How escort rates work?

[Dave in Phoenix 753]

I doubt most guys have a "budget" but simply seek an escort when the mood is right and have some extra cash.

[Guest v**do****g]

Very interesting read and rates are a very touchy subject.

 

The bottom line is that as a client you just pay to see who you can afford to see and never barter rates or complain about them.

 

If someone says one wrong thing about rates on review boards all the old man clients or the woman herself will rip your head off. lol

[casey 2936]

Thanks for providing a wonderful insight on how an Sp sets her rate without bringing the topic into more sensitive areas.

 

From my personal experience, it is very unlikely that an Sp quotes an offer after a session unless we choose to ask. Maybe it just me, but I find it quite unsexy to ask for a better rate say, if I can meet her once per week. Does it work if it is merely based on promise? There is no contract/MOU to sign? There must be a strong reason behind (like voodooking had said), Sps may not reduce the rate even if you frequent them. Usually, the only thing happens would be in terms of better and better chemistry developed between provider-client during the sessions. Having said that, I would not dwell into many types of possible YMMV one may get.

[Nicolette Vaughn 294340]

Thanks for providing a wonderful insight on how an Sp sets her rate without bringing the topic into more sensitive areas.

 

From my personal experience, it is very unlikely that an Sp quotes an offer after a session unless we choose to ask. Maybe it just me, but I find it quite unsexy to ask for a better rate say, if I can meet her once per week. Does it work if it is merely based on promise? There is no contract/MOU to sign? There must be a strong reason behind, Sps may not reduce the rate even if you frequent them. Usually, the only thing happens would be better and better chemistry developed between provider-client during the sessions. Having said that, I would not dwell into many types of possible YMMV one may get.

 

 

I have had clients I see every week for multiple hours during the years. They were/are my best clients and I will always bend my schedule to accommodate theirs. They are the President(s) of my VIP club. A lot of my time is spent catering to them.

 

In these cases, there is no contract but a promise of them expressing that they want to meet every week and this isn't something they say and not do. They actually follow through.

 

So you begin to take them seriously as you can trust their word. In this situation, they get more time with me instead of a rate reduction because they will be visiting every week. Without going into private details, I am more generous with my time as not all time is spent in the bedroom but the rate itself is NEVER lowered. With other gentleman who visit every week, there has been an agreed upon rate and some don't have qualms discusssing it.

 

Other gentlemen I haven't discussed rates and it is nothing below that I was receiving the first time we met for a couple of hours.. I have been taken on trips for the weekend ( with a special weekend rate) with second row seats to a favorite performer, spa days, given very expensive gifts so I am very generous with my time.

 

Many times I cook lunch or dinner for them, buy them gifts for their birthday.. I will do a healing meditation, long massage or listen to anything they would like to talk about or what is on their mind at any particular time.

 

This could be viewed as a Mistress type relationship but not quite. I appreciate them and they appreciate me. There is a very hightrust level that has been established in terms of being a confidante to them..They are very kind and generous and I'm the same with them. I believe they have come into my life for a reason and I've appeared in their life to help them.

 

When the chemistry and connection is great, these arrangements tend to just fall into place. This is a rarity but it can happen. I could not do this with all clients as the chemistry really has to be there. The chemistry is different when you spend an hour with someone as opposed to hours or days although they are both there.

 

We become friends, text here and there throughout the week and tend have a lot in common. I could spend hours and hours with them and it always goes by way too fast. Some of them I have a friendship on a soul level and care for them deeply but they know the boundaries.

 

I am there to help them with what they are missing with their existing partner or their life in general. Nothing happens outside the SP-client relationship and it works for both of us.

[Boomer 33202]

I doubt most guys have a "budget" but simply seek an escort when the mood is right and have some extra cash.

 

Most of us don't have a rigid budget, but there is only so much disposable income to spend on recreational activities, especially if there is a partner involved. Bills are cyclical, so it's not hard to forecast when spare cash is available for stepping out, so most do in effect budget informally.

[WhereIRoam 21825]

My benefits with repeat visits with the same SPs have occurred in a few different ways.

 

This one is obviously only when time permits for both of us. I usually always book one hour or longer visits when repeating with an SP. If I'm ready to leave after 45-50 minutes I won't always lay there or try to make sure that I am there for the full 60 minutes. Sometimes I know I'm there for a little over an hour but she doesn't rush me out. Her benefit occurs on occasion. When the hour is near she has softly said to me, "Feel like one more?" Sometimes I have the time and sometimes I don't. I never expect it but when it is asked and I do have the time... how sweet it is!!!

 

With a second it is pretty simple. She offers a service as an extra. When I know I want it when I get there I include it in the envelope. On occasion when I don't include it she will turn to me and offer it. Again, sometimes I accept and sometimes I don't. (Ok so I do most times.)

 

With another provider, and this has only occurred once. The benefit was a pleasant surprise. As I came in and placed the envelope and walked to the living area she came right up behind me and handed me back the envelope and said, "No need for this one." Have I ever expected since, no! If it occurs again will I be thankful, of course.

 

With some others I never had any benefits but it never stopped me from seeing them. Really, it doesn't matter how one would prefer to show appreciation for repeat clients as there is no wrong here. With those who do show appreciation, does it entice me to or subconsciously make me want to see them more than others who haven't? Yes, it does.

[Tempted Monk 5057]

I'd like to add some remarks based on my personal experience regarding this topic.

 

Escort or private companion is a business of course and many business rules are applicable including the rates depending on market. But at the same time it is very specific, very personal one and the best escort service is always based on some sort of relationship. And because it is very individual - again, just my personal impression - higher rate does not mean better service, at least not for every guy.

 

About being regular client...Over years, I was a loyal client of several Ladies. And, except maybe one case, I never had any direct rate discount. But I always had the other signs of appreciation which were really important for me.

That could be keeping specific day and time reserved for me, not booking any other clients close to my session, spending more time with me just talking over the glass of wine or being my "shrink". Several times I got a free session as my birthday present - and the best thing was not free session itself (what is really nice:-) of course) but the fact that she remembered about my birthday. Or special lunch prepared for me with my favorite pancakes - that woman was (and is) really special. She retired from business now but we still meet from time to time.

 

A lot of good memories when I go back remembering my escort "relationships" (or maybe relationships without quotes?)...

[Phaedrus 209521]

Without going into private details, I am more generous with my time as not all time is spent in the bedroom but the rate itself is NEVER lowered.

 

This has been my experience when I've made a connection with someone. There's no discount on what's in the envelope; you just get more time for your money.

 

Most of us don't have a rigid budget, but there is only so much disposable income to spend on recreational activities, especially if there is a partner involved. Bills are cyclical, so it's not hard to forecast when spare cash is available for stepping out, so most do in effect budget informally.

 

Yep. I'm definitely in this category. An expensive weekend away, or an unexpected car repair... these things mean that the money I have for recreation and life's curve-balls is now unavailable for spending on the activities we're discussing here.