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[roamingguy 300292]

What makes a really great experience?

 

Other than the obvious..

television turned off, lots of towels in a clean bathroom,

a clean and tidy smoke free room and the lady into it..

 

When she comes to your door or vice versa, she is as excited and happy to meet/see you, as you are to meet/see her

A nice place, be it a nice hotel room or her incall

Pleasant conversation, nice to get to know the person you are seeing...especially over wine (soft drink in my case)

No smoking, no drugs

No tv (unless your watching a porn movie together and it's a planned part of the encounter)...but soft music in the background ok

Instead of a planned schedule of activities , relax, let the date run it's natural course...so far I've found that to be the most satisfying.

Maybe I'm slowing down in my old age, but I find kissing and cuddling provide as much pleasure as the sexual side of the encounter

Just my thoughts

RG

[moonshadow 369]

What makes a really great experience?

 

Other than the obvious..

television turned off, lots of towels in a clean bathroom,

a clean and tidy smoke free room and the lady into it..

 

Soft music

Soft lights or candles

Keep the dog or cat out of the room:-)

[Origin 268]

What makes a really great experience?

 

I agree with my fellow members above comments.

I believe we can summerize it by saying that a great experience is defined by how close it resembles sex (making love) with with someone you spent your life with or have intense emotion towards....the ultimate Girl friend experience.

 

A great SP can simulate that no matter who comes though that door.

[renegade 11027]

the guys here have covered most of the questions and i,m in agreement with their thoughts, the one thing that has amazed me in the relatively short time that i,ve been hobbying is the incredible difference in my experiences with different providers. Look at the ads out there, some are incredible advertisers everyone talks the talk but not everyone walks the walk,its like strappin on the blades you don,t know what the other teams got till you hit the ice-prior to being here i simply googled escorts and tried to figure out who i would like to meet, believe me not the best way to learn about things,the first couple of experiences i had were a true nightmare and I promised i would only try once more and as the saying goes the third time was a charm-and my first cerb girl.Since then i,ve had the- ahem- pleasure of an incall where the bathroom was so filthy i would not even wash my hands (wish i,d seen that before i gave her the envelope)but great ad !!!someone who tried to blackmail me- then a referral to someone who showed me how incredible an experience you could have could be and everthing in between it seems.All i can say is that their are definitely women who, when you are with them, provide an experience that will always be remembered and i mean always and they don,t seem to have to work at it,even if they did you never know it.!thank god for this site because you get to know through their posts most of the providers on here and it has helped me make better choices in who i,d like to spend time with, i wish i would have found it sooner-thanks for letting me ramble

[Guest al****s]

In my humble opinion, I believe that like any other profession, the person spending their hard earned cash should be the one to do their research. This poses a perplexing problem for me. CERB is by far my favourite site to be on...I love the people I have met on this site. I have learned SO much from both the SP's and the Hobbiest's. I am very thankful for CERB. I have made some very good friends who have helped and taught me a lot. With that being said, try to find a reco or review on me...you won't find one. I am from Alberta. 95% of the population on CERB are from Ottawa (or so it seems to me). The men I choose to spend time with are not from CERB (only because of geography). They have gotten to know me through EC or LES. These sites are not reco sites, so I've got nothing...except who I am. If you take the time to get to know me, you'll see that I am worth your time and worth knowing. Thankfully, my personality has allowed a couple of gents on here to request that if I ever come to Ottawa that they would love to meet me.

 

If you want an unforgettable, awesome time with a SP, get to know her. Communication is huge...at least it is for me. I am not the type to meet someone without knowing anything about him. I have to have a certain amount of chemistry and friendship before I will meet. That's who I am. Do I miss out on opportunities? Ya...but that's ok with me...quality is so much more important than quantity. I want the experience to be just as unforgettable for me as it is for you. There is nothing more attractive to me than a man who cares to take the time to know something about me and discuss what our time together would be like...can you think of a better aphrodisiac? I can't...

 

I love CERB...just sayin ;)

 

alexis...xoxo

[PistolPete 61421]

No, I can't think of a better one neither. You are so correct Alexiss that communication is so key.

 

I've been known to share my thoughts with ladies here locally and have with some ladies from out of town, how else are really going to get know each other?

 

The messages sent back and forth are with taste,and both really know their personal bedroom likes,personality even perhaps deeper thoughts.

 

It really does heighten the experience once the two of you meet. There is ladies that are on either coast of Canada and some in between that over time, either I have met,or really would like to.

 

We have either communicated through here or through emails and have kept in touch before and after her arrival in Ottawa, or she is lives in Ottawa.

