GFE definition

[xxxAxxx 21016]

i believe you just explained to everyone the importance of the boards. However, the topic is still at hand - how do you know a woman's idea of GFE is the same as yours? in your specific case, you are willing to gamble....some men prefer not too, and yes, that's why they rely on reviews. Again, reviews are still not 100% as every man's experience differs...as we've seen many times in previous posts/threads, YMMV is always a possibility. I can understand that having only "GFE" in an ad can be very vague these days, as opposed to listing an entire menu. But like i stated previously, i make it easy to approach me with any questions prior to setting up an appt, there is never any pressure to book, jst willingness to co-operate in deciding if i am the right SP for you. Dissapoinment can happen on both ends and I like to avoid it at any cost. Of course, not all SPs are as open and friendly as i am with answering questions, but i know for a fact i can't possibly be the only one. This may also relate to a recent topic about how graphic an email should be in asking questions, and that thread jst proves that not everyone is as "free spirited" as I (and this applies to you Kubrick as well, apparently, in that u mentioned being shy etc...). My advice? don't gamble and you can't lose. Use the boards wisely, and don't be shy in asking questions....what's the worse that could happen? she says no? she doesn't reply? then she must not be the right SP for you....aren't u glad u didn't have to spend $ to find that out? ....oh but wait, if she is deceitful about her services, u might get burned....that's the worse scenario for a client i imagine....again....isn't that why we are all here in this little online community??

[Guest f***2f***]

you forgot the BFE (boyfriend experience) ....hump for 2 mins then pass out. LOL

 

haha that's hilarious...what's a safe BFE....passes out before the shagging even begins??:D

[xxxAxxx 21016]

lmfao

ya for sure

hahahahaha

[jg24 3708]

Alexxxis definetly PSE with all you offer and I dont think anyone could be dissapointed in your service I know been great when I have been with you

[xxxAxxx 21016]

well as hard as i try, i can't make EVERYONE happy....but I'm glad it works for u!

 

;-)

[WearAJimmy 101]

Well, I'm glad that this subject came up. I, for one, am extremely shy. To this day, I still don't have the courage to call up an Escort. I'd love to and I've got the money, but I just can't seem to go through with it. I've read reviews and the people here have been kind enough to give me recommendations but I always think I'm just going to end up embarrassing myself.

[xxxAxxx 21016]

i think i speak for all SPs when i say this....

honey - u'd have to be real unique to suprise me....i think ive heard/seen it all.

[WearAJimmy 101]

Haha, thats good to know, Alexxxis. If I finally do get the courage to call up an Escort, you would defiantly be the one I go with.

[curious chloe 100]

People need to learn the difference between GFE and PSE. GFE refers to how your treated, a more relaxed, non-rushed environment. PSE refers to getting nast, almost like a free for all.

Taylor

[Joyful_Jillian 102]

Pot of Gold - you totally rock. I love your openness.

 

My website isn't up and running yet so I communicate online by email or chat with every prospective client, quite extensively. I am a message board maven of sorts - been around other boards (not SP related) for years. Any prospective client serious enough to subscribe to and follow a message board is my kind of guy. Pot of Gold is right; this is a community and it's great we can have a place to interact and share our opinions.

 

The introductory email I send to prospective clients' alternate email address includes a LOT of detailed information, pictures, physical description, ground rules, and services.

 

As questions come up, I refine my advertising piece in a way that attempts to leave no questions unanswered and no details unaddressed.

 

I do appreciate communication beforehand because, as stated previously, once the door closes and gift has been noted, there should be no more negotiation required. Here, may I help you out of those clothes? We won't be needing them where we're going ... then it's up the stairs to nirvana ... under the big silk sari canopy over my bed, where we can let the games begin.

[PistolPete 61421]

People need to learn the difference between GFE and PSE. GFE refers to how your treated, a more relaxed, non-rushed environment. PSE refers to getting nast, almost like a free for all.

Taylor

Curious Chloe, I have been with SP's that advertise that they are PSE, and I can honestly say they really get into the sex, not a nasty side to them, but THEY REALLY like all of the sexual interaction...may it be BL/BS/BBBJCIM/Tea bagging...well you know what I mean.So that issue I tend to believe it is not nasty but really good hard core sex.Now GFE can be simply that....like you said very relaxed with CBJ no DFK but it all depends on the SP and the client.If you both hit it off when you 1st meet your SP may want to take it up a notch..and I have been with a few of those ladies as well. All in all its what you are searching for and YMMV.

