent point about concerns over variable costs. This is not an issue for outcalls but if you receive clients where you are based out of or if you tour this is a big issue. You can plan all you want but when many clients cancel or reschedule it can throw your whole budget out the window. I try to give myself a cushion for when this happens but it does add stress to an often already stressful job.

 

re there any coping mechanisms that you employ when you don't have your family or friends near-by to socialize with

 

When I tour I tend to stay in as I am emotionally spent after a day of work. I fall asleep to a movie. I do try to go out once a trip and set myself down at a bar and flirt with the wait staff. I am not looking for more. I just want to be treated nicely and made to feel special. Turn the tables I suppose. I also like to treat myself to a quality diner breakfast. Basically I socialize with waiter and waitresses.

 

Financial security. Whereas I know each individual must take responsibility for their own financial well being, I am interested to know on average does this profession provide for a reasonable means to retire. Assuming one takes the time to invest wisely.

 

If I was not going to school and didn't have tuition and books to pay for then the money I make would be going to savings. I try to carry as little debt as possible and would love to earn money for savings for a home and/or retirement. Right now, everything I make is going towards school. However, I do see this as a worthwhile investment. I enjoy escorting, but I know myself every well and will want to change things up career wise at some point. My attention span works that way. In the past 15 years I have already worked in two other fields. I seem to get a 7 year itch when it comes to work.

[quick25 137]

If we could all be this smart in our economy we would not be in the trouble that we are in right now. Also I think that the term that was used before was a honest mistake, it happens. But my question for the sp's is, how did you find out that you wanted to be a sp. Like there are so many options out there how was this right for you?

 

 

If I was not going to school and didn't have tuition and books to pay for then the money I make would be going to savings. I try to carry as little debt as possible and would love to earn money for savings for a home and/or retirement. Right now, everything I make is going towards school. However, I do see this as a worthwhile investment. I enjoy escorting, but I know myself every well and will want to change things up career wise at some point. My attention span works that way. In the past 15 years I have already worked in two other fields. I seem to get a 7 year itch when it comes to work.

[Guest Ou**or**n]

To the ladies - why have you stayed in this business as long as you have?

[harmony-bc 319]

I'll ask a question. Do the ladies prefer incalls or outcalls

I like either. Its nice to go to an outcall sometimes. it breaks the routine. Most of my sessions are done at my place.

If incall, at your home/condo, or do you prefer getting a hotel

I think this question depends a lot on whether the lady has kids, a serious relationship, what province she is in, or whether she is touring. Myself, I date people sometimes, but I'm honest about my life, and I share with another working girl. Just fur babies at my house. I don't need the added expense of a separate in call.

If outcall, is the preference for a hotel or the hobbiest's home

RG

For safety reasons, I request a reference from a known service provider if at a private residence, but other than that, I'm comfortable either way.

[velaxun 100]

Being only 21 myself heres a question for you ladies, do you prefer older men or younger men?

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