Am I seeing a trend

[quick25 137]

Alright in the last little bit I have been seeing something that I am liking. I see that more sp's are offering gfe (not saying fs providers are not as good). I am just seeing this and was wondering if anyone else had noticed this too. If so to the sp's, why do you think more sp's are going this way.

[sexy bbw vero 425]

It is just me who don't understand? loll

 

What are you talking about ... FS = full service ...

GFE = girl friend experience ... wich included FS obviously

 

now would you please explain again what is the question? :?:

[Guest W***ledi*Time]

vero, I think q25 is differentiating between "just" FS, and the "GFE Experience", which is usually taken to include more intimacy than does FS -- such as kissing, cuddling, etc.

 

buggernot's thread on this subject from last year:

 

http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=9407

[Megan'sTouch 23875]

There is big business for intimacy, much more so than sex, in my opinion. Over 50% of my income from both dancing and massage has been with regulars who are looking for hugs & cuddles, conversation, and intimacy. If I were just selling a sexual release, my business would drop off like a cliff and I wouldn't expect to get much repeat business. It's the connection and intimacy that I and others offer that keeps the guys coming back.

[sexy bbw vero 425]

I understand the same as you ... but the rest of his post doesnt make sens no?

 

he said ... it is easier to start with just FS... why??? lolll

Most people prefer to start with a GFE because she will be sweet and will care about your needs ... So I don't understand why he think that just FS is easier than gfe?

[quick25 137]

I was speaking about new sp's who JUST entered the buisness. I meant would they choose full service then switch over to gfe because they had just became a sp, which giving intimac.y to a person who you do not know might be difficult(plus more in the case of gfe). I will take that out because it is a little confusing. But I meant that FS does not always include a gfe menu, with such things like kissing. I was just stating that I am seeing more of that.

[Andee 220524]

I was speaking about new sp's who JUST entered the buisness. I meant would they choose full service then switch over to gfe because they had just became a sp, which giving intimac.y to a person who you do not know might be difficult(plus more in the case of gfe). I will take that out because it is a little confusing. But I meant that FS does not always include a gfe menu, with such things like kissing. I was just stating that I am seeing more of that.

 

I see a lot more girls in the business which of course creates more competition. Remember that GFE means different things to different people. Also, be clear with the lady as to what your expectation is, or you might be disappointed.

 

I have some SP friends who are "safe GFE", which means no kissing and CBJ, but they do allow DATY.

[quick25 137]

Ya I had never been let down by a sp. I have even had a B and S. But I still enjoyed every minute with every sp I have been with.:p

[Andee 220524]

Ya I had never been let down by a sp. I have even had a B and S. But I still enjoyed every minute with every sp I have been with.:p

 

B and S? What's that?

[Annessa 22743]

B and S? What's that?

 

Bait and Switch....although I'm not sure how it relates to what we're discussing

[Capital Hunter 18263]

Yes I agree with OP. I too see a lot more GFE offerings recently compared to older days (especially in Montreal) and that (in my view) is a great thing.

 

I agree with Megan too. I never even think of repeating (or if I know beforehand even calling the lady) if GFE services (passion, hugging. cuddling, kissing) are not included. I feel unfulfilled, remain tense and frustrated for the rest of the week. To me, emotional intimacy (described above) is much more important than physical intimacy (FS). I can live without the latter but not without the former lol.

[roamingguy 300292]

I feel normal now...whew

I love the intimacy, hugging, kissing, talking etc

The sexual aspects too, but the intimacy is at least for me more important.

And I've found with my first repeat lady, it's even better the second time around, and assume third, fourth etc etc etc time around

RG

[sexy bbw vero 425]

I was speaking about new sp's who JUST entered the buisness. I meant would they choose full service then switch over to gfe because they had just became a sp, which giving intimac.y to a person who you do not know might be difficult(plus more in the case of gfe). I will take that out because it is a little confusing. But I meant that FS does not always include a gfe menu, with such things like kissing. I was just stating that I am seeing more of that.

 

Thank you Mister for clarifying your question ... I apologize for my misunderstanding ... now it's pretty clear! :oops:

 

To answer your question ... I can only talk about my own experience here so ... the way it happened for me ... well, when I got into the business, I didn't know about all that terms ... acronymes. I was just enjoying myself very much with the clients and one day, someone told me about the forums and everything ... so I knew that I was already categorized in reviews as GFE / PSE ... So i never really decided ... like making a choice of being or not that way ... I just always stayed the way I was before ... like when I was dating in "normal" life.

 

I know there's a lot of differents girls in that industry and we all have our personal reasons to be or not GFE ... of course! lol And you know, the most important, in my opinion, is that everyone must do what they are confortable with ... and being clear and true with clients about their limits ... there's business for everyone... as much differents that we could be! ;-)

[quick25 137]

I Just meant that I am easy to please and enjoy the company of any lady.

 

Bait and Switch....although I'm not sure how it relates to what we're discussing

[Guest f***2f***]

I never repeat with one I don't get some kind of connection with, I guess it's the GFE factor. I tend to be a repeater with those I do connect with because of that. I must say it's difficult when they quit or take a break for a while because of that connection. The GFE offerings are about the ladies knowing what we want and providing the service. I also think that the business has evolved to a point where there a lot of great ladies out there who genuinely go the extra mile. Thanks ladies...you rock!:motion:

[Nicolette Vaughn 294340]

Offering a GFE service and actually being a GFE are two different things. There are many unsavoury escorts and agents who will advertise this but when you get there, it's a completely different story.

 

To me, being a GFE is not only offering a more personal kind of service by kissing, etc, it is more in the provider's attitude. One can provide these services but if their attitude sucks or they seem distant, then it really isn't a true "girlfriend experience".

 

I have noticed in my years as an SP that it is not entirely about looks or what services are given, it is attitude and personality. If you have a good outlook towards your customers, you will go further in this business.