Help for a new lady

[KaitlynX 1010]

I am an entirely new lady to the scene of escorting. I am looking to start up next week. I was wondering if anyone had any thing I should know about what's standard for Ottawa. What's expected and stuff like that. I have a few lovely ladies helping me but I also want a client's perspective. For example one lady let me know I should have a towel and mouth wash in the bathroom so a shower is available at the beginning or end as needed.

[randy36 1078]

Welcome KaitlynX to the board. Looks like you are already getting some good advice.

 

Having fresh towels, mouth wash and shower facilities is a good idea. In general everyone likes clean bathroom, room including a neat bed. Sagging bed and mattress will be a big no. Some ladies like to have a romantic ambience with dim lights, candles (be safe) and mirrors - not a must though.

 

Lady is expected to be presentable, not drenched in huge makeup. Lady also needs to be well groomed and clean.

 

While in a meeting it will be a good idea to leave your phone as during the time client should be center of your attention. Lastly tell your services truthfully.

 

I hope the incall location offers enough discretion to you and clients.

 

All the best in this fantasy world!! You will surely succeed as you are making so much efforts to prepare.

[blacklabdog 3049]

misc:

-use and perfume sparingly

- a website or photos that convey your personality and what makes you different is important

- dont be bullied into lowering your rates

- be true to yourself

 

PS Welcome!

[GoinDown 3669]

avoid perfume or strongly scented soaps. many of us have to go back to work or home to 'significant others' right afterwards ;)

[wickedboy 1020]

A big turn off for me is if someone's house smells of cigarette smoke. the scent sticks to my clothes and is definite to bring attention when I get home. I can always shower to remove scents on me but I'm in big trouble if other people in my house smell smoke on my clothes.

[Nesbot 598]

I'll take it a step further based on what blackdog said:

 

Dont be pressured in to anything! People are strange and will try to influence you. Not only to lower your rates but in some cases increase them too.

 

Also in to services you may not be comfortable with. Stick to your own model and you'll be good.

[stewie15 310]

What everyone else said, especially around staying in your comfort zone and being yourself. Nothing sexier than a genuine personality :-)

[Perfesserj 1000]

Might seem a bit picky, but if you have a tv in the room for your encounter, please turn it off. Kind of off-putting to be competing with the Price is Right for your attention. Same would apply to phone.

 

I support what others have said about being yourself and not allowing others to pressure you into encounters or activities that you are not comfortable with.

 

 

Be well and enjoy!

[NotchJohnson 214136]

On top of having mouthwash and towel you should have a man soap for the shower. I usually bring my own but I forgot my personal items one time and came home with the smell of a woman on my body.

[Guest Prufrock Cummings]

Along the lines of perfumes and scents (already mentioned), they may also cause allergies, and if you have any pets at your in-call, you should warn clients in advance in the event of allergies.

[ekoswad 160]

No distractions....phone, tv, etc.

 

Be enthusiastic and give your best effort. That'll get you repeats.

[chocolove 150]

Don't rush your client just because you have a next client, so maybe set a time interval between them. And don't put your garbage next to your bed especially if there is a lot tissues and condms in it.

[MaverickPunter 4442]

Greetings KaitlynX ...

 

How are things going on your chosen path?

 

Do you have a link to your BP ad?

[Nora Brighton 9410]

Welcome KaitlynX! I am brand new too, feel free to reach out if ever you wanna connect with another new lady to the scene! xox

[Guest v****rias**de]

Thanks for your question it is helping me as well. I, like you, is new to this. I wish you lots of fun and success.

[swampgas 838]

Welcome! My expectation as a client...

 

The incall:

Will be safe and secure

Will be clean, tidy, and odour free, with a nice ambiance

Will have an obvious place to discreetly place the gratuity

There will be no obvious signs of previous clients (garbage, dirty sheets, wet shower...)

There will be a shower and clean towels and scent free soap and something to freshen my breath before and after.

 

You:

Be crystal clear about rates, and any extra fees

Be well groomed, fresh breath, and not damp from a shower.

Be clear about what you like or don't like or whatever is on your mind.

Make time for introductions and for clients to acclimatize

Acknowledge that you received an email as soon as you can and then actually take time to read the entire thing before responding in detail. Like you, we hate repeating ourselves.

 

I like women who take charge and politely and clearly communicate what's on their mind. Everyone is a little different and I always want to be respectful and make you feel at ease so that we can have the best time.

 

I've seen ladies who are still wet from the shower they took after the previous client, and who's kiss smell and tasted of condom, and bed sheets were spotted - not cool, won't repeat. Just say'n

 

I don't mind providing info for your screening process, but I need to feel at ease also so I would like to know your location to within a block or two. I've been to condo's where I know people and have had to decide do I go in and risk being recognized, or do I cancel at the last minute - and that's not a nice thing to do.

 

I hope you find this useful and best of luck :) I look forward to seeing some pics and maybe visiting with you.

[blowinsmoke 1083]

Apart from the great advice above I would say two things

- clear communication with your client, responding within a reasonable amount of time and nothing iffy, consistency. Of course this also applies to the client as well.

- well maintained incall. It makes a difference to me.

 

Cheers!