[loneskater 25635]

Now GFE can be simply that....like you said very relaxed with CBJ no DFK

 

I can understand that everyone views GFE differently but it does stand for Girlfriend Experience. Therefore if I had a GF that won't kiss I would be kicking her out and then looking at my lips in the mirror. As MOD mentioned in one of the news article, cities should not try to change the meaning of escort through bylaws. Well we should not try to change the meaning of Girlfriend by advertising GFE if the SP doesn't want to kiss.

[mod 135640]

Ok, I obviously need to explain this.

 

PSE, GFE, ROBOTIC, MECHANICAL, ETC... These are STYLES of service and not actual SERVICES offered like DFK, CIM, BBBJ, ETC...

 

I have witnessed most of these terms online since the beginning... and this is the best advise I can give you on these terms...

 

The term "GFE" (Girl Friend Experience) started because some of the ladies were being referred to as "Mechanical" (get the job done as quick as possible, very robotic, no interest shown, etc...).

 

The GFE term came about as being the opposite to "Mechanical" meaning the experience is warm and inviting with the fantasy of actual sexual attraction, comfort and interest shown. More of a caring and erotic service. Usually kissing, caressing and a sexual interest was shown to the client to make him feel comfortable and to make the experience more enjoyable (even if it was not genuine it was displayed as an act and part of the fantasy and experience). Kind of like a new relationship where you romp every night and explore each other.

 

Bottom line however is... it is NOT a mechanical feeling or the dead corpse as someone so gracefully referred to it back in the day! A GFE service also is not someone who is a "clock watcher" (This doesn't mean you can overstay your welcome however).

 

I would NOT expect anything more then this when you see this term. Anything else added to this term has it's own abbreviations such as DFK, BBBJ, COF, Etc... so you can not assume these things are included when you see GFE. If they are offered you should see them along side the GFE.

 

PSE (Porn Star Experience) was started to simply say "Above and beyond the normal service". Usually means very enthusiastic, multiple positions and such things as COF or CIM or GREEK (But you would need to clarify this as it could exclude these things as again it's just a generalization of the style of service and not the actual services offered. Pretty much what you would see in the xxx hardcore movies (It DOES NOT mean sex without a condom)

 

For those of you who think GFE and PSE mean more then what I have said above... My advise to you is that your just setting yourself up for disappointment. Do not assume things are included as these ARE NOT specific services! These terms are generalizations as to "the style" of service you can expect to receive and NOT the actual services offered.

[explorer69 3513]

The above discussion just shows how inconsistent the use of "GFE" is on this Board. Everyone clearly has their own interpretation. Therefore could those of you who describe someone as GFE, please indicate whether dfk/bbbj/daty are included. That will avoid confusion/disappointment.

Thanks/merci.

[castle 38816]

you forgot the BFE (boyfriend experience) ....hump for 2 mins then pass out. LOL

 

Alexxis you've obviously never had a boyfriend like me:P..........I can go for AT LEAST 5 minutes.....and usually make myself a sandwich or something before passing out,lol.

[xxxAxxx 21016]

you forgot the BFE (boyfriend experience) ....hump for 2 mins then pass out. LOL

 

Alexxis you've obviously never had a boyfriend like me:P..........I can go for AT LEAST 5 minutes.....and usually make myself a sandwich or something before passing out,lol.

 

MEN CAN MAKE THEIR OWN SANDWICHES?!?!?!?!

 

 

wow - I have been heavily deceived.

[freestyleswimmer 100]

The above discussion just shows how inconsistent the use of "GFE" is on this Board. Everyone clearly has their own interpretation. Therefore could those of you who describe someone as GFE, please indicate whether dfk/bbbj/daty are included. That will avoid confusion/disappointment.

Thanks/merci.

 

The thing is, as many have also indicated, PMMV (P = peoples', yes plural)

so if A got DFK'ed, B, c and D might not. (Lower case "c" not intended but I decided to leave it as is.)

[castle 38816]

MEN CAN MAKE THEIR OWN SANDWICHES?!?!?!?!

 

 

wow - I have been heavily deceived.

 

Are you kidding? Most men are practical masters in the kitchen. It's all about the gourmet KD baby!

[the lurker 160]

Ahahaa! No better way to attract a women then Gourmet KD... Ifin' you like it rough! lol

 

Ya see single guys have to do it all (even laundry and windows) if they want to survive to old age.