 

That is what it is all about, I not worried about recommendations a whole lot, it is the individual and person through discussions I'm meeting and honestly 99.9% of the time she and I have a wonderful time together.

 

Well said Alexiss

 

 

 

In my humble opinion, I believe that like any other profession, the person spending their hard earned cash should be the one to do their research. This poses a perplexing problem for me. CERB is by far my favourite site to be on...I love the people I have met on this site. I have learned SO much from both the SP's and the Hobbiest's. I am very thankful for CERB. I have made some very good friends who have helped and taught me a lot. With that being said, try to find a reco or review on me...you won't find one. I am from Alberta. 95% of the population on CERB are from Ottawa (or so it seems to me). The men I choose to spend time with are not from CERB (only because of geography). They have gotten to know me through EC or LES. These sites are not reco sites, so I've got nothing...except who I am. If you take the time to get to know me, you'll see that I am worth your time and worth knowing. Thankfully, my personality has allowed a couple of gents on here to request that if I ever come to Ottawa that they would love to meet me.

 

If you want an unforgettable, awesome time with a SP, get to know her. Communication is huge...at least it is for me. I am not the type to meet someone without knowing anything about him. I have to have a certain amount of chemistry and friendship before I will meet. That's who I am. Do I miss out on opportunities? Ya...but that's ok with me...quality is so much more important than quantity. I want the experience to be just as unforgettable for me as it is for you. There is nothing more attractive to me than a man who cares to take the time to know something about me and discuss what our time together would be like...can you think of a better aphrodisiac? I can't...

 

I love CERB...just sayin ;)

 

alexis...xoxo

[Guest **cely***r***ne]

I thought I would re-surface this thread as I have a question for the gentlemen...

 

Q: When you have made arrangements for a duo what is your part?

Do you watch?

Are you involved?

Or perhaps a little bit of both?

[etasman2000 15994]

This is actually a question for you to answer.

 

Some ladies are fully interactive which makes watching super fun, others put a great deal of focus on the client.

 

Also each client would have very specific expectations, and comments made here would likely not apply to the individual case.

 

I thought I would re-surface this thread as I have a question for the gentlemen...

 

Q: When you have made arrangements for a duo what is your part?

Do you watch?

Are you involved?

Or perhaps a little bit of both?

[PistolPete 61421]

Oh I love it all! Shower for 3, playing for 3, I stand back and watch 2 ladies make mad passionate love while stroking myself, and then of course jump right in there without feeling left out :)

Sensuality and sexuality is simply heaven when time is spent with 2 women that really get into it with each other and with moi ;)

 

I do like a lot of the attention too though, nothing like 2 ladies kissing you from head to toe,with a stop at the other head..and watching them :)

 

 

I thought I would re-surface this thread as I have a question for the gentlemen...

 

Q: When you have made arrangements for a duo what is your part?

Do you watch?

Are you involved?

Or perhaps a little bit of both?

[Guest **cely***r***ne]

This is actually a question for you to answer.

 

Some ladies are fully interactive which makes watching super fun, others put a great deal of focus on the client.

 

Also each client would have very specific expectations, and comments made here would likely not apply to the individual case.

 

Yes, I do suppose this question could apply to the ladies as well!

I would like to hear your responses to this ladies....

 

For me I like to please the lady first....make the gent squirm in his seat as he watches us. Along with a little of us teasing him...but no pleasing......yet.

Then maybe after pleasing her, my lady friend and I would attack him... so to speak.

 

@Pete:

I do like a lot of the attention too though, nothing like 2 ladies kissing you from head to toe,with a stop at the other head..and watching them

 

Woooo! It feels hot in here.... My imagination is running wild now hahaha

[Katherine of Halifax 113932]

Well as we both know your imagination will not have to be in play much longer. I will leave it at that. :icon_smile:

[roamingguy 300292]

I thought I would re-surface this thread as I have a question for the gentlemen...

 

Q: When you have made arrangements for a duo what is your part?

Do you watch?

Are you involved?

Or perhaps a little bit of both?

 

I haven't partaken in a duo yet but I think it would be both, starting with watching the ladies play, then getting to play as well.

RG

[Winnipegcub 21293]

Angel, thanks for rejuvinating this thread and your specific question. GREAT timing for me. Last night was my first duo experience (RECO to come). It took some planning/preparation to find just the right ladies. And boy did I ever. Your question was part of what I was specifically looking for. I wanted two ladies who would be interactive with each other but at the same time I didn't want to feel like the 3rd on a date. I knew what I wanted before, well as best as I could describe it, and found two ladies who perfectly fit that. So yet again proves how valuable respect, trust and good communication is in a meeting. Cub