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Hello,

 

I have been pondering for some time about going to a massage (erotic, relaxation etc) and i decided I want to do it on DEC 27 as a belated x-mas gift to myself. I really enjoyed reading the reviews of the woman from ALO. I was thinking about Oasis in Ottawa east (I live in Ottawa east-Cumberland) as i guess Oasis is the only location close by?

 

What do I ask for if i would like special service, "ending" etc. I am really shy at first and well just feel nervous. How much money should I bring over and above the standard hr rate? Are these places clean? do i need to bring anything else with me?

 

Any advice will be greatly appreciated based on your personal experience or providers recommendations (not sure which lady's are on this BB), I will return online in the AM.

 

P.S. Money is tight hence not going the route of an escort as I don't have hundreds to spend..

 

:?Thank you..:confused:

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just walk in.....ask for a massage.....with a relaxing stress relieving finish......

 

if you want more the ladies will often ask if there is more you would like.......like topless....full nude.......

 

but honestly.....I would recomend that instead of going to one of the parlours......you go see an independant first.....tell them by email it is your first..and it will go alot more smoothly

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My personal preference is to have an all-inclusive price. I dislike talking about money when we are supposed to be having fun.

 

But if you are at a place that has a menu, just wait for the lady to ask you "what you have in mind" and tell her: "I'd like a topless/nude/release/body slide" or whatever it is you want (within the normal massage boundaries of course). The MA's hear requests all day long, and I'm sure your request of a release is probably the tamest they get, so don't feel bad asking for it!

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Antlerman and Megan'sTouch offer some great advice. Suggest that you read it a couple times and come up with a scenario in your mind and you will be almost there.

 

The toughest part is going inside the studio and getting that first session. In fact, the first few will be stressful but after about 3-4 it will start to get easier and the butterflies will go away. We have all had that first one and it is the most difficult. Go in there with a positive spirit and confidence, smile and be polite and you will have no problems.

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I would also recommend seeing an independent massage provider first, as the atmosphere is warmer and friendlier and probably more suited to a shy first-timer as I was. I also strongly recommend Megan.

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Your sweetness brings out the sweetness in all of us! Your approach is a perfect start for us shy newbies. :-)

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What do I ask for if i would like special service, "ending" etc. I am really shy at first and well just feel nervous. How much money should I bring over and above the standard hr rate? Are these places clean? do i need to bring anything else with me?

 

P.S. Money is tight hence not going the route of an escort as I don't have hundreds to spend..

 

:?Thank you..:confused:

 

You won't really have to ask for the special service yourself, it'll probably come up by itself during normal conversations. Just answer it normally, i.e. handjob, nude, etc. As for prices, we can't discuss that in public, but you can PM me for a general guideline.

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I agree with Whiteman. I also found that getting completely nude when they ask you to undress usually gives the signal to the MA that you might be open to their extra services.

 

 

 

You won't really have to ask for the special service yourself, it'll probably come up by itself during normal conversations. Just answer it normally, i.e. handjob, nude, etc. As for prices, we can't discuss that in public, but you can PM me for a general guideline.

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