 

But just have to add. What's up with menus and the GFE acronym? Do civies come with menus? Well maybe if she is a waitress... Ah the best of both worlds. A cute woman that can feed you!

[capitalman 3861]

I've had girlfriends that just laid there and didn't care for sex much, so an SP saying GFE could mean that, and I've experienced SP's like this.

 

I've had SP's that are so into it you think you're being filmed for a porn...and they didn't advertise as GFE and cost half as much.

 

It's all a YMMV thing. This board helps you find what you're looking for and helps guarantee a sure thing, but it's not fool proof. Just my humble opinion.

 

Personally I think if someone advertises as GFE they should be providing the same service as if they were my girlfriend. BBBJ, DFK, hugging and conversation and act like they're enjoying it, even if they are not. Unfortunately the term GFE has become watered down as everyone is using it whether it's genuinely offered or not. I'm beginning to think it means nothing now.

[loneskater 25635]

As MOD often repeats, BBBJ, CBJ, DFK are type of services and have nothing to do with GFE. GFE is a style of service meaning her approach, personality, conversation etc. I can say I had GFE service from an MP and only got manual release. So you can not link GFE to having a BBBJ and it is wrong to say that some sps are not GFE because they do CBJ CBJ. In these day and ages, you may meet a girlfriend who will not give BBBJ on a first date. Some will not even give BJ.

 

However if some SP just layed there and did not care much for sex as you mentioned, that is a different story. But then it is just poor service on her part. However she may still provide great conversation. Do you say your girlfriend is a not a GF because she is poor at sex. You know many hobbiest are here because their wifes are poor at sex. But their wifes are still their wifes. The titel GF or wife is not based on how good sex is. Same applies for GFE. GFE should not be taken for type of services.

 

And yes there is always YMMV and it is quite possible you did not connect with a certain SP and had an average experience. It happened to me before with a girl from an agency that was well reviewed. She is still around and has been around for quite sometime so I figure she must be good. Just probably saw her on a bad day. That is why we often talk about chemistry and it is different for all of us.

 

As for prices yes if the chemistry is not there you may have a worst experience with a more expensive SP. Price doesn't guarantee chemistry. However IMHO that usually highr priced SPs are more consistent with the quality of their service. Finally, price is not a requirement for making recommendations. So If you know of any good quality SPs, please post a recommendation.

[capitalman 3861]

Well I don't want to poke at anyone, so I see the error of my ways. I've removed a few key words from my post, I hope you will do the same. I hate a flame war and I'm not going to get into one. I'm just a guy with an opinion, that's all. Cheers.

[loneskater 25635]

Well I don't want to poke at anyone, so I see the error of my ways. I've removed a few key words from my post, I hope you will do the same. I hate a flame war and I'm not going to get into one. I'm just a guy with an opinion, that's all. Cheers.

 

That is great, different opinions is what makes this board interesting. We just have to be careful when writing our opinions as to not point fingers at board members hobbiest and SPs/MPs. Other boards like doing that, so lets keep CERB different.

[capitalman 3861]

Yes, I just need to be kept in line sometimes.

 

According to Wikipedia (can I say that name here?) ->

 

The girlfriend experience (commonly known as GFE) is a type of service a female prostitute offers which includes acting like a girlfriend to the client.[1]

This generally involves more intimate relations than a traditional call girl offers, and may include kissing[2] and/or french kissing, cuddling[2], and foreplay. By contrast, many prostitutes refrain from kissing for fear of contracting herpes or because they see it as a more emotionally intimate activity than sexual intercourse without kissing. A call girl advertising provision of a "girlfriend experience" is implying that she kisses, provides a "full service" (intercourse) experience with protection, and does not necessarily as strictly limit her service by time and/or ejaculation as many prostitutes do. Advertising a "girlfriend experience" is sometimes used by prostitutes and pimps to promote business.

A corresponding term (used to describe a client who acts as a lover instead of merely a participant in a commercial transaction) is "BFE" or "boyfriend experience".

[rabbitrunner 110]

While we all have our ideas of what GFE means, we do need to keep up our end of the bargain as well. Not once have I had a girlfriend roll on a condom before oral sex. With that in mind, I've been clean and shaved for the most part.

If I've been eating onion sandwiches and drinking beer all day, why would I expect my GF, or SP, to want to participate in any form of kissing, let alone DFK? We need to keep in mind that this is a two way street, that involves two parties/individuals.

 

Having said that, I don't know how you can rate someone a GFE when there's no kissing, DATY, and only CBJ. I've had some lousy girlfriends, but c'mon...