1/2 hour vs hour

[AndrewR 308]

Any difference between what services can be expected between 1/2 hour and full hour visits? I'm no cheapskate but sometimes a 1/2 hour works better for my schedule and sometimes I sense that the lady would have rather had a 1/2 hour due to their schedule.

[WhereIRoam 21825]

Personally I have never experienced a difference in service.

I usually only book a half hour on my first visit with a provider I have never seen before and if I choose to see them again I usually book for an hour.

[Daisy Mae 2693]

Slightly in contrary to what's WhereIRoam is saying, it's probably best to book an hour for the first time with an SP if you intend to do more frequent half hour visits- gives you a chance to get to know her well, (instead of a quick wham van thank you ma'am) and then helps set the mood for future appointments.

 

Though I doubt there's much of a difference in service... likely less intimate/lying around time, but the fun for sure still happens.

 

Don't fret too much on it :-)

[blacklabdog 3049]

I agree with Daisy. I've never booked less than an hour myself but for a first meeting, I expect there is some initial get to know each type conversation even if we've previously communicated by text or email. I do know some MA's might not do pre & post shower if booking less than an hour, although for some the cut-off is 45

[lesuisse1234 186]

I do not see a difference in the service department between 1/2 or 1 hour session. For me I need that longer appointment.

[Samurai 7678]

I've saw this question asked once before. My perspective remains the same and has served me well. I personally love the hour, I've been know to book 2 hours for duo's but, for first dates, I don't just book an hour with anyone.

 

My hour is reserved for:

-A well established (G F E) lady or agency with a good website, a good gallery, good reviews and that states GFE. This is because you are pretty much, based on my experience, going to get what you are hoping for both physically and service wise.

Also, if they are a fairly established lyla member that's always a major +, but I need a gallery no matter what or where they advertise.

 

My half hour is for:

-Backpage unknown roll of the dice. I am very selective in which ads that I'm willing to risk my safety and money on but still the risk is so much higher when browsing on forms like BP.

 

If you are a little bit unsure its better to book for the hh in my honest opinion.

 

Now if you get there and you're like...wow....super happy, it's easier to ask if you can increase the session to the hour as that's actually a compliment

But walking in and saying...um...can we just do the half hour instead is more than a bit awkward.

Having said that, if ever you feel you were bait and switched...I feel it's our duty to turn around and leave even if it's awkward. Staying only perpetuates this sleezy behavior, contributes to the dark side of the industry and makes it more difficult for legit ladies because we as customers become jaded and paranoid.

 

So in short, out side of a busy schedule, risk dictates session time.

High risk, short session

Likely bliss, long session

[AndrewR 308]

Thanks for all of this great information. I've learned to appreciate through Lyla what a great thing Lyla is! Loads of good information and good advice.

[casey 2936]

Also, I would like to add a point or two about personality. Are you are a chatter person or an extrovert? Are you a person who likes to enjoy more on a journey rather than to reach the final destination? Do you wish to get to know her more, e.g. hobby, interest etc. (not her personal life of course)? As we gent love to receive pleasure, would you enjoy pleasuring her as well? Do you love affection? (you have to show them first most of the time)

 

If all the above answers are yes, one-hour is okay.

[Parker 19761]

Any difference between what services can be expected between 1/2 hour and full hour visits? I'm no cheapskate but sometimes a 1/2 hour works better for my schedule and sometimes I sense that the lady would have rather had a 1/2 hour due to their schedule.

 

Depends on the lady..

But- there are some things that really aren't much fun when rushed, so I don't offer them during shorter dates.

[Guest st*****ens**ors]

In my (limited) experience, I prefer a longer visit, because the intimacy of conversation and cuddling is a highlight for me. The only provider I ever book for a half hour is one with whom I've already developed a friendship. We can drop back into a pleasant connection so easily that I'll squeeze in an occasional half hour between my preferred longer visits. We pick up a conversation where we left off, which is really lovely.

[Guest Prufrock Cummings]

I've never booked less than 90 minutes, because anything less is too rushed. I prefer 90 minutes for a first encounter and two-plus hours for any repeats.

[WhereIRoam 21825]

Other things that can factor into length of visits for some punters is how often one hobbies and what their allotted budget is for an SP or MA. In regards to the industry, in a perfect world, I personally would share hours with a different SP everyday if I could. Some may choose to partake in the industry a few times a week, some once a week and some once a month or even less than that. Some prefer to share their visits with just one, some two and some with a different provider almost every time. All these possibilities do have some control over length of time spent with a provider. It is up to every punter to find what "comfort zone" suits them best. Truly, there is no real right or wrong here, it's all about your own pleasure!